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Something Is Going On Here - Was That Night Real?

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 Have you ever had the feeling that there is more here to life than we know?  Something deeper than just living our life from day day..... more than just the normal grinds of daily life.  How can there be such beautiful sunsets in this world and so much pain and suffering?  How does the whole de ja vu thing fit in?  Are coincidences just that.... coincidences?  There has got to be something more going on here.

I have three stories that I have no explanation for.  Are they just coincidences?  (The stories can get long so I'm only writing about number 1 here and will post the other two in my next post.)

 1a.I woke up one night after having a bad dream.  This is years ago, just out of college.  I was very disturbed by the dream and it made an impression on me as I sat there in bed.  A few years later, the dream forgotten, I was visiting my brother, with my future wife, at Syracuse University where he was a senior.  He brought us to quarters night at a local bar.  Basically, the bartender flips a coin.  If you get 2 of 3 correct, you get a free beer.  (Gotta love college!).  So there we were, sitting at a brass railed, mahogany bar with the bartender flipping quarters when I get hit with a de ja vu.  In my dream, years earlier, I was in a brass railed mahogany bar with my brother and a woman and the bartender was flipping quarters.  In my dream, a man then walks in and stabs my brother.  My brother thought I was crazy, but I insisted that he and I leave the bar just to take a quick walk.... to get out of the bar.  We did.  My brother was not stabbed.

1b.That same night at the bar.  I was at the back wall of the bar, behind the pool table where I had a view through the pool room, past the bar and to the front door.  I notice a man walk in wearing a very bright tye died shirt.  I thought.... that is a cool shirt.  I watched the man.  He made his way through the bar, into the pool room, around the pool table and came right up to me and said, "Do you have a pen".  A little taken back, I said no.  He thanked me anyway and I watched as he walked back out the front door.

 1c. That same night, I am standing at the end of the bar looking at the juke box.  I hear someone say, "Martin!"  I turn and look down at the other end of the bar.  There is a guy standing up on the footrest of the bar stool looking at me and he says, "Do you need another beer?"  I thought that it was strange that I could even hear him over the din of the bar.  I didn't know him and wasn't even sure if he was talking to me.  I turned to see if anyone was behind me that he might be talking to.  When I turned back.... he was gone.

Now.... maybe I was hallucinating?  I doubt it.... have never hallucinated before that, nor after that.  Maybe I was asleep.... nope.... definitely not asleep.  Needless to say, I never went back to that bar again!

It has been years and my wife and brother still think I'm crazy from that night, but I know it happened!  There is definitely something going on here.

Do you have an explanation?

Stay tuned for story number two - "The woman in the art gallery"

Comments(15)

Todd Jones
Weichert Realtors - Hibble & Associates - Clarks Summit, PA
How many free beers did you win that night?!?!? 
Dec 06, 2007 12:14 AM
Bill Gillhespy
16 Sunview Blvd - Fort Myers Beach, FL
Fort Myers Beach Realtor, Fort Myers Beach Agent - Homes & Condos
Maybe you should have focused your visionary skills on flipping those quarters !
Dec 06, 2007 12:31 AM
Karen Hurst
RICOASTALLIVING.COM - Warwick, RI
Rhode Island Waterfront!

Good morning, Martin.

I definitely believe there is more to life than most people realize. Some people say "there are no coincidences"!

I also have three "outer wordly experiences" just off the top of my head. It's easy to brush off these things and go about your daily life, however, by keeping your mind open, you will "know":) But be prepared for the people who do not keep their minds open!

Dec 06, 2007 12:33 AM
Mesa, Arizona Real Estate Mesa Arizona Realtor
Homes Arizona Real Estate LLC - Mesa, AZ
AzLadyInRed

Martin:  You asked: "Have you ever had the feeling that there is more here to life than we know?  Something deeper than just living our life from day day..... more than just the normal grinds of daily life.  How can there be such beautiful sunsets in this world and so much pain and suffering?  How does the whole de ja vu thing fit in?  Are coincidences just that.... coincidences?  There has got to be something more going on here."

Yes, I definitely know we're not alone.......nothing happens by "chance," and we are here on earth for a purpose.  Great illustration of that fact.

Dec 06, 2007 11:39 AM
Melissa Grant
A Serendipity World - Greenbackville, VA
The Law of Attraction In Life & Business
Hey, you didn't even invite me with all those free beers !
Dec 06, 2007 10:15 PM
Tina M. Atilho
William Raveis Real Estate - Milford, CT

Everyone does have an inner voice.  If we listen very closely and attentitively it is there.  Some people think you had too many beers.  That could be possible.  But it also can be possible that your inner voice was trying to protect your brother.  That inner voice is called a gardian angel.  Corney as it sounds.  Some people laugh.  I believe.  You should too.  You experienced it.  Don't let anyone make you not believe.  It's in your heart.....

Dec 06, 2007 10:34 PM
M A
Boston, MA

Todd - I certainly had more after these events!!!  I hadn't had very many when I experienced the first event.

Bill - I was thinking I should have focused them on the stock market!!!

Karen - I definitely keep an open mind and have some friends that don't.  That's all ok.  I believe and that is all that really matters.  Thanks for the comment.

Deborah - Thanks for the comment.  I look forward to reading your post.  Get it up soon!!!

Teri - Thanks for the comment.  I agree!

Melissa - I have a quarter and a six pack... .come on over!

Tina - It has different names for different people, but there is definitely something!

Dec 06, 2007 10:44 PM
South Austin Real Estate Blog
Sky Realty South Austin - Austin, TX
Martin, its what I call your "knower" or your innerself.. When you know in your knower something is true or right or going to happen you must listen to it carefully.  Some where I read its a survival skill we possessed in primitive times that we don't listen to now ..  some of us still do listen as you did when you walked your brother out of that bar that night.
Dec 07, 2007 01:53 AM
Joanna Schlansky
Showcase of Homes, Realtors - Burlington, MA
I think that some of these comments bring up some good points.... exactly how much free beer did you get?  :-)
Dec 07, 2007 07:35 AM
BLR Guy
BLRGUY(Beach & Luxury Realty Inc) - Saint Pete Beach, FL
Nope you aren't crazy Martin(well maybe a little)LOL From what I read,everyone has the ability to be psychic....some do this through de ja vu dreams....Feels freaky though
Dec 07, 2007 11:44 AM
M A
Boston, MA

Gail - Sometimes I listen... sometimes I just tell the voices to be quite!!!  :-)

Joanna - What beer?  :-)

BLR - Yes... a little crazy!  :-)

Dec 08, 2007 01:04 AM
Tom Plant
WINEormous.com - Murrieta, CA
Martin - That's downright spooky. Yikes. You gave me the shivers.
Dec 08, 2007 01:11 AM
Danny Thornton
R & D Art - Knoxville, TN
WordPress Guru
Martin, that one is a little spooky. Ever watch Ghost Whispers?
Dec 08, 2007 02:47 AM
Elaine Hanson
Coldwell Banker Realty - Malibu | Topanga - Malibu, CA
REALTOR - Topanga, CA Real Estate Agent

Martin -- Anything can happen.  How is it possible that our minds and spirits should be so confined to one plane of being?  I love hearing things like this.

BTW -- I was really good at quarters in college (the bounce the quarters game).  Bring over some Sam Adams and you're on.

Dec 09, 2007 05:27 AM
M A
Boston, MA

Tom - Gave me the shivers too!

Danny - Never saw it.  Would probably like it!

Elaine - Bring it on!!! 

Dec 11, 2007 04:07 AM