a helping handWe did not truly understand the implications of our decision to purchase this way until we decided to sell the home.  After the transaction was closed, we contacted the agent to tell him we had moved.  What transpired next was one unsettling conversation.  He asked us how much we had bought the home for and when we told him, he calmly offered to send us the comparables for the area.  Ouch...we had bought approximately $10,000 above what many homes in the area were selling for.  But of course...our home was much nicer.

When we sold the home 4 years later, we found out that a nicely decorated home doesn't negate the Location Factor. A lack of knowledge can be expensive. We didn't make a lot of money out of the home, but did sell it to an elderly gentleman who wanted to live close to his rental property investments. 

So, what did I learn from this experience?  I learned to never say "I told You so" when clients make poor choices.  (At least, I try real hard not to.) I understand that they're only doing the best they know how.  We were so naive and unschooled in the implications of making this type of a financial decision.  To his credit, the broker simply kept in touch with us from time to time over the years.  Remarkably, I ended up working for him many years later.  I think he earned his commission...

I also learned how important professional representation is. The reality in a real estate transaction is that each party aims to WIN.  It's called Self Interest. This is why real estate agents must clearly TELL you whose interest they are representing in the transaction.  It's refered to as Fudiciary Duty.

The Seller was much older and wiser. We were eager to be pleasant and ready for a home. That's a potential recipe for a disaster if you're an unrepresented buyer. Looking back, things could have turned out much worse than they did.  We were fortunate. All in all it proved to be a good place to start as first time home buyers and we met some nice neighbors.  It also afforded us rental income which enabled our move to our next home.

The Question is: Would I make the same decision today? Absolutely NOT.  Today, I understand that a good agent would have done the following:

Helped me understand the neighborhood values

I would have been provided with a comprehensive market analysis. 

I would have been given counsel about issues which were addressed by a certified home inspector

My contract would probably have asked the seller to contribute towards costs

And, I would have been advised to offer market value rather than giving away future equity. 

 A good agent would have looked after my interest when I was too enamored to be adequately observant. 

This experience has been a Gift to me.  I am not irritated when clients want to look at homes being sold by unrepresented Sellers aka FSBO's.  I remember where I was a short time ago and how much I really needed someone to help me through the process.  I make sure my clients KNOW that I can help them buy a home even if it is not listed on the MLS system.  I tell them that I am comfortable negotiating on their behalf. 

And then I explain to them WHY what I do can help protect their investment.  I start with the List above. Most of the time, our clients purchase homes listed with real estate agents.  But when they don't, I can rest assured that they have been well served because they were assisted by the services of a good agent.

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19 Comments on FSBO Survival Guide...Buying & Selling Real Estate Without Help (Part 2)

A great 2 parter, Lola.  Aside from paying over market vlaue, you were very lucky! 

12/12/2007 01:14 AM by Roswell Georgia Real Estate Agent - Nancy Rivera (RE/MAX Leading Edge in Roswell Ga)


Lola- What a great article about representing a buyer through a FSBO deal. I am always right up front with my buyers that I will represent them on any home they want to purchase. You say it so well in your post. Thanks for sharing. Katerinaco

12/12/2007 01:56 AM by Nestor & Katerina Gasset, RealtorsĀ® Wellington Florida Luxury Homes (International Properties and Investments, Inc.)


Fabulous Part II Lola.  You hit so well on how an unrepresented buyer can be hoodwinked into only seeing the roses, not the thorns.  

12/12/2007 03:54 AM by Kris Wales-Macomb County MI Real estate (RE/MAX Advantage 1, Inc.)


Nothing teaches as well as experience.  Thanks for your well thought out post.

12/12/2007 08:41 AM by Karen Webster...Grand Rapids, MI Realtor (5 Star Real Estate, Grand Rapids MI)


I have found my greatest learning experiences have been when I was the actual buyer or seller.  I actually just wrote a post last week about being a seller several years ago.  I used a Realtor as I didn't want to represent myself but I STILL had many problems and learned so much that has helped me with my clients!

12/12/2007 09:27 AM by Lake Norman Real Estate ~ Diane Aurit (RE/MAX at the Lake)


Lola, As usual with your multi part stories I started at the back. Now I'll go read the rest and then comment.

Bill Roberts

12/12/2007 02:31 PM by Bill Roberts - "Baby Boomer" Retirement Planning (Brooks and Dunphy Real Estate)


Great story, Lola. Thanks for sharing your experiences. Hopefully any buyers who read this will understand what we bring to the table.

12/12/2007 04:21 PM by Kelly Sibilsky ~ Lake Zurich RE/MAX Real Estate Agent (RE/MAX Unlimited Northwest)


You were fortunate that there was nothing too seriously wrong with a 100 year old home with no inspection. Although new sewer lines are not cheap.

It's one of those things, you don't know what you don't know.

12/12/2007 04:22 PM by Melina Tomson, M.S. Salem Oregon Real Estate Specialist (Tomson Burnham, llc)


Lola, FSBO's just don't know what they are missing without professional representation.

12/12/2007 04:31 PM by Gary Woltal - REALTORĀ® Dallas Ft. Worth (Keller Williams Realty)


Nancy, I prefered to think of it as being "watched over by angels."  Looking back, I am so thankful that things turned out as well as they do.  It was a blessing and an experience from which I learned a lot.

12/12/2007 08:01 PM by Lola Audu~ Audu Real Estate~ Grand Rapids, MI Broker


Katerina, Thanks for your comment.  I want buyers to know that they can talk to me freely about ANY home they are interested in.  I will be there to help them.

12/12/2007 08:02 PM by Lola Audu~ Audu Real Estate~ Grand Rapids, MI Broker


Kris, Thanks for your comment.  Your imagery is so on target...roses are beautiful, but they do have thorns which can truly hurt if one is not careful.

12/12/2007 08:04 PM by Lola Audu~ Audu Real Estate~ Grand Rapids, MI Broker


Appreciate your stopping by to read and comment Karen.

Diane, it's always good for real estate agents to go through the home buying and purchasing experience from time to time.  It reminds us of what our clients go through.

Bill, Thanks for your patience with the system.  The last post is always the first even though it is posted as the next installment.  I appreciate your stopping to read both! :)

12/12/2007 08:07 PM by Lola Audu~ Audu Real Estate~ Grand Rapids, MI Broker


Kelly, You're Welcome.  The services of a good real estate agent are worth every penny plus a bonus. :)

Melina...I was very fortunate. After I got my real estate license I understood more fully what could have happened.  I'm thankful that in my case, it didn't.

Gary, you're right.  Thanks for stopping by to read and comment.

12/12/2007 08:09 PM by Lola Audu~ Audu Real Estate~ Grand Rapids, MI Broker


Lola - I just read both parts of this story - and you are tremendous!  The pitfalls you covered and the benefits of adequate representation should be part of every real estate class in the country.  Thank you for such a informative post.

12/12/2007 09:40 PM by Carol Smith, ReMax Preferred, REALTORĀ®, Toledo, OH (www.calltoledohome.com)


this is another good post on a topic we discuss so often - FSBOs have NO IDEA what they are getting themselves into! If they did, they would be looking for a GOOD agent to represent them!

12/13/2007 10:59 AM by Bill & Barbara Jo - Florida Realty Professional - AHWD (Charles Rutenberg Realty)


Carol, Thanks for reading Part 1 & 2~  I've worked with many clients over the years who bought "without help."  Some of the stuff that I've seen has been chilling.  People just don't know what they don't know.  It's really sad when this happens to first time home buyers.

12/13/2007 06:27 PM by Lola Audu~ Audu Real Estate~ Grand Rapids, MI Broker


Bill & Barbara Jo, Good agents do much to facilitate the process. Often we don't truly communicate what we're doing to get the job done.  I truly didn't understand what my agent could have done for me. 

12/13/2007 06:30 PM by Lola Audu~ Audu Real Estate~ Grand Rapids, MI Broker


Your post is very helpful, and if you prepared your house there will be next problem - sell your house FSBO. There are lots of sites on the web that can help you with it. But nowhere I met good helpful services. And when I got at Fizber I was surprised. There were so many services like finding schools at http://schools.fizber.com/ or finding videographers at http://videographers.fizber.com/.

06/30/2008 07:51 AM by Villy


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