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When It Comes to Real Estate, Your Friends May be Embellishing the Truth

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Real Estate Agent with Long and Foster Real Estate VA License # 0225089470

When It Comes to Real Estate, Your Friends May be Embellishing the Truth

I can not tell you how many times, as a licensed, professional real estate agent, I have run into stories about the awesome deal my client's friend got.  The tales are like fish stories my Dad used to tell.  You know, the story in which the mega fish that got away changes six inches to a foot in length from one retelling to the next.  That's what the deal you are recounting that your friend got sounds like to me.  Unfortunately for your friend, who wants to be the most amazing negotiator ever when they recount their tale of real estate prowess, the facts of real estate transactions are there in the tax records for the world to know.

That home your friend bought for $600K that was listed for $1 Million was indeed listed for $1 Million two years prior.  The market tanked and the home lowered its price and lowered its price as values came down.   Know how much it was listed for and what your friend paid?  It was listed for $725K and your friend got it for $699K.   Was it worth $1 Million when your friend bought it?  I'm afraid not.  It probably wasn't worth $1 Million when it was initially listed years ago.  The true market value at the time your friend bought?  $$700K.  Congratulations.  They saved $1K!

What about the friend the bought a foreclosure for $150K?  Eh.  Not so much.  They paid $178K.  Why did they tell you they paid $150K.  I don't know.  Pride?  Turns out that the foreclosure they paid that much for was probably only worth $160K, given the amount of work you say they put into it.   I suppose they've figured that out and now what to adjust reality to make them look better.

If you've hired a licensed, professional real estate agent to help you navigate the market, TRUST THEM.  They must hold a license to do their job.  They are ethically bound to do what's right by you.  Your friend can lie to you up one side and down the other.  Sure what they are telling you sounds good, but it may have no factual basis at all. And every real estate agent knows that facts and figures are what matter in real estate, not fish stories.  

Comments(19)

Lori Dee Doerfler
Realty ONE Group, Mountain Desert - Lake Havasu City, AZ
Helping NEGOTIATE through the real estate noise!

You beat me to the punch on this.  Have a fabulous day!

Mar 26, 2012 07:54 AM
Linda K. Mayer
License # 01767321 - La Verne, CA
Realtor, SRES, SoCAL, A REALTOR YOU CAN TRUST

This is a great one, ChrisAnn!  I suggested it.  Wish I could reblog!  (Hint HINT)

Mar 26, 2012 08:11 AM
Cindy Jones
Integrity Real Estate Group - Woodbridge, VA
Pentagon, Fort Belvoir & Quantico Real Estate News

It works the same with sellers.  But my neighbor got X. Yet when we look in the MLS or the tax record the neighbors X often turns into a Y.  It also doesn't usually include what they might have paid out in buyer subsidy either.

 

Mar 26, 2012 09:52 AM
Jim Patton
Aspire Home Real Estate 209-404-0816 - Modesto, CA
Realtor - Stanislaus ,Merced, San Joaquin Counties

Great post Chris Ann.   Usually by the time the story gets aroun to the third or fourth telling it's fantasy.  

Mar 26, 2012 11:04 AM
Susan Haughton
Long and Foster REALTORS (703) 470-4545 - Alexandria, VA
Susan & Mindy Team...Honesty. Integrity. Results.

Excellent!  I had someone tell me once about a friend who got a "great deal."  I listened to the details and blurted out, "yeah, he's lying" before I could stop myself.  LOL  I pulled it up in the MLS and printed out the FACTS.  His mouth just dropped open.  It's public record, for crying out loud!  Why lie?

Mar 26, 2012 12:26 PM
Nancy Conner
Olympia, WA
Olympia/Thurston County WA
Amazing how many people do stretch the truth...or believe their neighbors who are also coming up with "sales prices" that bear no resemblance to reality.
Mar 26, 2012 03:01 PM
Scott Godzyk
Godzyk Real Estate Services - Manchester, NH
One of the Manchester NH's area Leading Agents

Chris Ann I hear this all the time, i go back , look it up and find they are saying it like it is. Why boast especially to a professional who knows better? Have a great day

Mar 27, 2012 12:31 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Lori:  I get really tired of hearing about the friend's deal.  Whenever we boil it down to what the friend actually paid, it is never the deal the client thinks it was. 

Linda:  The friend's deal is rarely as awesome as they lead people to believe.  And I'll make this one rebloggable. 

Cindy:  So true.  It's funny how people embellish the truth when it's such an easily verifiable fact when you look at tax records.  And, it kills me when my clients, when confronted with the actual real number will say something like, "Well, that's wrong because my friend said they got it for..."  PLEASE!

 

Mar 27, 2012 03:21 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Jim:  Exactly.  "When we bought the the hosue for $100K below market value, we also noticed a unicorn in the back yard."

Susan:  I don't know.  I guess people don't realize it's public record, or maybe they think no one will look it up.  They'll just sit there in awe of their buddy, the awesome businessman that he is.

Nancy:  The cold hard reality of thing is this, no one is getting an amazing deal without assuming some risk...like those that buy on the courthouse steps.  THERE are some good deals, but who knows what you're really getting when you stand out there to buy a foreclosure.

Scott:  In our area, we find a lot of people that want to be better than their friends, therefore, they lie.  It's really pathetic.

Mar 27, 2012 03:26 AM
Cheryl Thomson REALTOR Ret Army
United Real Estate DC Metro Region (703.216.5635) cheryltee47@gmail.com - Prince William, VA
Associate Broker in Northern Virginia

Hi Chris. See when that happens I let them know I'm not going to compete. You'll never get anywhere if a person does that to you and won't stop. I quickly remove myself if they are not going to listen. Lots of time and energy wasted.

Mar 27, 2012 03:43 AM
Kristin Moran
Owner - RE/MAX Access - KristinMoran@Remax.net - San Antonio, TX
San Antonio,TX - Real Estate - 210-313-7397

Awesome post! I hear about these things all the time.  I am always available to present the facts to folks as well!

Mar 27, 2012 03:44 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Cheryl:  I think we do owe it to our clients to point out how following fairy tales is not going to find them buying a house any quicker. If they insist on living in fantasy land, I'm not the agent for them.

Mar 27, 2012 03:46 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Kristin:  There's a good story for the sake of pumping yourself up in front of friends, and reality. 

Mar 27, 2012 03:50 AM
Jon Kolsky
Kolsky Realty & Management - Long Beach, CA
Licensed California Real Estate Broker

Chris~ Fun stories are great, but so is reality! I think there is a difference between pumping an image or not being truthful! The sad truth is there will be those pontificating their ideals, some people need education of some-kind just to behave! Sad truth! Great Blog!

Mar 27, 2012 03:59 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Jon:  I could get on my soapbox about human behavior and be there all day.  Don't get me started.  It sucks when you feel like being a good, ethical person makes you an oddball.

Mar 27, 2012 04:52 AM
Curtis Van Carter
Better Homes & Gardens Wine Country Group - Yountville, CA
Your Napa Valley Broker Extraordinaire

Chris Ann

Have I got a deal for you and it involves GOLD. Yes, the Golden Gate Bridge is for sale and you could get it on the cheap if you ACT NOW. I promise not to tell anyone you paid $44.23 for it and you can tell them any price. Sound good. Quick, sign here for I have a fishing date. cheers cvc

Mar 27, 2012 04:58 AM
Marianne Infusino
RE/MAX HomeTowne Realty - Franklin Lakes, NJ
RE/MAX - FLOW Area - 201

Love it Chris Ann ... and when I hear them, I shake my head in silence and make no comments ... Hey, its their parade and they march to a beat of a different drum ... and SOMETIMES, silence is GOLDEN ... Thanks for shariing ... Marianne 

Mar 27, 2012 05:00 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Curtis:  Love your sense of humor.

Marianne:  It's hard when they want to change up their house hunt based on the fish story their friend told them.  For instance, had a buyer not too long ago that wanted to double the price limit in hopes of getting the deal their friend did.  Ugh!  That's when you HAVE to address the issue of their friend's deal.

Mar 27, 2012 05:35 AM
Gene Riemenschneider
Home Point Real Estate - Brentwood, CA
Turning Houses into Homes

You know this is so true.  People have all kinds of stories.  Yep that may sound like a good buy on a 4000 SF home, but did your buddy mention it had a 5000 SF lot on the freeway on ramp.

Apr 16, 2012 03:13 PM