I have a pet peeve.  Ok, I have several, but I have acknowledged that which is the first step in eliminating them.  Driving to my in-laws this weekend for an early Christmas get together I had the opportunity to see, what I consider, several inconsiderate drivers.  You may have come across the same ones.  Here are some of my observations from that drive:  car in front of me is turning right, but first comes to a complete stop and then swings so wide left they cross the center line causing on coming traffic to stop; driver traveling 15 miles per hour below the posted speed limit with 12 cars lined up behind them (I was number 3) trying to pass with little to no safe passing areas; sitting at a red light, traffic is backed up, driver pulls out blocking the intersection and my light changes to green.  As I sat through the green light I began to wonder if the driver intentionally blocked me in (and the other cars behind me) or did he just not have a clue?   Was he so focused on himself that he didn't realize how his actions affected others? 

As a real estate agent my responsibility is to provide timely and quality service to my customers and clients.  However, we can't let that focus become so consuming that others in our lives see us as thoughtless or uncaring.  A wise man once told me that "Perception is reality."  So, if people think you are being inconsiderate, you are.  I have to remind myself of that daily.  Now, you can't please everyone all the time, but you should be aware of how your actions may be perceived by others.  I don't want a loan officer, a closing attorney, another agent, client or customer to see me as the driver that is blocking their intersection.    

Maybe the "inconsiderate" drivers will help me remember to return phone calls and answer emails promptly, always be on time to my scheduled appointments, double check to confirm everything is set for the closing, etc.  What about you?  What actions have others done that you would consider as "blocking your intersection?"  Have you been the one "blocking the intersection?"

After the intersection cleared and I was on my way again I took a deep breath and relaxed.  After all, it is Christmas. 

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!