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It is better to be seen AND NOT HEARD!

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Real Estate Agent with Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 UT DRE# 6541633-SA00
It is better to be seen AND NOT HEARD!
Remember the saying...It is better to be seen AND NOT HEARD?
 
This quote was a big part of a southern upbringing and was enforced quite regularly. Adults said it to young children to let them know they were not part of the conversation. 
 
I grew up hesitent to voice an opinion and learned to stifle and did so even when I knew I should SPEAK UP! When I became an adult, I learned that you MUST BE HEARD in order to be effective.
 
In this industry, part of being SEEN is indeed being HEARD. Constantly working to connect with past clients, as well as potential buyers and sellers by making phone calls is essential and you can also attend weekly community functions or join a few marketing groups to be SEEN & HEARD further.
 
Good business habits also start with:
  • Perfecting a 30 second elevator speech that sets you apart from the crowd
  • Ask for referrals from past clients, if you did a great job, it will surely happen
  • Get up, dress up, show up & follow up...and FOLLOW-UP some more
Being HEARD + SEEN = SUCCESS!  
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Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

Right on the  money Wanda..................a big part of being seen is being heard!

Mar 29, 2012 11:41 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

And you my friend have no problem with both! Thanks Roger!

Mar 29, 2012 11:44 PM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Wanda,  You come up with some great blogs, once again this is one of them!

Mar 30, 2012 12:37 AM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

I guess if one is a burgler the title would vbe right, but as business people, we need to be seen and heard at high volume for people forget soon.

Mar 30, 2012 01:54 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Thanks Will, Another childhood memory put to rest. I am glad you enjoyed it. 

Bill, Or unless you are a secret agent!

Mar 30, 2012 04:09 AM
Donna Foerster
HomeSmart Realty Group - Parker, CO
Metro Denver Real Estate Assistant

So true Wanda.  It's important to be a good listener, but you can't sit back and say nothing!  There's work to be done!

Mar 30, 2012 05:23 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Donna, That rule just doesn't apply anymore does it? Yes, off to work we go!

Mar 30, 2012 06:09 AM
Chris Smith
Re/Max Chay Realty Inc., Brokerage - New Tecumseth, ON
South Simcoe, Caledon, King, Orangeville Real Esta

Wanda, too many times, we act like secret agents rather than Real Estate Agents...

Thanks for the reminder.

Mar 30, 2012 06:39 AM
Al & Peggy Cunningham, Brokers
RE/MAX West Realty Inc., Brokerage - Brampton, ON
Our Family Wants To Help Your Family!

These are true pearls of wisdom Wanda. Now for the follow through! Have a great weekend.

Mar 30, 2012 09:43 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Chris, Unless you are a secret agent, I wouldn't suggest acting like one!

Al & Peggy, Thank you and have a great weekend too! I will follow-up on you to be sure you followed-through and had one! ;)

Mar 30, 2012 10:24 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Hi Wanda,

I also grew up with this same type of philsophy - I grew up in the North! We all have to question whether or not the things we were taught in life are true, and most importantly, is it appropriate or even valid today?

You make a great point Wanda. We live and we learn to perfect our thoughts and behaviors.

All the best to you!!!

Patricia

Mar 30, 2012 10:42 PM
Barbara-Jo Roberts Berberi, MA, PSA, TRC - Greater Clearwater Florida Residential Real Estate Professional
Charles Rutenberg Realty - Clearwater, FL
Palm Harbor, Dunedin, Clearwater, Safety Harbor

Referrals from past clients are the bread and butter of this business! Great post!

Mar 30, 2012 10:45 PM
Tom Braatz Waukesha County Real Estate 262-377-1459
Coldwell Banker - Oconomowoc, WI
Waukesha County Realtor Real Estate agent. SOLD!

Wanda

My grandmother used to swat me for sassing and i did not even say anything at times. I like the elevator speech thing.

Apr 01, 2012 10:41 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Patricia, Some of the things that worked back then are better left in the past!

Barbara-Jo, Yes, referrals are a GREAT indication of a job well done!

Tom, Oh I can relate to that! I am still working on my speech...

Apr 01, 2012 10:57 AM