I have a friend who is constantly apologizing for just about anything. Usually, if someone disagrees with this person, rather than argue, defend or stand, they apologize. This lack of self-confidence is not normal behavior. Being UN-worthy is not taught but over takes people early in life usually during their child hood. Then, they carry it out into their adult lives
WE ARE ALL GUESTS HERE
People who are not sure of themselves attract other people who re-enforce that hesitation and doubt. No one needs any ones permission or approval to live life. A greater force has invited us all and it is incumbent upon us to support one another for the better. It's just the right thing to do
WHAT DO YOU THINK?
There is no lack of opinions for this world. Wherever we go, there is always some observation that triggers thought or calls out for our attention. It is at that time that I encourage anyone who has something to say...to say it. Approval to participate or get validated is not necessary..
INVEST IN YOUR SELF
If we do not believe in our selves, just who will? We set the value from learning on how to BE our true selves and not by conforming or acting parts just to survive. To know and be known is a most satisfying existence. Hiding while you are here is not living life but cowering before it..
ENOUGH IS ENOUGH
For those of you who were berated, put down, made fun of and encouraged to keep quiet, I say enough of that. Come out and receive your portion allotted to you just like anyone else. Even if your foot finds its way into your mouth, perhaps a joke that doesn't go well, or a statement that came out funny so what? Feel the pain of the less than perfect moment and then to recovery. Join the human race and the learning curve that everyone else is on. Apologize for being here? Not now and not ever....
We wont be back this way again.....GO FOR IT....
8 Comments on YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO BE HERE
So true if you don't believe in yourself than why will anyone else. If we really think about it: it is all the different opinions and styles that make the world interesting
Bob...all very true. What many are not aware of is that a person can stand on their own. Many feel the need to put down someone so they can stand taller...We don't have to agree on everything, but we do need to talk about it all
Richie, your last line says it all "we won't be back this way again...go for it." So very true, thanks for sharing this!
~ Live, learn, share, care, and things get better! Nice way to explain it's ok! Whats perfect anyway!
This is so very right on the mark. I'm going to re-blog for you and I suggested it for a feature!
Hello Jon...you have co-posting rights here...very good commenting thank you Jon
Hello Adrian...We hear so many relevant things...but the DOING is the part where we need to encourage one another...
Jeanne & Ralph...your support of this subject matter only tells me what decent loving people you are not just by living it out, but by acting it out....thank you for your support and participation...Jeanne & Ralph of the Durango Team...