Giving to someone who was in need during the Holidays

I was talking to a friend of mine the other night as we spent a little time going out for some cocktails as we usually do right before the holidays.

We were talking about the subject of giving. He was telling me how he used to give a present to some unfortunate person he knew. The person was genuine and he felt bad for this person because they got along well and the person seemed honest and helpful as much as they could be towards him. Kind of like paying it forward. Well a light went off in my head and I started to tell him a story of a similar experience and I wanted to share it with others.

This was about 20 yrs ago in NY...seems like a lifetime but I still remember it. I was about 25 at the time and I wasn't really looking for a career in Real Estate. I was still in the food and restaurant industry. I had taken a job in a coffee shop and was working behind the counter as a cook/hash slinger. It was a rough job...always running and listening to people screaming for their food. While I was worried about getting everyones burger cooked to perfection...I stood about 5 feet away from our dishwasher. Not a machine but this was our dishwasher and his job was to take all the dirty dishes and wash them off and put them through some contraption that supposedly ran at 180 degrees and sanitized those dishes with a shine so bright that you could see yourself.

His name was Julio. A middle age man and he was a nice guy who was very quite and basically kept to himself. He rarely said much while he was working and he worked like a dog and never heard one person yell at him to move his butt. Julio knew how to work and did the job the way he was supposed to with no questions asked. He never complained about anything. Sometimes it was so busy he would finish a big pile and then sneak in the back for a quick break...but then I would watch the waitresses just dump another pile of new dishes on the sink for him to clean. But he would just be like the Eveready bunny and just keep on going.

Everyday that I was running around like a chicken without a head....serving people listening to them tell me to give them a pickle or telling me their burger needed more fire....Julio would just stand there and smile at me while watching me get abused and I would just stand there and take it. Julio didn't have to say anything...I knew what he was thinking. But he just kept working and then when they day was over he would just say"bye amigo...see you in the morning".. and leave just to come back do it all over again the next day.

I became friendly with him and but I never knew where he lived or what he did beyond work. He was kind and we laughed and talked about boxing a lot. I didn't even know his last name and we worked together for quite some time. I then heard some talk that he was living in his car. I found this out when someone asked him his address and he said something like HJ9SO7 which was apparently his license plate number. But then I found out later he was renting a room above one of the store fronts nearby. It was during the holidays that I was talking with a friend of mine who worked there as well... about the two of us chipping in and buying Julio a TV for the holidays. We felt like we needed to do this. We weren't making a lot of money but between the two of us we purchased one for about $50 which at that time was a lot of money. We then hid it at the coffee shop and when he came in the next day we presented it to him after work.

I've got to tell you that back then I probably didn't appreciate it as much as I do now. You should have seen the surprise and the happiness in his eyes when we told him it was his to keep.

Years have gone by and I never saw Julio again after I left the business and I never found out where Julio went after they sold the coffee shop but I know if he is still around....he remembers the gift we gave him that year.

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22 Comments on Giving to someone who was in need during the Holidays

Hey Neal,  like Missy-I doubt he has forgotten that.  Random acts of kindness are great!  I think it is awesome that you did that.

12/19/2007 06:49 PM by Stephanie Edwards-Musa, Realtor ® The Woodlands, TX Real Estate (Prudential Gary Greene, Realtors ®)


Neal- you bet he never forgot.  When people accept their lot in life, and someone else comes along and adds something so significant to that quality of life.....there are just no words that can show someone else your gratitude.

This shows what a wonderful man you are.....hope you have a great Holiday :)

12/19/2007 07:03 PM by Kathy McGraw ~ Calif Broker (CELLing Realty)


Neal - This is the best Christmas Story! Thank you for sharing, it warmed my heart. Have a very Merry Christmas!

12/19/2007 07:18 PM by Guilford Connecticut Real Estate Agent, Sandra Cummings (William Raveis Real Estate)


I'm not even sure Julio is still around on this earth but I hope to track him down if he is.

Thanks for the kind words from all. Ironic that I remembered something so long ago.

12/19/2007 07:56 PM by Neal Bloom-Realtor ® Assoc.-CRS-Weston FL (RE/MAX Premier Associates)


Neal, it's so much fun to surprise someone and see the look on their face. I'm sure Julio is still around and thinks of you often.

12/19/2007 08:01 PM by Linda Scanlan (The Real Estate Referral Company)


Scott,

Thanks

Missy,

Maybe he does if he is still somewhere.

Stephanie,

It was a long time ago...less mature then too and i look back and I am surprised now.

Kathy,

Thanks for your kind words.

Sandra,

I'm glad it made your day...it was kind of sad and funny all together.

Linda,

I know he was...that is how he was ...very quiet but I knew he was happy.

12/19/2007 08:17 PM by Neal Bloom-Realtor ® Assoc.-CRS-Weston FL (RE/MAX Premier Associates)


Neal, events like that are the most special in our lives.  Sometimes we take the old saying "It is better to give than to receive" for granted, but it is very true and rewarding.

12/19/2007 09:10 PM by George Souto (McCue Mortgage Co.)


Neal... awesome story for the holidays.  It just lifted my spirits some... thanks... and Happy Holidays

12/19/2007 11:16 PM by Jeff Belonger -- The FHA Expert.com -- New Jersey mortgage -- FHA mortgages (Infinity Home Mortgage Company, Inc)


Wow...I wonder where Julio went. I loved the story Neal...you surprise me sometimes. :)

12/19/2007 11:27 PM by Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman (RA), Hawaii Real Estate & Hawaii Relocation (Century 21 Liberty Homes -Mililani, Hawaii)


George,

True...I forgot about all of this until the light went off and I remembered back long ago.

Jeff,

Thanks for reading it. I should try more to do this now then back then....Happy Holidays to you as well!

Sally,

What can I say...I'm a real softy sometimes. So I really surprised you? Next time I'm back in NY I might just have to see if anyone knows where he is or even if he is still alive.

12/20/2007 07:18 AM by Neal Bloom-Realtor ® Assoc.-CRS-Weston FL (RE/MAX Premier Associates)


Neal,
What a wonderful thing for two young, guys to do!  I bet Julio thinks about you and the t.v. every Christmas.  

12/20/2007 07:24 AM by Cynthia Tilghman, Realtor® Onslow County NC Home Specialist (Kingsbridge Realty, Inc)


Cynthia,

As long as the guy is happy..if he forgot......that's ok...I know I didn't. I look back at where I was and now where I am.

12/20/2007 07:33 AM by Neal Bloom-Realtor ® Assoc.-CRS-Weston FL (RE/MAX Premier Associates)


Neal:  What a wonderful thing you and your friend did.  I am sure Julio will always remember your kindness to him.

12/20/2007 10:10 AM by Dianne Barody - Pensacola Florida Real Estate (Century 21 AmeriSouth Realty)


Dianne,

I'm glad you found my story interesting. You are probably right as everyone as well....thanks! I emailed this to my friend he told me he remembered it:)

12/20/2007 10:39 AM by Neal Bloom-Realtor ® Assoc.-CRS-Weston FL (RE/MAX Premier Associates)


That was a touching and beautiful story. It's amazing the impact we can have on anothers lives.

12/20/2007 06:38 PM by Christina Bennani (RE/MAX Colonial)


Christina,

Thanks for stopping by...happy holidays to you.

12/20/2007 06:51 PM by Neal Bloom-Realtor ® Assoc.-CRS-Weston FL (RE/MAX Premier Associates)


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