Surviving a Politically Correct Christmas (I mean Holiday) ...

Surviving a Politically Correct Christmas (I mean Holiday) ... isn't as easy as it used to be.

The world I grew up in we never worried about offending someone by saying Merry Christmas or sending a card with a Christmas Tree or Santa Claus on the front.  Did we offend folks?  Maybe - but I never heard the complaints.

Were people sincerely offended (back then) or have we created this new offence?  It is hard to know for sure unless you were on the other side.

I have never been offended by others Religious beliefs or holidays or sayings.  That's not to say I celebrate them or would understand the traditions; but someone saying a simple "Happy Hanukkah" never then nor now bothers me.

During the Christmas (Holiday) season - In our current society you cannot turn around without hearing some story about how someone was "offended" by something.  Weather its Christmas trees in an airport or a Nativity Scene on someones own front lawn - someone is "Terribly Offended".

Have we all gone just a little overboard???   In Real Estate I cannot ask (nor do I give a damn); weather a client is Jewish, Christian, Muslim, Hindi, or whatever.  It's not an issue #1; #2 it's illegal to ask.  So I often do not know.  Yet last week; I was at a Holiday party and ran into a Title Attorney and I said the dreaded "Merry Christmas".  How could I?!?! 

Well he said "Merry Christmas back"; shook my hand and we shared a cocktail and moved on about the party.  Another agent ran over to me and said  "OH MY GOSH!  You know he's Jewish right?  You said Merry Christmas!".  (well thank goodness the world did not come to a crashing halt!)

 I was polite and said "oops I didn't know."  I got the eye like "you should have known better" and he moved on.

Was anyone really offended?  I sure don't think so.

In a nutshell here's my point:  I won't be offended if you say "Happy Hanukkah" or "Happy Ramadan" or whatever.    You should not be offended if I say "Merry Christmas" instead of "Happy Holidays".

 

Cheers to all and Happy (Gregorian calendar) New Year

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7 Comments on Surviving a Politically Correct Christmas (I mean Holiday) ...

James, aren't you on your way to Florida?  And am I not out buying a CHRISTMAS tree?  Then tonight I am going to a CHRISTMAS party - given by my favorite client who I know is Jewish because she gave me a manora for my birthday.

12/21/2007 03:35 PM by Patricia Kennedy (Evers & Company)


Merry Merry Merry Merry Christmas!  Remember the true meaning of Christmas!  I don't care what denomination you are, may your holidays be bright and you have a wonderful future in 2008!

12/21/2007 06:14 PM by Kay Van Kampen, Broker, Springfield Missouri Real Estate (RE/MAX Solutions)


i just always wish people a happy hiloday season.  i rarely say Merry Christmas anymore unless its family.  People are so diverse, no need to offend.

12/23/2007 08:51 AM by E Jeffrey Dolfinger (24/7 Realty)


James great post. Let me give food for thought? December 25th is Christmas Day and December 24th is Christmas eve. For whatever reason you celebrate the HOLIDAY, the name of it has yet to change. It is NOT Holiday Eve. So, why say Merry Holiday? Happy Holiday? Hell, that would be more than 17 times a year. On Martin Luther King's birthday, should we say Happy Holiday's? On 4th of July should we say happy holiday's? I think not on any account. Merry Christmas should NOT be offensive to anyone any more than any other holiday. Honestly, we need to get over ourselves. 

In closing, I will say this, if I say Merry Christmas and someone says "I Jewish", I will say "Happy Hanuka" to acknowledge them.   

12/24/2007 10:04 AM by Danny Thornton (Home America Mortgage, INC.)


Danny- I agree.  We don't say "Happy Holiday" when it's the 4th of July!   If I say that to a Canadian citizen - they never seem offended by that!!

 

12/24/2007 10:14 AM by James Downing - REALTOR® - Washington DC Real Estate (Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage)


Howdy James

Sorry for reading your very fine post late. I will never understan why folks are offended by the name of one of the olds holidays. Hopping you and your family had a very grad and Merry Christmas. May the New Year be good to you.

Have a good one

Dale

12/27/2007 07:11 PM by Dale Baker, Home Inspectior- in NH & VT (Baker Home Inspections and Consulting Service)


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