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Finding your happy place

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Real Estate Agent with Falcon Property Company

Finding your happy place

laughing sistersWhen my girls were teenagers, there was a whole lot of estrogen flowing under one roof.  While there were certainly times of stress, there was a whole lot of joy when six irreverent females with wicked senses of humor congregated.  When something was said that was funny but not necessarily socially acceptable, the girls would often joke by closing their eyes, tapping their forehead with their middle finger, and finding their 'happy place.'

As much as we would sometimes like to hold back the clock, it is shocking to me that I am going to be 59 this Saturday.  Life has taken some twists and turns since those long-ago teenage years, but sometimes I smile and close my eyes and think of my personal 'happy place.'  And the more that I have been thinking about this process of aging (I know, I know, we all have to do it), the more I realize that I am living in a very happy place, and a happy time in my life ~ no matter what my circumstances are.

Recently, reflecting on how blessed I am, I saw a quote that rocked my world and was a paradigm shift for me.  What if you woke up today with only the things you thanked God for yesterday?  I think about it often now.  When I look around, I thank God for what I have, and let go of the things that I don't have. 

So I would encourage you to open your eyes to what's around you.  Find your personal 'happy place.'  Think about the things that you don't want to live without, and give peaceful thanks.  These are a few of the glorious things that I'm thankful for . . .

Finding your happy place was written by Mimi Foster

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Mimi Foster
Falcon Property Company - Colorado Springs, CO
Voted Colorado Springs Best Realtor

I have an early morning, Ellen.  Being whisked away to Boulder, then a lovely evening, then come home Sunday to a family party.  Which number were you in the line up?  And seriously, I wonder sometimes what I must have commented on people's pages when I comment at night.  Thanks so much about becoming an Ambassador.  I am really excited about it.  Let's talk next week and I'll tell you.

You are so right, Joanna.  No matter what our circumstance (believe me), we have much to be truly thankful for.  I'm looking at it totally differently.

Apr 13, 2012 01:25 PM
Marti Steele Kilby, CRS
Steele Group Realty - La Mesa, CA
Broker/Owner, San Diego, CA

Mimi, your words and video ring so true in my heart.  It's all about my family!  I consider myself one of the luckiest women in the world to have such creative, intelligent, and loving children and their equally wonderful spouses....and now the most amazing grandchildren.  You too are a lucky woman and deserve all the happiness you embrace.  Thank you for opening your heart. Many hugs and best birthday wishes coming your way.

Apr 13, 2012 02:31 PM
Mimi Foster
Falcon Property Company - Colorado Springs, CO
Voted Colorado Springs Best Realtor

Thank you so very much, Marti.  Family and friendship - that's what really matters.

Apr 13, 2012 02:51 PM
Marge Piwowarski
Phoenix AZ Horse Property - Phoenix, AZ
Phoenix AZ Horse Property, LLC

Mimi, What a very lovely post!  Thanks and from my perspective of nearly 10 years seniority, the getting old is working well, so far!  Beats the alternative.  Keep living and loving and grateful for the additional years to do it in!

Apr 13, 2012 03:31 PM
Tom Arstingstall, General Contractor, Dry Rot, Water Damage Sacramento, El Dorado County - (916) 765-5366
Dry Rot and Water Damage www.tromlerconstruction.com Mobile - 916-765-5366 - Placerville, CA
General Contractor, Dry Rot and Water Damage

Loved the story Mimi.

But I really had to stop and think about this... 

What if you woke up today with only the things you thanked God for yesterday?

Thanks for the post!

Apr 13, 2012 05:20 PM
Larry O'Sullivan
Sandy, UT

Mimi - happy birthday. Don't worry about the increasing numbers. They don't exist in happy places.

Apr 13, 2012 08:22 PM
Alan Gross
PrimeLending, A PlainsCapital Company, Equal Housing Lender - Bethesda, MD
Loan Consultant

Looks like you have a lot of great memories. That's a great video.

Apr 13, 2012 09:05 PM
John McCormack, CRS
Albuquerque Homes Realty - Albuquerque, NM
Honesty, Integrity, Results, Experienced. HIRE Me!

Happy Birthday, John McCormack, Albuquerque Homes Realty, Realtor

Apr 13, 2012 11:45 PM
Brian L. Sirota, Esq.
Bristar Realty (Realtor/Attorney) - Orange, CA
For Solutions: (714) 501-7660

Meems, John McCormack and I were up half the night making your birthday cake.   Right John??

Wishing you the very best celebratory weekend!   Brian

Apr 14, 2012 01:28 AM
Susan Harding, HomeStar Video Tours
Portland, OR
Showcasing You and Your Listings, 855-579-6284

Beautiful video Mimi - you can see how much joy you've given to your family!! And wishing you the best birthday celebration filled with plenty of happy places!  

And I agree with Gayle - 59 is definitely the new 39!

Apr 14, 2012 02:14 AM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

First of all, Happy Birthday to you sweet Mimi. What a perfect week you've been having. Hurray - you deserve. And, of course I'm with Gayle, 59 IS the new 39! :)

I'd call you and sing - but I love ya too much - besides, it sounds as if you're having a wonderful adventure. I love Boulder. 

So once again, Happy, Happy Birthday to one of my best AR pals. May sunshine follow you around in the coming year. :)

Apr 14, 2012 03:54 AM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Oh, and thanks for the Bunny shot!! xxxooo We are the bunch, aren't we? 

Apr 14, 2012 03:55 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Hi Mimi,

I Love the video and always your sentiment! Happy Birthday and congratulations Madam Ambassador!!

Apr 14, 2012 05:09 AM
Tammy Emineth
Personal SEO - Website SEO and Real Estate Marketing - Frenchtown, MT
Content Marketer, SEO Teacher, Website Fixer

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! Ok, now that that's out of the way  ;-) hee hee, I do remember slumber parties and fun but I actually think now is the best times of my life and I can totally see them getting better and better. My life group asked the question the other day, what is it you want to accomplish or a goal in your life. 20 years ago it would have been to be exactly where I am today. I honestly couldn't think of my life being any better. I'm not bragging so sorry if it sounds like that. I am just UBER thankful for where God has placed me and couldn't be in a better spot... but my goal now is to travel to Italy. I do want to see more of the world. But I am perfectly content in my own little corner of it! :)

Apr 14, 2012 06:22 AM
Lee & Pamela St. Peter
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices YSU Realty: (919) 645-2522 - Raleigh, NC
Making Connections to Success in Real Estate

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Apr 16, 2012 04:08 AM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

Mimi, I can hardly ever look at those girls without wanting to smile or laugh.  I bet life was crazy at your house with that much laughter. 

Apr 16, 2012 11:34 AM
Gene Riemenschneider
Home Point Real Estate - Brentwood, CA
Turning Houses into Homes

I have 6 boys and I understand that there will be disappointments, but I love them all.  I have learned to focus on the positve.  My wife wants a little girl so bad, we may try one more time.

Apr 21, 2012 01:54 PM
Daniel Z Stoltzfus
Lancaster, PA

VERY heartwarming!

Apr 22, 2012 11:56 PM
Steve and Jan Bachman
RE/MAX Gateway, Reston, Herndon, Ashburn, Sterling, Fairfax - Herndon, VA
Realtors - Northern Virginia

Awesome Mimi. I should have had more kids!

Apr 26, 2012 11:21 PM
Rebecca Riopelle
BLINK Realty Group - Arlington, MA
Broker Associate & REALTOR®

Mimi, I just stumbled onto this blog entry. What a great entry and such a beautiful family that you have! You definitely have so much to be grateful for!  I also appreciate that quote. I should post that on my wall.   Thank you for sharing a bit of your personal life with us.

May 10, 2012 10:51 PM