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45 Comments on Don’t Talk Stink About Real Estate Professionals
At the same time, shouldn't you be able to advise a buyer that perhaps choosing another lender might be the best course of action?
Bad mouthing people just puts youo into the same non-professional class as the person you are talking about
Very good point, It doesn't to much good to berate someone, just acknowledge that this wasn't a good fit and move on.
Randy, its easier said then done, but you are very right. Often what comes out of our mouth stems from what is in our heart. Maybe if we try just a bit harder to think well of people first before speaking then there'd be less negative talk. If we actually told ourselves every morning that we will speak only kind words, we might have better results.
No matter what, if we talk bad about others it gets around, and honestly, nobody appreciates it.
Blessings.
You are so right - as professionals we need to be professoinal and speaking poorly about someone is NOT professional.
Gabe – This can be important when giving referrals.
Lenn – Possibly more people would get involved with politics if they were held to similar standards.
Mark – We could get our mouth washed out with soap.
Eve – The word fair should be removed from most things. Who decides what is fair?
Jon – When I write articles like this I never use names, just situations and behaviors.
Wayne and Jean – I agree.
The Christian Team – You are right.
Michael – There are so many people who touch our transactions. If I were asked, I may not know for sure about a few of them.
Harry – Always a good idea to get the brokers involved.
Richie – Sometimes it is best to say nothing.
Richard and Jean – Steering clear is something we all have to do. If you have been in the business awhile, you know a few folks to avoid if possible.
Tammie – I have a list of venders I and my previous clients have had good experience with. If they mess up one of my clients they are immediately removed from the list.
Sharon – Thank you! I haven’t been writing as much lately. This was my 101st post to get featured since joining Active Rain.
Phil – I try to avoid that, but am not afraid to apologize if I mess up.
Karen – The truth will set you free.
Mike M – I am sure that many have spoken or writing false and misleading statement against your Senator. The issue with politics is not just the politicians, but the campaigns and other groups who attack them.
Jon – I have to say I have been shocked by some of the blogs and comments I have read over the years. Over time some of them will be caught and corrected. Others will join and repeat the behavior.
Leslie – Keep it factual and only if it applies to the situation.
John M. – Sometimes not answering says a lot.
Thomas – I like that about the tongue rather than the foot. I may use that line.
Joceyln – I am not sure how it impacts their behavior in other countries. I would think you could still file a complaint. I just don’t know where it would go.
Erica – I do recommend local funding lenders to my clients, based on past experience. My clients can always go with whomever they wish, but most take the advice. Being in Hawaii, we do run into issues with out of state lenders not knowing our market, contracts, laws or customs. We also run into problems with the time zone differences and no loan officer on the ground here. In one case I had a loan officer tell me Hawaii wasn’t a state and the delays were normal for foreign loans.
William F. – Absolutely!
Adrian – I have even done similar with a bad potential client. I said I was not the right agent for them and left it at that.
Cathy – I try, but we are all human. I caught myself last week and was sorry it happened. I did not say anything false, but it was still not the way I want to conduct myself.
Joy – It dies change how others think of us.
It takes many professionals, such as yourself, to raise the bar and raise all of us to a higher standard.
The rule needed to have more teeth. I have never seen so much mud slung against colleagues in any other industry as our own.
Randy - I agree with the statement above that the truth is the truth though I do believe that we shouldn't bad mouth people.
Regardless of whether it is true or not, the one saying ugly things only makes themselves look bad.
"Do you think politicians and their campaigns should also be held to that standard?"
There is a huge difference between politicians and real estate professionals.
We use our knowledge, skill and experience to serve the real estate services consumer.
MOST Politicians use doublespeak, subtrafuge and outright untruths to serve themselves.
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I definitely agree with Greg #18 and I also believe the code has the reverse effect of what was intended like many of the laws of this nation, they protect the guilty from the innocent. I remember years ago one broker so enraged me that I purposely did things that caused him to sue me which is what I wanted, because of the lawsuit I was able to subpoena his records which resulted in him losing his lawsuit, and me winning my counter-suit, plus him losing his real estate license.
He was able to continue his plundering for years in large part to ethics violation claims he made with the board to chase other agents away, and he had a letter from a lawyer threatening a costly lawsuit to quiet them up. I called his bluff against one of my agents and he lost everything just as he should have.
Couldn't agree more. You don't need to be a real estate agent or Realtor to know that it's wrong to make false or misleading comments about someone.
Leslie – Thank you
Philip – Follow politics.
Christine – Not good to bad mouth, but sometimes we need to protect people from bad folks.
Joni – That is a fact.
Lenn – I think politicians should be held to higher standards. They are writing laws.
Brian – Sometimes it takes being willing to stand up for what is right.
Mike – It should be true for everyone.
Randy, This is a good statement:
...My final thought is that the Code of Ethics is a set of minimum standards. A professional never strives for the minimum.
Margaret - You are so right.
I love this article on Zite, shared by Sharon..
Zite features Randy Prothero
Aloha Margaret, thank you for alerting me to Sharon's article. I somehow missed it.
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