One of the things we have all faced is buyer's remorse. Buying a home is extremely stressful for most clients. We in the profession who do this on a daily basis can easily treat the process of buying a home like a routine act. It may be for us, but not for our buyers. This is the biggest thing they will buy in their life in most cases.
Did they get the perfect home? Did they get it at the right price? How will they ever make those huge mortgage payments? What if something bad happens like the roof leaks. Being renters they never had to deal with things like that, they just called the landlord.
This process is quite scary for many folks. As REALTORS® we not only help our clients find a property and draw up contracts, we need to take away the pain of purchasing. Being part sales person, part psychologist and part trouble shooter, I pride myself on making the process of buying a home as painless as possible for my clients.
One thing I learned early on is to never push a buyer. The worst thing you can do is push a buyer into making a decision that they will regret and possibly pull out of later. When representing a buyer patience is a virtue.
In the last week I have had a couple of clients who reminded me of that.
The first found a home they liked and decided to put in an offer. The offer was accepted verbally. A day later the buyers changed their mind before the counter offer for some housekeeping issues could be signed. I went over in my mind what had happened and questioned if I did anything that may have pushed them into a decision they were not comfortable with. To the best of my recollection I did not, but will definitely be even more sensitive in the future. The stress given to the sellers is quite unfortunate. They thought they sold their property that had been on the market for a long time. I felt real bad for them, as I completely understand how disappointed they must be. Not to mention the poor listing agent who has worked so hard to sell the property. The good news was they pulled out up front, and not after the sellers had their property off the market for a period of time. I am following up with my clients, but trying to give them the needed space to allow them to decide how they want to proceed from here.
The second client saw a couple of properties they liked. We went back two more times to look at one. We will be presenting an offer on that one. The lesson here was that they needed more time to make their decision. By giving them the needed dwell time they were able to sell themselves on which was the perfect home for them. I am convinced they will love this home and if I do everything correct they will be a great source of future referrals.
One of the great lessons I have learned in this business is to let the clients tell you which homes they like and not the other way around. A great tip my broker gave me when I started in the business was to let the client walk ahead of you and watch for their reactions and listen to their comments. Give them a little space. Of course I point out features and possible red flags, but I try to let them take it in first.
Always remember they are the ones who will have to live there and pay the bills not you.
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Once we find out they like a certain house and want to proceed we usually give them Buyer's Remorse pills.
M&M's usually wor kgreat and they laugh and feel more at ease.