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You Don't Need No Stinkin' Ruby Slippers

By
Real Estate Agent with Keller Williams Realty 0575737

As the year draws to a close in the real estate world and life in general, we will hear those who want to start with a fresh slate make all sorts of resolutions and goal setting. Unfortunately, overriding those good intentions we have at a subconscious level a doubting voice which thinks we really can't accomplish them. Questions arise like: "I'll never be able to buy that house." "I can't sell my house in this market." "I never am able to lose weight." "I can't stop smoking." "I'm just not a good student." On and on we go.

So I've summed up a powerful underlying resolution all of us should make for the things we really do want to accomplish with the fresh page we are given at the start of the year. And that is to, "Give up your limiting beliefs." It has been said if you knew your true potential it would truly scare you. Why do you hold yourself back? Fear of failure? Fear of success? Fear that you lack the skill and tenacity to accomplish something? As I've gotten older I really believe in the slogan, "Just Do It!" Get off the fence and get to work. The reality is you can accomplish pretty much anything, if you BELIEVE you can. Work on that thought for the start of next month. And stick with it.

Ruby Slippers

I'll leave you with this image. Remember at the end of the Wizard of Oz, the good witch of the North told Dorothy that the magic was not in the power of the Ruby Slippers. She had the power all along, but just had to discover it. When she finally BELIEVED there was NO PLACE LIKE HOME, back to Kansas she went.

So know that you don't need any magical power, any motivation, any self-help book to get where you want to go. You've had the power all along. The SECRET: You must believe!!

Make THAT one of your resolutions. Get rid of any limiting beliefs!

HAPPY NEW YEAR.

Marchel Peterson
Results Realty - Spring, TX
Spring TX Real Estate E-Pro
Gary, it is all about attitude.  I have a favorite story in the book the Magic of Thinking Big by David Schwarz.  It is a one handed golfer who was better than most two handed golfers. He said the right attitude and one hand will beat the wrong attitude and two hands any day.  I read that when I first got in sales 25 years ago and have loved that story ever since. 
Dec 26, 2007 03:50 PM
Jason Crouch
Austin Texas Homes, LLC - Austin, TX
Broker - Austin Texas Real Estate (512-796-7653)
Gary - What a great and creative post.  Thanks for the solid reminder about how our thinking affects our business.  Have a very happy new year!
Dec 26, 2007 04:49 PM
J Perrin Cornell
Coldwell Banker Cascade Real Estate - Wenatchee, WA
Broker, ABR, VAMRES

Gary, you are sooo right. It is within each of us. Just depends how we use it!. Sometimes it is pretty hard to believe but then try all the harder. I had forgotten about Dorothy... good model for 2008.

Thanks!

Dec 27, 2007 12:12 AM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Marchel: What a great story in that book. If you believe you can, you can.

Jason: So true about thinking. Happy New Year.

Perrin: I brought up Dorothy as a reminder. Fake it if you have to till you make it.

Dec 27, 2007 12:54 PM
Sondra Meyer:
EXP Realty, LLC - Corpus Christi, TX
See It. Experience It. Live It.

Gary, Thanks for the great post.  Like you, Just Do It has become a favorite motto.  I've already made a list of my resolutions and put them on a poster board.  After reading this, I think I'll frame it with the words, Just Do It

Sondra 

Dec 27, 2007 01:52 PM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth
Sondra: Yes, life is just too short to be "thinking about" what you want to get done. Just get busy and make things happen.
Dec 27, 2007 11:55 PM
Elizabeth Weintraub Sacramento Broker
Elizabeth Anne Weintraub, Broker - Sacramento, CA
Put 40 years of experience to work for you

Love the red shoes, too! But, I'm a sucker for red shoes. I wrote an article about how women buy red shoes. Basically, the premise is a woman will walk into the mall, spy the perfect pair of red shoes, but still feel determined to visit every other shoe store and department store to see if a better pair of red shoes exists. After spending several hours, often they end up back at the first store, buying that perfect pair. They do this because red shoes are special. But it's really a waste of time. When you spot something perfect, act on it. That's my motto.


Dec 28, 2007 04:43 AM
Chris Fisher
Your Virtual Assistant - Concord, CA

I guess red shoes are special... never really thought of it that way.  They definitely aren't "every day" shoes.  I do have a perfect pair of red shoes... but always looking for more!  : )  Happy shoe shopping Elizabeth.

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Dec 28, 2007 04:53 AM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Elizabeth: Sounds like a great motto for a home buyer to stop shopping for "another" house once they found the one!

Chris: Red shoes definitely stand out like a red dress or outfit. Isn't that the "power" color for a woman?

Dec 28, 2007 08:39 AM
Todd Clark - Retired
eXp Realty LLC - Tigard, OR
Principle Broker Oregon

I've had 4 businesses in my life and the difference between me succeeding where others have failed has always been that with me failure was not an option. I will succeed and I always have and always will. In life, marriage and what ever is presented to me.

Dec 28, 2007 04:12 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
Buy Daytona condos for heavenly good prices
Todd, this is a great but separate post. Just do it. Gary is a good guy, he will forgive us.
Dec 28, 2007 04:39 PM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Todd: That's a great attitude you have. With determination you are unstoppable.

Jon: I wonder if Nike wants royalties from everyone using their Just Do It slogan? It's a good one though.

Dec 28, 2007 11:16 PM
Julie Neerings~Lifting Hearts ♥ Building Dreams~
Agent Referral - Salt Lake City, UT
Gary-You are so right.  We do have to BELIEVE in ourselves so that we can make that next important step in our lives.  You have put this so eloquently.  I love it!  The word BELIEVE is apart of our home.  I have it sitting on a shelf when you first walk in the front door. I painted the letters and gently placed them on the shelf, with each letter I would say another sentence with the word BELIEVE in it. When I'm having a moment of struggles, I simply walk by the shelf and look at it, then remind myself of what that word truly means in my life.  Happy New Year to you and I truly BELIEVE 2008 is going to be great! 
Dec 29, 2007 04:38 AM
Joeann Fossland
Advantage Solutions Group - Tucson, AZ
Master Certified Coach to Motivated Agents
I really enjoyed this and it is clear you have your thinking working in a way that will raise your vibration to attract all you intend. 2008 is going to be an amazing year!!!
Dec 29, 2007 08:38 AM
Mary Ann Grafft
Keller Williams Realty - Lubbock, TX
Gary--another great post.  I really applaud your creativity!  Were you an Englsh or Creative Major?
Dec 29, 2007 11:55 AM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Julie: I'm glad you're a BELIEVER. There is much power in belief! Happy '08 to you.

Joeann: We attract what we think about, you are right. Happy New Year!

Mary Ann: I wasn't an English major but Engineering, but I've been writing my whole life so I guess I practice a lot.

Dec 30, 2007 05:07 AM
Karen Otto
Home Star Staging - Plano, TX
Plano Home Staging, Dallas Home Staging, www.homes

Another great food for thought post Gary.

I believe attitude shapes your beliefs and mindset and if it's bad well what can one expect?  I believe it's a habit we create just like any other. We have the power to change any given moment or situation with our attitude. 

To think of others before ourselves, to be grateful for where we are and to put ourselves in someone elses' shoes should be a habit we continually strive for and develop and put into practice. To be of service to others is one of the greatest callings and it's in the service to others we often find ourselves.

Dec 30, 2007 11:00 AM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth
Karen: You are so right that what we give in service comes back to us. Oftentimes I've heard a technique to get people out of social depression is for them to get busy helping others. It is very revealing to them how helping others inevitably helps them.
Dec 30, 2007 11:26 AM
Beth Anderson
Goedert Real Estate - Tecumseh, MI
Realtor - Tecumseh / Lenawee County
Don't forget, you still have to tap your heels together 3 times, put the tapping effort in along with your faith and away you go.  Nothing against Kansas, but I'm thinking somewhere more tropical as I look out at my snow covered woods.  
Jan 01, 2008 07:11 AM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth
Beth: You're so funny. Tap those feet now. There's no place like the Bahamas! There's no place like the Bahamas. I think you are writing a new ending to the Wizard of Oz Beth. LOL.
Jan 01, 2008 02:05 PM