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16 Comments on Out of the Box Bridal Registry Thinking! Newlyweds Want Dream Home!
What a great idea, Teri. Never mind the lender trying to sort out where all the money from the downpayment is coming from - aunts, uncles, cousins, friends :) Hmm. I think you are on to something.
Teri, this is a great idea for newlyweds planning on buying a home. The gift money, though, would need to be seasoned for quite a while before a lender would allow it, don't you think? I like the idea!
Some people already do this in the form of a "money tree" for newlyweds. I agree with the earlier comment about the need for seasoning of the funds since almost all lenders nowadays require seasoning of funds or a letter documenting the source of "gift funds" or any large, atypical deposits into the borrower's bank accounts.
Very innovative thinking. When my husband and I got married, we already had two separate households so needed little of the "typical" stuff. We did need a bigger bed so registered for that, which people contributed to (we didn't expect any one person to pay for the whole thing). Several gifts added up to our new king sized bed. So I could see how something similar could happen towards a home.
Gretchen
This sounds like a great idea, particularly for couples who may be entering into a second marriage.
Great post-interesting observations! Wow weddings are more affordable in your parts. I was a wedding DJ for 25 years and I'd say the average wedding in Cali was between $35K-$60K. That would be a great down payment on a home vs. a one day party!
I love Real Estate because it's so much like the wedding industry: first timers & experience alike-nervous over big decisions, big money on big plans and you are in charge of all of this and all along they are thinking-don't blow it dude-we can redo this once it's done.
The financial advisors love to advertise this! And what a great way to help the newlyweds save up for a down payment. I think it is a great idea!
Teri, this is a great idea! Every newlywed couple needs a place to live, and everyone SHOULD be owning.
This is practical and very doable...If you can get past tradition and all the rest of it, having a home for a start in life can do no wrong....I would gladly support and contribute to anyone who was to do this within my circle of course
Jane--I think any newlywed couple buying a home would have to explain the influx of cash if they were purchasing shortly after a wedding..It may be easily explained by produciing the signed marriage license but I guess it really would depend on the total amount of gifts.
The idea hera is to not necessarily buy a home the day after getting married but to start the though process. If a couple saves here and there on the big huge expensive wedding and ask for some gifts to be monetary, there is an opportunity to put that money to help first time buyers toward that 3-5% needed for a first home.
Maria & Reba--I would expect that by the time a newlywed couple actually did sign their closing docs the money would be seasoned.
Gretchen--Exactly! As this is a localism article, it is directed at brides & grooms to get them to think about all of the money they are spending on the wedding and receiving as gifts. While everyone deserves a dream wedding...a dream house will last longer!
Sharon--Yes...second marriages Or anyone who is combining two apartment's full of household items.
Thomas--It is a national average...there are some courthouse prices factored in I am certain! :)
Valerie--Asking for it might seem odd...but cash is always appreciated.
Joni, Donald and Richie--Thanks! Being budget minded from the get-go would really be a wise way to start a marriage and buy a house!
Teri It is not "off thr wall" - it is a fantastic idea. Congrats on the feature
Great suggestion Teri, much better than the overpriced crap that people get at weddings and really don't need.
Interesting thought! Create a fund for the newlywed's new home purchase.
Teri -- great idea to get the couple thinking along the proper lines. With regard to seasoning -- if they put the money into an account, and then have only regular deposits for the two months of statements they need to provide to the lender, they will be seasoned enough.
Part of the problem in our society, is that the kids want to start off with what mom and dad spent years building up to -- also known as "instant gratification". If your note helps some practice some "delayed gratification" they will find themselves much better off in the future.
BTW -- we were one of the "vendors" at a recent "Wedding Expo" - to get our name out before those thinking of getting married.
Fortunately for the wedding business but not for our business a Bride often thinks that her wedding day is the "most important day of her life". Since she is only doing this once......it's gonna be memorable!
Unfortunately that fabulous wedding that lasted 6 hours or so could have gone toward a nice down payment on their first house together.
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