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catcherLast night we watched a young catcher play his heart out.

 

The opposing team was playing better than our team was.  All our at bat time just did not quite connect.  The hits that were achieved were caught or did not allow runs to be scored.

 

For this team that had become quite accustomed to winning,  this was a tough place to be.

 

The catcher worked hard.  His efforts did not result in the runners being out.

 

At one point after three previous runners being ruled safe after this young man catching the ball and tagging the runner,  he looked really discouraged.

 

He kept on trying and the next runner sliding into home knocked the ball out of his glove .  To make things worse the catcher then lost his balance and fell on the successful runner.

 

The expression on the face of the catcher , as far as the mask would allow us to see, was extreme displeasure.

 

It was then that most of us wished we could give him a hug and make the unhappiness go away.

 

This was one of those times when there was nothing anyone could do or say that would make the series of events change.

 

We have all had days like this.  We use everything we have learned, do the best we can and the result is failure.

 

None of us like this.

 

We have two choices at those times.  We can indulge in self pity, or we can pick ourselves up and go on to the next opportunity.

 

When we catch ourselves falling into the self pity pit, it helps to surround ourselves with people who have had similar struggles and survived.

 

It also helps when we demand more effort and stamina of ourselves even when we do not feel motivated to do so.

 

To allow anything less will result in setbacks or the beginnings of losing attitudes.

 

Attitude is the only thing we can truly control in this life!  Make yours one of winning in all you do.

 

If you catch some bad times,  throw them out!

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Todd Hays
Exit Real Estate Professionals - Spokane, WA

We all go through the self pity stage after a defeat; I think it is part of the process. I just think it needs to be very short. Lick your wounds, and get back in the game.

Apr 19, 2012 11:13 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Jeanne and Ralph. I really like this post and the analogy was right on the money. When the catcher was really defeated he could also call a time out and go on vacation.

Apr 19, 2012 11:15 PM
Malcolm Johnston
Century 21 Lanthorn Real Estate LTD., Trenton, Ontario - Trenton, ON
Trenton Real Estate

This is a great reason why children should be encouraged to play team sports Jeanne and Ralph, they will take away so many lessons about winning, losing and attitude which they can apply to the rest of their lives.

Apr 19, 2012 11:17 PM
Jon Eliason
EXIT Realty Advantage Pagosa, Pagosa Springs, Colorado - Pagosa Springs, CO

Ralph & Jeanne ~ I love the analogy, "Throw them out!" . Success is born from failure. I think if everyone gave up after losing or failing at something, this country wouldn't be where we are today. Many inhabitants of this nation probably don't even understand that. For those of us who do, getting back on our feet, is the ONLY option. Have a great day!   :)

Apr 19, 2012 11:18 PM
Michael Maynard
New Neighbors Realty - Milford, CT
"Welcome Home!"

a winning attitude leads to a winning day, glad he started young! that will lead him well down the line.

Apr 19, 2012 11:20 PM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Good Morning Ralph and Jeanne,  Very good blog,  More people need to read this so I suggested it.  Have a great day!

Apr 19, 2012 11:55 PM
Barrie Clulow
My Time Is My Own - Uxbridge, ON

Ralpf and Jeanne - I think this quote says it all  "Change Your Attitude Change Your Life"

Apr 20, 2012 01:13 AM
Robert Bob Gilbert
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Anderson Properties - Katy, TX
Your Katy TX ( West of Houston) Real Estate Expert

Jeanne & Ralph,

As you folks said so well some days are really good and some are really bad. what defines a person I think is the ability to shake off the bad and styart over the next day. Life is full of ups and downs.

Apr 20, 2012 03:54 AM