If you don't like where you are, then change it... I know that is sooo much easier said than done, but WHY? You are not a tree... So you have freedom of choice, you can get up and move, you can change to direction you see, etc... The USA is the freeist country in the world yet there are so many people that are unhappy yet they will not change why they are not happy. They keep doing the same thing over and over.
Are you happy with your job? If yes-great, if not-- then get another job. Easy solution
Are you happy with your health/weight? If yes-great, if not-- then start exercising and eating healthier. Easy solution.
Are you happy with where you live? If so- great, if not-- then move. Move out of the house, out of the community, out of the state, and you can even move out of the country. Easy solution.
Are you happy with the relationship your in? if so-great, if not- get out of it and move on. Easy solution.
Remember... You are not a tree... so you have the freedom to make the changes in your life that are are not happy with. The tree can not.