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Motivation! Motivation! Motivation!

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Title Insurance with Patriot Land Transfer, Inc.

 Have you ever thought about what motivation actually is? If we break the word down as we were taught in grammar school...'the act of having a motive'! OK, if you don't like my definition, let's try the dictionary ( In the good old days I often told my employees there are three important books in this office...the Bible, the Dictionary, and the Telephone Book )! So Webster defines the root, 'motive', as "an inner drive, impulse, etc. that causes one to act in a certain way; incentive; goal".

Let's reflect on that a minute...kind of let it sink in...at the core of our very being is the question that each of us needs to answer...some address it openly, honestly, and realistically, others tend to circle around the issue, and some others choose to bury or ignore the entire idea! But the question within each one of us is "Who Am I"? Who...Am...I...before you jump ahead into some para psychological state, relax, and let that question sink in!

I have known literally thousands of people in my lifetime...each individual has had a marked impression on me and how I answer that question...some have had a very profound effect, while others have had a more casual and less influencing aspect on "who I am"!

 But in every case our 'data banks' are sophisticated enough to absorb everything with which they come into contact!

The deeper we're able to go to our core or center, the more profound an impact we will discover. Are you beginning to get a handle on the definition of motivation yet? How deep are you willing to go??? The only hindrance to going as deep as you can, is FEAR! We need to work on removing our fears one obstacle at a time.

There's an old but true adage, "God doesn't make junk"! We are all children of God...brothers and sisters of His family! Start there...begin to believe that! Then make attempts to journey into the core of your being...That's the ultimate motivation...And holding his hand, we have nothing to fear!

We were all created for love and by love. Not the sensual love, the noun, the feeling, the emotion, (though there's nothing wrong with that), but the verb 'love'...the action of caring for others needs before our very own...That's the yardstick, the measure of motivation.

 Our families, our businesses, our marketplaces, our cultural centers, our worship centers all benefit by people who are willing to address the ultimate question, "Who Am I"! When we successfully address the question "who am I', then we can begin to address the even bigger question "Who Are We" as a people, a nation, and  world all desperately in need of healing!!! That is what 'motivation' is all about!

Can I truly and effectively be motivated before I am able to answer that question...can I know where I'm going before I know 'Who I Am'? Make a decision now, and without fear!!!

                                                                                   

 

Alexander Harb
Knights Investing - Mesquite, TX
Dallas, Texas Real Estate Investing

So very true..... those words are clear...."We are children of God".....

He created us and has great things for us to accomplish to His glory....

Keep on running the race!!

=-)

Dec 28, 2007 06:56 AM
Jeff Kessler
Austin Homes, Realtors www.OwnAustin.com - Austin, TX
Broker,CLHMS,GRI

That is a great post Fran.  Maybe you realize how great it is to be human and have a God who loves us.

J.

Dec 28, 2007 07:30 AM
Fran Gaspari
Patriot Land Transfer, Inc. - Limerick, PA
"The Title Man" - Title Insurance - PA & NJ

Alexander: With Jesus at the center, how can you go wrong!!!

Jeff: God's love for us is unfathomable!!!

Thanks,   Fran

Dec 28, 2007 08:51 AM
Hugh Krone
Weichert Referral Associates - Hamburg, NJ
Realtor, Sussex County NJ
Whenever i am afraid i willtrust in you PSALM 56:3 God Bless you Fran
Dec 28, 2007 10:40 AM
Fran Gaspari
Patriot Land Transfer, Inc. - Limerick, PA
"The Title Man" - Title Insurance - PA & NJ

Hugh,

Check it out...more than any other admonition or teaching, Jesus encouraged His followers to 'Fear Not'!!! Thanks,   Fran

P.S. We are like an onion...you have to peel off the skin (fear), before you get to the good part!

Dec 28, 2007 10:47 AM
Marsha Cleaveland
No longer in the sales business - Glendale, AZ
GRI, AHWD, CNE

Your post motivates me to ponder my life essentials and strive for a deeper understanding of myself and my place in our world.  Thanks for the inspiration.

Dec 28, 2007 11:04 AM
Armando Rodriguez
QUEST REALTY SERVICES - Orlando, FL
Orlando Homes 4 Sale, Real Estate Broker-GRI

When I was young, I was motivated by success, money, status, fancy sportscars, fast women, clubbing all the things of this world. Those things that'll disappear, get rusty, and that you can't take with you.

Now I'm motivated by things that'll get me eternal life! Godly things!

good post, Fran!

Dec 28, 2007 12:44 PM
Fran Gaspari
Patriot Land Transfer, Inc. - Limerick, PA
"The Title Man" - Title Insurance - PA & NJ

Marsha: Thanks for dropping by and your comment!

Armando: I think you get it..."Now I'm motivated by things that'll get me eternal life! Godly things!" Try to substitute another word besides 'things'...bingo!!!

Thanks,   Fran

Dec 28, 2007 01:50 PM
Fran Gatti
RE/MAX Integrity - Medford, OR
Managing Principal Broker - RE/MAX Integrity

Fran,

Wonderful post.  Keep pointing your readers in the right direction; you have a gift for it.

Blessings,

Dec 28, 2007 02:42 PM
Todd Clark - Retired
eXp Realty LLC - Tigard, OR
Principle Broker Oregon

I love to surround myself with successful people. If they are successful, they tend to motivate me to be successful. If you talk to people who make money they all say the same thing. If you look at your five closest friends and figure out their income, you will always be the middle one. So to move up in social circles and make more money, the key is to hang out with people who make more and are where you want to be. It is an internal motivation that you don't even know exists.

Dec 28, 2007 04:13 PM
Fran Gaspari
Patriot Land Transfer, Inc. - Limerick, PA
"The Title Man" - Title Insurance - PA & NJ

Fran: Thanks for the kind remarks!

Todd: Depends on how you measure success...I have known 'successful' people who were unhappy and unfulfilled...I'm talking about being content with the person you have become or addressing the issue!!! Thanks,   Fran

Dec 28, 2007 04:43 PM
Kathy Clulow
Uxbridge, ON
Trusted For Experience - Respected For Results
Fran - They say money is the root of all evil yet we tend to measures ones success in a monetary fashion be it posessions, worldly assets etc,  but I feel one of the true measures of success is the number of people who know and say only the best things about you.
Dec 29, 2007 01:45 AM
Armando Rodriguez
QUEST REALTY SERVICES - Orlando, FL
Orlando Homes 4 Sale, Real Estate Broker-GRI

Fran, you're absolutely right. It isn't a THING, it's Christ!

Thanks!

Dec 29, 2007 01:49 AM
Fran Gaspari
Patriot Land Transfer, Inc. - Limerick, PA
"The Title Man" - Title Insurance - PA & NJ

Kathy: That may be a good definition of a saint!!!

Armando: You said it bro!

Thanks,   Fran

Dec 29, 2007 02:26 AM
Joey Remondino
RE/MAX Preferred Properties - Vienna, VA
Broker, GRI, E-Pro

Thats some good stuff, thanks for the post it helped get me pointed in the right direction today.  We all need that every once in a while.

Joey

Dec 29, 2007 02:38 AM
Barbara-Jo Roberts Berberi, MA, PSA, TRC - Greater Clearwater Florida Residential Real Estate Professional
Charles Rutenberg Realty - Clearwater, FL
Palm Harbor, Dunedin, Clearwater, Safety Harbor
Fran - another great post! Happy New Year!!!
Jan 03, 2008 12:39 AM
Robert L. Brown
www.mrbrownsellsgr.com - Grand Rapids, MI
Grand Rapids Real Estate Bellabay Realty, West Mic

Good post.

Makes you truly want to think. Let's hope we are MOTIVATED to have A GREAT 2008.

Jan 03, 2008 02:32 AM
Jo-Anne Smith
Oakville, ON

Fran,  You're one of the most profound and deepest people I've ever known...with so much wisdom that just keeps bubbling up to the top to be shared with all of those who know you.

Thank you for this beautiful post this morning; it's spoken to me some things I really needed to hear and it was very timely with what I'm going through today...another piece to the puzzle that is just beginning to take shape after many years.

Jo 

Jan 03, 2008 02:59 AM