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Newbie Again: Starting over in a new state; my story: Part 3

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with LKN Realty, LLC 242267

    Now came the hard part.  I had my license (Part1), chose my firm and set up my desk (Part 2) but now I had to sit down at my new desk, in my new office, and start selling real estate. I had no back burner let alone front burner prospects.  I had absolutely nothing other than years of experience!

For the first time in probably 12 years I signed up for phone duty and agreed to do open houses all the while trying to learn everything I could about selling real estate in North Carolina.

Phone Duty: I remember my first month or so of phone duty.  For a perfectionist like myself I dreaded it.  Phone duty not only meant talking with customers/clients but we had to run the reception desk handling incoming agent calls, paging agents, and doing just about anything someone needed done.  This was simply horrible:

  1. First of all, I didn't know any of the 50 agents so how was I to know if someone was in or not? 
  2. I had to learn the phone systems and how to "park" calls and then page the agent, whose names I would sometime mispronounce.  If I had wanted to be a receptionist I would have been one!.
  3. When an up-call finally came in I was still new at our MLS systems so between handling other incoming calls and trying to remember how to search for a price for a property when I had no clue what area it was in did not make for successful conversions.

Open houses, on the other hand, were great; except for the fact that they are not commonly held here so if I was lucky I got one or two groups through on any given Sunday.  But, at least I had prepared a notebook for each open house with the comps,  other active listings in the neighborhood, schools, maps and anything else I could think of just in case.  Each Sunday I became an expert in a new area.

Farming:  The firm I worked for had a farming company so I bought in to neighborhoods that were available and started farm mailings right away; knowing this was a long-term investment.

Acting as if:  Despite the fact that I didn't have any business for the first couple of months, I went to the office just about every day.  I got to know the agents, looked at property, listened to the agents and asked a lot of questions. 

Showing property:  My first buyers were my son and two referrals; all in the first-time buyer price ranges.  The biggest challenge was learning the areas and finding the listings.  In Pasadena I could tell you not only where every house was located based upon the address but, in the high-end, I had probably been in the home already. 

It just so happens that here in North Carolina, street names change without any warning, there are not mountains to give one a sense of North and South and the roads around the lake stop and start and wind all over the place. 

The Offer and Sale Process:  Writing offers really was't too bad since the contracts here are fairly straight forward.  This is really where my experience finally kicked in!  Once I was negotiating I was back to being the expert.  Taking care of my clients was second nature.  While I have never had an attorney closing before it was fairly easy to adapt.

 

Thanks to some great referrals, open houses and a walk-in during phone duty, I had 14 sales during my first full year after getting my license.  With each buyer I learned more about the neighborhoods and communities.  With each contract I learned more about inspections issues common in the south. 

 

After my first year I decided to leave the mega firm I had been giving almost half of my commission to and am now getting settled at a wonderful RE/MAX office.  Yes, I am still learning the agents names and the phone systems but I know now that in time I will be fine.  I am a Realtor and have been since 1991.  I know the industry, how to represent buyers and sellers and market listings.  It's amazing how quickly all of this knowledge and experience kicks in once I start working with a client.

 

I still have my bad days when I make a wrong turn while showing property or somebody asks me a question about an area that I don't know.  But, while I am beating myself about this my clients later tell me that they thought I was an expert in my new market place. 

Don't be your own worst enemy but let your insecurities motivate you to learn everything that you feel you need to know in order to be the best Realtor you can possibly be.  If I can do it, YOU can do it!

Deb Brooks
Brooks Prime Properties Wichita Falls Texas - Wichita Falls, TX
Diane, I love your determination and drive! I admire your tenacity and persistence. Reading your blog really made me feel good about you. I'm sure this is what your clients and coworkers feel also. Thus, success! Have a great 2008! Deb
Dec 29, 2007 04:08 PM
Ginger S
Wilkinson & Associates, Wilmington NC - Wilmington, NC
Wilmington NC Real Estate & Relocation~

Diane, LOL. I can so relate to much of this, especially the phone duty. In my office we did not have to juggle other calls ( unless it was weekend duty) but having to ask callers to spell the street names was a little embarassing. Excellent summary of what it's like to start over!

Ginger

Dec 29, 2007 04:30 PM
Kris Wales
Keller Williams Realty - Lakeside Market Center - Macomb, MI
Real Estate Blog & Homes for Sale search site, Macomb County MI

Diane, it's hard enough switching companies, but moving to another state and entering the industry there had to be so nerve wracking!   (Remind me to get a GPS or something if I ever visit there.  They change the names of the streets???)   

It sounds like you've not only done well, but that you've thrived.  I'm so happy for you Diane.   

Dec 29, 2007 08:26 PM
Peggy K.
Grand Property Virtual Tours - Buffalo Grove, IL
Illinois Virtual Tour Provider and Real Estate Photographer
Great job Diane.  With the right attitude and perspective, we can get thru anything.  And, you've got it!
Dec 29, 2007 11:15 PM
Diane Aurit
LKN Realty, LLC - Mooresville, NC
Lake Norman Real Estate

Andrew:  I usually embrace change and starting over but I must say I did this with a bit of kicking and screaming!

Carole: Thank you for your kind words and well wishes for 2008.  All the best to you too!

Debra:  You are so sweet...thank you so much for saying such very nice things!  I wish you the very best in 2008 as well!

Dec 30, 2007 01:23 AM
Diane Aurit
LKN Realty, LLC - Mooresville, NC
Lake Norman Real Estate

Ginger:  You've been there so you truly understand!

Kris:  Thank you!  Yes, they do change the name of the streets and not just here but all over Charlotte.  You will get to an intersection  and on one side will be one name and on the other will be another name.  For instance, one major street is known at Hwy 150 but the mailing address is River Hwy and the street signs at one point call it Plaza Dr.  Yikes!

Peggy:  I hope so...I definitely have my bad days!

Dec 30, 2007 01:27 AM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE
It is definitely a feat that you conquered with perserverance, determination and a positive attitude. Thanks Diane!
Dec 30, 2007 04:38 AM
Missy Caulk
Missy Caulk TEAM - Ann Arbor, MI
Savvy Realtor - Ann Arbor Real Estate
Diane, I am enjoying your journey.
Dec 30, 2007 07:30 AM
Diane Aurit
LKN Realty, LLC - Mooresville, NC
Lake Norman Real Estate

Sally, You are so sweet.  I don't think I have conquered it yet but I haven't given up either!

Missy:  Probably more than I am:)  Thanks for the nice comment!

Jan 01, 2008 08:47 AM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth
Diane, I loved this post of yours about starting over. I think I have gone back to it a second or third time. Your honesty is so refreshing, and you have keen observations. You can pick up roots and build a business again, it just takes time.
Jan 01, 2008 02:27 PM
Christopher Webster
EXP Realty, LLC - Columbia, SC
Columbia South Carolina Real Estate For Sale
With 14 sales~ I think you did well! Keep it up!
Jan 01, 2008 02:40 PM
Todd Clark - Retired
eXp Realty LLC - Tigard, OR
Principle Broker Oregon

I believe whatever we do in life we can never stop learning! We can never know everything, but we can still make our mind work and keep ourselves alive!

Jan 02, 2008 04:16 PM
Adam Waldman
Westcott Group Real Estate Company - Hauppauge, NY
Realtor - Long Island
DIANE - This was an interesting 3-part series.  I've joined the newbies again group.  The thought of starting all over is difficult, but you've shown that it can be done if you are determined to do it.
Jan 02, 2008 10:44 PM
Diane Aurit
LKN Realty, LLC - Mooresville, NC
Lake Norman Real Estate

Gary:  Thanks so much...I'm still struggling but here's to a great 2008!

Chris:  Yes, I had a good first year but the downturn in the market has taken away some of my best sources of leads:(

Todd:  It definitely is invigorating to start over because there is so much to learn!

Adam:  Thanks so much for joining!

Jan 02, 2008 11:14 PM
Jennifer Allan
Jennifer Allan, Inc. - Denver, CO

You wrote this so well, it was almost painful to read. I can SO feel your despair sitting at the reception desk. Being a fellow perfectionist, I'd have lost my mind (and about a gallon of perspiration).

Jan 03, 2008 03:01 AM
Diane Aurit
LKN Realty, LLC - Mooresville, NC
Lake Norman Real Estate
Jennifer:  It was pure agony! :)
Jan 03, 2008 03:04 AM
Elizabeth Cooper-Golden
Huntsville Alabama Real Estate, (@ Homes Realty Group) - Huntsville, AL
Huntsville AL MLS

Diane,

I just read your post and can I relate! I just  relocated myself and thank goodness I found Active Rain...Love it. I too, just signed up for floor duty, after not taking it for years. Back to basics, open house every Sunday, caravan each week, farming, blah blah blah. I feel like a new agent again, as I'm sure you did too! I'll keep reading your posts! I hope you are doing well. Good luck!

Jan 25, 2008 06:40 PM
Diane Aurit
LKN Realty, LLC - Mooresville, NC
Lake Norman Real Estate
Elizabeth, welcome!  Let us know how you are doing by posting in this group.  We are here to support you!
Jan 25, 2008 10:08 PM
Lynn Ikle'
Redfin - Lutherville Timonium, MD

I too, have just left my home for 20 years, to start over, only 45 minutes away, but might as well be a different state.  I plan on getting on floor duty and open houses as soon as I can.  I feel so inspired by your post and have bookmarked it to read when I am having one of those days!  Thank you!

Sep 09, 2009 01:47 PM
Joelle Ishii
RE/MAX Honolulu - Kapolei, HI
Joelle M. Ishii

Thank you so much again for sharing your story. I feel so much better heading out into a new adventure of relearning another state, everything entailed within their neighborhoods, laws, firms, and agents. :)

Aug 08, 2013 01:06 PM