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This holiday season I was blessed with a ringing cell phone. Not just one client or contact but several. New prospects. Current buyers and sellers. Past clients and friends. And of course other agents.

Each situation and reason for calling was unique. As I consider each of these contacts I realize once again how my position as a Realtor provides a glimpse like a look through the keyhole into lives. Each phone call is the beginning to a story and often the caller is asking me to play a role. When I answer a call, it could be a romantic love story and exciting adventure or sad tragic tale. As a professional real estate agent, I play this role throughout the year but during the past few weeks many stories tugged at my heart.

keyholeJust before Thanksgiving, I received a call from a young man asking to see a listing of mine in Forest Lake. He and his fiancé just drove by the home and wanted to see it the next day as they were excited by the idea of purchasing their first home. Over these past few weeks, I shared many evenings of showing homes and meeting with their families. This excited young couple decided on property and if all goes according to plan they will start the New Year in their new home.

A week before Christmas I received a response to a newspaper advertisement for a Ham Lake lakeshore home. The gentleman caller is looking for something private on a full recreational lake. During the conversation he shared that he had just finished building a beautiful lake home in Alexandria two years ago. He had lost his lovely bride of 61 years a short time ago and he didn't want to go there anymore. He was contemplating a new lakehome nearer the cities.

Last week I showed a home a few days before Christmas. It was perfect for my clients! I called the listing agent and left a voicemail. A day later I receive a call. The agent had a family medical emergency. He had another agent to handle his files but that agent decided to go on a holiday leave. Patiently and professionally, I dealt with the original agent. Unfortunately, the medical situation was serious and the family member died. Negotiations though delayed at times have been successful for both parties.

The calls don't always go as expected and the topics do not always stay exactly on real estate. A Realtor works with people and families all in different stages of life. This is important to me and the part of real estate that I truly enjoy.

As I review the holiday cards I receive from past clients sharing photos of growing grandchildren or news of adoptions and births, I realize that the role of Realtor is more than being a sales person or processor of paperwork. As I step into my clients' lives to assist them with the sale of their property or purchase of their first home, I get a glimpse of their world and the opportunity to become their friend.

If you are buying, selling or relocating to Minnesota and  need help from a professional Realtor, give me a call or visit my website for a FREE Relocation Packet.  I specialize in acreage and lakeshore properties in the north and east Twin Cities metro area including Ham Lake, Lino Lakes and all communities in the Forest Lake School District! Serving Anoka, Chisago, Ramsey and Washington Counties in Minnesota.

Copyright 2007 Teri Eckholm  http://www.terieckholm.com/



 

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42 Comments on A Realtor’s Role—A Glimpse and Opportunity to Become a Friend

Hi Teri,

     Wow, what touching stories. Keep doing what you are doing. Stay warm. 

Sal Poliandro - Bergen County Realtor

12/29/2007 06:56 PM by Bergen County Realtor, Sal Poliandro, SRES, ePRO, Short Sale Specialist (RE/MAX Properties)


Teri.....   very well written....  it just shows that we are more than just sales people to so many. Just the fact that we touch so many lives and make so many happy. Especially those that are first time homebuyers. Here is to a better 2008 for you and just not in sales... but touching more lives.

jeff belonger

12/29/2007 07:01 PM by Jeff Belonger -- The FHA Expert.com -- FHA Loans -- FHA mortgages -- Mortgages (Infinity Home Mortgage Company, Inc)


Teri, we are more to families than sales people and I feel the same way about them. I love to get cards from my past clients with seeing how their children have grown. One couple wrote on their card, "Do you miss us?"

Yes, I did they were so much fun and were local, we looked for their perfect home for 2 years. They were in flash so only when something really interesting came up did they call. And it was only one house at a time, finally we found the perfect home and they bought it for 720K, it had started at 1.2 million.

I really don't think they will ever move again, it is a stay in forever home and he owns his own business in Ann Arbor. But, it was fun and they are friends.

 

12/29/2007 07:13 PM by Missy Caulk-Ann Arbor- Realtor(R)- Ann Arbor Real Estate (Keller Williams-Ann Arbor)


Sal--Thank you! It is interesting how many lives we touch...And with a cold snap looming I am trying to stay warm!!

12/29/2007 07:34 PM by Teri Eckholm, REALTOR® Anoka County Acreage & Lakeshore Homes (Keller Williams Premier Realty)


Jeff--That is definitely the goal to continue to touch lives...Each person is so much more than a file to me as I am certain they are to you as well. Thanks for your comments!

12/29/2007 07:36 PM by Teri Eckholm, REALTOR® Anoka County Acreage & Lakeshore Homes (Keller Williams Premier Realty)


Teri - Lovely stories, I enjoyed hearing how you have touched so many lives.

12/29/2007 07:37 PM by Guilford Connecticut Real Estate Agent, Sandra Cummings (William Raveis Real Estate)


Very thoughtful and inspiring post Teri. Yes, I think Realtors are part pscyhologist, part mentor, part hand holder, and always a friend. You just get to meet the nicest people and in all sorts of life situations. Some fun, some sad, but all real. I enjoyed your post.

12/29/2007 07:39 PM by Bonnie Westbrook Grand Rapids MI Real Estate Marketing (Five Star Real Estate Ada MI)


Missy--What a wonderful story! I just got a Christmas card from a family where I sold their home. They relocated to AZ and have a cabin in WI. They sent pictures of their grandsons that I had met four years ago. I love it! Whether they send a referral or just send a card, they will continue to be a part of my world. Isn't it wonderful to touch lives like this?

12/29/2007 07:39 PM by Teri Eckholm, REALTOR® Anoka County Acreage & Lakeshore Homes (Keller Williams Premier Realty)


Teri, don't you just LOVE this business.  I love the people part and the interactions that are made in the process. 

12/29/2007 08:08 PM by Marchel Peterson Spring TX Real Estate E-Pro ABR (Results Realty)


Hi Teri,  it is all of this why I love what I do.  It does not matter who we work with..we make a positive difference in their life. Some are a larger effect than others, but either way it is am imprint on their heart and mind. 

I was slower this holiday season than others in the past.  My very first contract written over 4 years ago was on Christmas Eve.  Ya Snooze Ya Lose.  :)  Glad to hear that yours was prosperous.  :)

12/29/2007 08:16 PM by Stephanie Edwards-Musa, Realtor ® The Woodlands, TX Real Estate (Prudential Gary Greene, Realtors ®)


Teri - I have experience this myself this year.  My last blog goes into detail about the joys and tragedies I have shared with my clients, family and friends.  It is amazing how we become a part of their lives even years after the transaction closes.  I am honored to know that my clients consider me their friend!  Wishing you a wonderful 2008!

12/29/2007 08:18 PM by Joan Whitebook, ABR,e-Pro,CEBA Southern New Hampshire (Buyer's Option Realty Services)


Teri, I love the stories.  We could all share stories similar to yours.  Of course, the people are why I'm in this business.  Thanks for sharing your stories with us.  :)

12/29/2007 08:19 PM by Judi Morgan, San Antonio, TX Real Estate (Coldwell Banker D'Ann Harper, Realtors)


Hello Teri,

 

Thank you for your heartfelt post Teri.  Your big heart shows up loud and clear.  Your reasons for being in the business are mine also.  It's wonderful when it all comes together and our clients are truly happy with their new home.  If we have been a part of that life truly is good.

Minnesota, we know the cold don't we? 

Vivienne 

12/29/2007 08:21 PM by Vivienne Seaman (RE/MAX Eagle Properties)


Teri, We are here all for a reason and we cross each other's path for a reason. When I enter someone's life and make such a big impact, such as buying or selling a house, I am here to stay and built a memorable relationship.

Wonderful post Teri. May the coming year be better and full of happiness for you and your family.

12/30/2007 01:31 AM by Camarillo CA Real Estate Agent/ Mana Tulberg (Beach View Real Estate)


Your post is another reminder of why I got into this industry and why I stay - it's the people. 

Happy New Year to you and yours Teri. 

12/30/2007 04:08 AM by Kris Wales-Macomb County MI real estate -Ask me about buyers agency in Michigan (RE/MAX Advantage 1, Inc.)


Oh Teri, very nice work here. I love the graphic. Nice writing. You make we want to be a Realtor! Happy New Year!

12/30/2007 07:11 AM by Jeanean Gendron ~ Redding & Shasta County Specialist (Real Estate Professionals--GMAC)


Sandra--Thank you...I am certain that you have touched many lives in North Haven too!

12/30/2007 08:31 AM by Teri Eckholm, REALTOR® Anoka County Acreage & Lakeshore Homes (Keller Williams Premier Realty)


Bonnie--I always say that my minor in psychology does not go to waste anymore in this line of business. Mostly it is just listening, understanding and empathy. Thanks for your comments!

12/30/2007 08:33 AM by Teri Eckholm, REALTOR® Anoka County Acreage & Lakeshore Homes (Keller Williams Premier Realty)


Marchel--Real estate is very rewarding...Not the money. I was never in it for the $$. It has always been about the people for me too.

12/30/2007 08:35 AM by Teri Eckholm, REALTOR® Anoka County Acreage & Lakeshore Homes (Keller Williams Premier Realty)


Stephanie--This was the first time in my 7 years of business that I was showing houses over the holidays. Things just fell into place. I have had busy January's and also have had listings sell right before/after the holidays but nothing like this. Crazy business...no rhyme or reason for timing. Enjoy the lull...your business will pick up soon enough!

12/30/2007 08:38 AM by Teri Eckholm, REALTOR® Anoka County Acreage & Lakeshore Homes (Keller Williams Premier Realty)


Joan--I know that I am not the only Realtor that felt this way. Many potential clients will read our posts and understand that all Realtors are not created equal. Some will go the extra mile and in the process become your friend. I am certain that 2008 will be great for us and all agents who put their clients first!

12/30/2007 08:41 AM by Teri Eckholm, REALTOR® Anoka County Acreage & Lakeshore Homes (Keller Williams Premier Realty)


Judi--You are very welcome!!If you have similar stories, share them and make them known! Potential clients who read our blogs need to know why you are in this business and that their dreams and needs are important to you.

12/30/2007 08:44 AM by Teri Eckholm, REALTOR® Anoka County Acreage & Lakeshore Homes (Keller Williams Premier Realty)


Vivienne--Why thank you! I appreciate your comments. Yes helping people to their next phase of life is an awesome feeling. Had to look to see where you were from...Michigan has been getting their share of the white stuff this December too! :) 

12/30/2007 08:47 AM by Teri Eckholm, REALTOR® Anoka County Acreage & Lakeshore Homes (Keller Williams Premier Realty)


Mana--I totally agree! I think things happen for a reason and at the right time. Being the person assisting through the process whether buying or selling a home is an incredible job. Since doing a job well takes time, in the process we make friends for life. A great 2008 to you and your family too Mana!

12/30/2007 08:51 AM by Teri Eckholm, REALTOR® Anoka County Acreage & Lakeshore Homes (Keller Williams Premier Realty)


Kris--I think we are on the same wavelength on this aren't we? Happy 2008 to you and yours as well!

12/30/2007 08:52 AM by Teri Eckholm, REALTOR® Anoka County Acreage & Lakeshore Homes (Keller Williams Premier Realty)


Jeanean--Isn't the graphic fun? Through the keyhole is one of the families I have assisted twice! I consider myself fortunate to be in a business I love...Have a great 2008!

12/30/2007 08:55 AM by Teri Eckholm, REALTOR® Anoka County Acreage & Lakeshore Homes (Keller Williams Premier Realty)


Hi Teri! Isn't it wild that we have all of these folks coming in and out of our lives? We take each one personally and stay connected long after the deal is closed. With each one we learn more about ourselves. Love your keyhole art! That gives me some new ideas! 

12/30/2007 09:02 AM by Lizette Fitzpatrick, Lexington KY Real Estate (Central Kentucky - Prudential Don Foster - Richmond KY)


Teri, I loved reading about your stories.  Realtors get to see the very best and some of the worst and they have to deal well with it all.  Your post is a testament of just how deeply your role affects so many people.

12/30/2007 09:26 AM by Carole Provenzale Owner, Feng Shui Long Island & New York (Feng Shui Long Island & New York City)


Lizette--It is very wild to make new friends all the time...More wild to visit over the holidays or receive cards and they continue to consider you their friends as I do them! The art was a very fun idea...No telling what you will come up with to expand on it! :)

12/30/2007 09:32 AM by Teri Eckholm, REALTOR® Anoka County Acreage & Lakeshore Homes (Keller Williams Premier Realty)


Carole--As a Feng Shui consultant working directly with the public you also have many similar stories I am certain. It is hard to spend time with someone and change their life without becoming their friend. Thanks for your comments!

12/30/2007 09:36 AM by Teri Eckholm, REALTOR® Anoka County Acreage & Lakeshore Homes (Keller Williams Premier Realty)


Teri,

No gloom and doom on your post. Glad business is good and you are able to help people. We are in a people business and if we are not helping them we don't deserve to be realtors. Best of luck in 08.

12/30/2007 09:53 AM by Mike Frazier, Dyersburg Tn Real Estate (Carousel Realty of Dyer County)


Mike--No need for gloom and doom as there is business out there for those willing to help people move! Same to you....Good luck in 2008!

12/30/2007 01:18 PM by Teri Eckholm, REALTOR® Anoka County Acreage & Lakeshore Homes (Keller Williams Premier Realty)


Teri,

What a lovely post, you did a great job about sharing those personal stories. And as always...it's about the people, isn't it? It's obvious you feel that way!

12/30/2007 04:14 PM by Orange Co. Real Estate~Lynda Eisenmann, Broker-Owner, CRS,CRB,GRI,SRES, Brea, CA (Preferred Home Brokers)


Teri, I love this post!  This is a business that is so about relationships, something you say eloquently.  And Happy New Year!

12/31/2007 09:04 AM by Patricia Kennedy (Evers & Company)


Patricia--Thank you! Real estate is more about the relationships you build than anything else. Have a wonderful New Year too!

12/31/2007 09:38 AM by Teri Eckholm, REALTOR® Anoka County Acreage & Lakeshore Homes (Keller Williams Premier Realty)


Teri, a good and thoughtful post. You're right though. We play many roles in life and in our business. Happy New Year.

12/31/2007 09:41 AM by Mesa, Arizona Real Estate *** Teri Ellis, Broker, ABR,CRS,GRI,ePRO,MRE (Homes Arizona Real Estate LLC)


Teri, you so aptly described with your stories of how so much of being a Realtor is that your are involved in a PEOPLE BUSINESS. You obviously are a "natural" at it. Congratulations on handling everything so well. Have a great '08.

12/31/2007 12:28 PM by Gary Woltal - REALTOR® Dallas Ft. Worth (Keller Williams Realty)


Teri--Thanks!! It is a very interesting business that we are in...Touching peoples' lives in so many ways. :) Have a wonderful new year!

12/31/2007 04:07 PM by Teri Eckholm, REALTOR® Anoka County Acreage & Lakeshore Homes (Keller Williams Premier Realty)


Gary--Why that is a very nice thing for you to say...I appreciate that. I work hard to be empathatic with all clients whether buying a first home or selling an estate...we are sharing many parts of their lives. Hope that your 2008 is great as well!

12/31/2007 04:09 PM by Teri Eckholm, REALTOR® Anoka County Acreage & Lakeshore Homes (Keller Williams Premier Realty)


Nice post. We really do forge deep and lasting relationships with some of our clients, and we are with many during pivotal points in their lives.  That's what is so interesting about this career. 

01/03/2008 07:28 PM by Burien, WA Real Estate - Lisa Bosques, Assoc. Broker/Mktg Specialist (Prudential Northwest Realty Associates LLC)


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