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The Voice! No It's Not a Reality Show..But You'll Want to Find It!

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The Voice! No it’s Not a Reality Show...But You’ll Want to Find It!

One of the many pieces of advice I’ve learned while reading “How To” posts here by seasoned bloggers was to write in your own voice.  

Now.. what the heck does that mean?  For many here, it seems to come Get your voicenaturally.  You can read their post and come away with a feel for who they are.  

My BARFF Roger Mucci is one who does just that.  Read what he writes, and he’ll readily admit it’s often about nothing, and you feel as if you’ve just had a conversation with him.  And, having met Roger in person and spoken to him on the phone, I can tell you this...what you read is what he is.

We write these posts for people to read.  And, if we’re lucky, those who read what we write will like it well enough to follow us or subscribe to our blogs.  Otherwise... why go through all of this??

talkingWriting in your own voice means be yourself.  “Speak” to us as if we were talking over a cup of coffee (or adult beverage).  If you tend to be more formal in your everyday speak then write that way.

If you tend to speak in a more casual or off the cuff manner, then write in that tone.  Obviously there will be times when a more formal tone is necessary or when you need to lighten it up a bit.  

Two things to remember regardless of your type of voice:

1. Casual, formal and all points in between..... grammar and spelling do count.  Your blog is a reflection of you, so be sure to proofread and check your spelling.

2.  Content matters.  What makes you continue to come back to someone’s blog?  Exactly.... you’re interested in what they have to say.


It’s Not Always What You Say,

But How You Say It.


So, come on...let’s hear from you!

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Kathy Streib
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Comments(48)

Amanda Christiansen
Christiansen Group Realty (260)704-0843 - Fort Wayne, IN
Christiansen Group Realty

I couldn't agree more.  When I am forcing myself to blog, my blog sucks.  When I am just being myself, it's pretty darn good.  And much easier.  

May 07, 2012 10:17 PM
Richard Weisser
Richard Weisser Realty - Newnan, GA
Richard Weisser Retired Real Estate Professional

Kathy...

It takes a while to find your blogging voice, and a lot of trial and error. But once you do, the words just start to flow!

May 07, 2012 10:23 PM
Scott Godzyk
Godzyk Real Estate Services - Manchester, NH
One of the Manchester NH's area Leading Agents

Kathy that alone is the best saying of the day "it is not what you say but how you say it".  I think the important thing is to be able to write clearly and concisely to get your point across in a way that the reader understands and will want to come back to read more. Congratulations on your feature

May 07, 2012 10:37 PM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Kathy-Congrats on the well deserved feature.

roses

May 07, 2012 11:17 PM
Michael Setunsky
Woodbridge, VA
Your Commercial Real Estate Link to Northern VA

Kathy, this is very good advice. Thanks for the reminder.

May 07, 2012 11:28 PM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Kathy, I think there are actually TWO voices. Writing in your informal having a cup of coffee informal voice, and THEN the voice that emerges of WHAT you predominantly want to blog about all the time. THAT second voice emerges I have seen after about writing 50 blog posts.

May 07, 2012 11:33 PM
Sandy Acevedo
951-290-8588 - Chino Hills, CA
RE/MAX Masters, Inland Empire Homes for Sale

Good morning, Kathy, excellent information here! Especially the content, grammar and spelling part of it!!       

May 08, 2012 01:49 AM
Donald Hester
NCW Home Inspections, LLC - Wenatchee, WA
NCW Home Inspections, LLC

Kathy, Very good advice. Some of us just need to tune our voices to hit the right pitch ; ) Quite often the written word is very different from the oral one.

May 08, 2012 01:57 AM
Evelyn Kennedy
Alain Pinel Realtors - Alameda, CA
Alameda, Real Estate, Alameda, CA

Kathy:

It is hard at the beginning to find your voice.  I tend to be more formal in my everyday conversation.  When I write I sound stilted.  Still working on that.  As far as grammar and spelling are concerned, even when I use spell check and grammar check, I still sometimes find errors in my post.  I just keep checking.

May 08, 2012 02:16 AM
John DL Arendsen
CREST "BACKYARD' HOMES, ON THE LEVEL General & Manufactured Home Contractor, TAG Real Estate Sales & Investments - Leucadia, CA
Crest Backyard Homes "ADU" dealer & RE Developer

I'm having a difficult time trying to figure out how to write in any voice but my own. I certainly down't write with a French accent or a southern drawl ableint I like both. I would have a difficult time removing me from me whence writing. 

May 08, 2012 02:28 AM
Barbara Hensley
RE/MAX Properties - Rockwall, TX
Homes for Sale in Rockwall County, Texas

Kathy - content is still king, but it should alwasy reflect "our voice".  Also important - spell it right, say it right - check it over for mistakes. 

May 08, 2012 03:40 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Jane- isn’t it interesting that there are some people who can write about almost nothing but we still want to read their posts.

Susan- are people still doing that?  I agree, I don’t think I’d want anyone to write for me.

Kevin- thank you.  It’s work to write these things.  I know it comes much easier for others.

Leilani- I think it’s one of the only ways we can get to know someone since for the most part we’re not meeting them in person.

Cheryl- We love your voice!!!

Debbie- that’s the best way to do it.  Writing is hard enough.  If you have to be who you aren’t then it’s even harder.

Sally & David-I think of the columnists we read and why.  After we’ve followed them we feel as if we know them.

Fernando-I agree.... there’s no right or wrong voice as long as it’s yours.

Christiansen Team- you’ve hit the nail on the head.  Your personality can really come through.

Richard- it took me a while.  I am not a natural writer but deciding to write as I am rather what I think I should be has made it easier.

Scott- so very true. I don’t want to have to “pretend” while I’m writing.

Sharon- wow! thank you!  Red roses... you made my day.

Michael- I know that when I was beginning here at AR I kept reading posts about writing in your own voice. It really makes sense.

Gary- very interesting.  I’d never thought of it that way, but.... how about a post on it?  

Sandy- I think no matter our voice, we need to keep it professional!

Donald- well there are some “words” that are a part of my real voice, but not appropriate for a post, if you get my drift!

Evelyn-I go back and read posts that I think I’ve proofread and find errors.  Not a strong point of mine.  Don’t worry about being more formal... if that’s how you are.  And, I bet over time you’ll find your voice which will include that formality with more ease .

John-well from what I just read of your comment, that’s a great voice.

Barbara-yes, we do need good content! Without it, our subscriber list would start dropping.



May 08, 2012 04:10 AM
Jim Frimmer
HomeSmart Realty West - San Diego, CA
Realtor & CDPE, Mission Valley specialist

Since mid-January my blogging has been mostly about my farming communities, which makes it easier to have a "voice."

May 08, 2012 04:52 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Jim- I think it does.  It's a lot easier for me to write about local events and areas. 

May 08, 2012 05:50 AM
Lyn Sims
Schaumburg, IL
Real Estate Broker Retired

I have to agree. I think it's a real shame that some people profess they are professional telling us all about their weekend & then it's littered with misspelled words, bad punctuation.  What happened to 2nd grade & all that stuff they drilled into our heads?  We've even got spell check for dummies here on AR!

Be authentic.

May 08, 2012 06:40 AM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730
You can definitely get a feel for the blogger's personality by reading several of his posts. Always be true to yourself. If others don't like it they will either tell you their opinions or ignor you.
May 08, 2012 11:09 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Lyn- I try to proof read everything as well as spell check but some do slip past me.  That said I have seen a lot of posts littered with misspelled words. 

Debbie- I think if you try to write like you think you should it will be a hard task.  

May 08, 2012 11:26 AM
Bob Miller
Keller Williams Cornerstone Realty - Ocala, FL
The Ocala Dream Team

Hi Kathy, excellent post.  And you are right, many regular bloggers have a "personality" that comes right through their posts.

May 08, 2012 08:02 PM
Gene Riemenschneider
Home Point Real Estate - Brentwood, CA
Turning Houses into Homes

I think you are right.  We have to be ourselves.  

May 09, 2012 01:36 PM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Great advice Kathy, thank you so much for sharing your Voice with us, you always have something of value to say.

May 13, 2012 05:44 AM