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Any Hope of Keeping Your New Year's Resolutions?

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Real Estate Agent with Rocky Mountain Homescapes, Keller Williams, Denver Colorado

Like most people, the end of every year I begin thinking about my New Year's Resolutions, or the goals I want to accomplish. Is there any hope that we can keep those resolutions? Here are a few steps I hope to use in accomplishing Gomine.

1.  Keep the goals simple and reasonable. If you want to lose 100 pounds, begin with 10 or 20 pounds. That doesn't seem like such an insurmountable impossibility. We can always modify that once we accomplish the goal.

2. Anticipate and plan for roadblocks. What has kept me from accomplishing that goal in the past and what can I do to prevent that from happening again? If I can't get up early in the morning to exercise despite my best laid plans, maybe I need to work some exercise into my day by parking farther away or taking the stairs at work.

3. Plan for the long haul. We'll all miss out on a few days, but this is a long race. Remember, you have all year. Just get back on track when things have not gone as planned and pat yourself on the back when you make progress.

4. Have a support system. We all need a little encouragement at times and it's important that I let key people know what I am trying to accomplish. There may be that one person who always tries to sabotage us, so don't tell him or her. We need to hand pick those people who can inspire us to greatness. We also can be part of someone else's support system.

5. Measure your progress. Keep track of the progress you've made so you can look back and see the small changes. Those changes will add up to something big over time. When you get discouraged, you can always look at the progress you made and get re-energized.

In my opinion, goal setting is one of the most important things we can do. It gives us focus and direction and pushes us to improve. I don't meet all my goals each year, but I have made considerable progress over time. This year, one of my goals is to lose weight. While I'd like to see those washboard abs on my body, I'd settle for a smaller pair of jeans. After all, those washboard abs can be my resolution for next year.

I wish you all a happy and healthy 2008!

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Comments(11)

Carolyn Gjerde-Tu-Davis
Lyon Real Estate - Davis, CA
Ca Real Estate
I think breaking down goals to smaller chunks makes them more manageable.  This is definitely my strategy this year.
Jan 02, 2008 02:25 AM
Jennifer Steck
Rocky Mountain Homescapes, Keller Williams, Denver Colorado - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate
Carolyn- I think us dreamers want to reach for the moon. Breaking them down into bite sized pieces does make it more likely that we'll accomplish them. Happy New Year!
Jan 02, 2008 02:28 AM
Heather the Realtor Orlando, Lake Mary
LemonTree Realty - Orlando, FL
First Time Home Buyers, Bank Owned Homes
haha at this rate no. Im on day 2 on the new year and feel some of my resolutions not working. I was never meant to keep goals who am I kidding?
Jan 02, 2008 02:41 AM
Mike Jones
SUNSTREET MORTGAGE, LLC (BK-0907366, NMLS 145171) - Tucson, AZ
Mike Jones NMLS 223495

Jennifer,

Have a support system!  That's the key for me; I tend to be a lone ranger--that or a two-year-old.  I want to do it myself!

Thanks for the encouragement!

Mike in Tucson

Jan 02, 2008 10:05 PM
Elaine Manes Gage
Home Staging Online Services - Denver, CO
Staging done ONLINE!

My personal resolutions? They usually last three weeks. My career resolutions? This year, it's face my fears. What am I uncomfortable doing? Identify and CONQUER!!! Prognosis looks good so far!!! And I NEVER run out of fears!!!

Good advice! Thanks for sharing, and good luck with your resolutions!

Jan 04, 2008 11:55 AM
Jennifer Steck
Rocky Mountain Homescapes, Keller Williams, Denver Colorado - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate

Heather- I have no doubt that you work with goals all the time in your real estate practice. I think we generally bite off more than we can chew in January. We have great intentions, but life can get in the way.

Mike- Thanks. My support system is key. They help me and I help them. I couldn't survive without them.

Jan 05, 2008 02:57 AM
Jennifer Steck
Rocky Mountain Homescapes, Keller Williams, Denver Colorado - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate
Elaine- I think facing your fears is the biggest part. I've been surprised how much I've accomplished when I step out and over the self imposed boundaries. Go for it!
Jan 05, 2008 02:58 AM
Birmingham Alabama Real Estate, Stephen Wolfe
LivingInBirmingham.com - Birmingham, AL
Jennifer, these are some great reminders. Some of the important things you said that hit me were to, one, plan for roadblocks. To many times, in our hopeful and optimistic dreams, we fail to realize that there are going to be roadblocks and potholes that are going to interrupt our smooth journey. Second, measure our progress. A lot of focus on the big picture that we forget that there are steps that must be taken on our path. We need to recognize and celebrate each completed step because it gets us closer to our dreams.
Jan 07, 2008 01:09 PM
Jennifer Steck
Rocky Mountain Homescapes, Keller Williams, Denver Colorado - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate
Stephen- The only time I seem to make it past those roadblocks is when I expect them and have a plan. They are always there, it doesn't matter the goal, but we can get past them. (Thank goodness) It truly is amazing how much progress we make over time even when it doesn't feel like we are moving. Tracking the progress allows us to look back and take credit for getting things done. Thanks for the great comment!
Jan 08, 2008 09:43 AM
Julie Neerings~Lifting Hearts ♥ Building Dreams~
Agent Referral - Salt Lake City, UT
Jennifer-What excellent reminders to keep us on track for what is going to be an absolutely amazing year.  
Jan 08, 2008 12:20 PM
Jennifer Steck
Rocky Mountain Homescapes, Keller Williams, Denver Colorado - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate
Julie- You are welcome. From your lips to God's ears....an amazing year!!
Jan 09, 2008 10:22 PM