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Getting Ahead In A Difficult Profession

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Mortgage and Lending with Equity Resources NMLS 67179 Licensed in NC

moonI love to pass along stories - here's another of my favorites...

Dante Gabriel Rossetti, the famous 19th century pet and artist, was once approached by an elderly man.  The fellow had oms sketches and drawings that he wanted Rossetti to look at and tell him if they were any good, or if they, at least, showed potential talent.

Rossetti looked them over carefully.  After the first few he knew that they were worthless, showing not the least sign of artistic talent.  But Rossetti was a kind man and he told the elderly man as gently as possible that the pictures were without much value and showed little talent.  He was sorry, but he could not lie to the man.

The visitor was disappointed, but seemed to respect Rossetti's judgement.  He apologized for taking up Rossetti's time, but would he just look at a few more drawings - these done by a young art student?

Rossetti looked over the second batch of sketches and immediately enthused over the talent they reveled.  "These," he said," ah, these are good!  This young man, whoever he is, has great talent.  He should be given every help and encouragement in his career as an artist.  He has a great future, if he will work hard and stick with it."

Rossetti could see that the old fellow was deeply moved. "Who is this fine young artist?" he asked.  "Your son?"

"No," said the old fellow sadly.  "It is me - 40 years ago.  If only I heard your praise then... for you see, I got discouraged and gave up - too soon."

Getting ahead in a difficult profession requires avid faith in yourself.  You must be able to sustain yourself against staggering blows.  There is no code of conduct to help beginners.  That is why some people with mediocre talent, but with great inner drive, go much further than people with vastly superior talent.

Sophia Loren

Imagine how many people would appreciate your encouragement today!!

Frances C. Rokicki
Fran Rokicki Realty, LLC - Bolton, CT
Broker-Mentor,CRS
Wow! That is so good. The only thing to do is to focus and keep going. As Buff says, you give it out in slices, it will come back in loaves.
Jan 02, 2008 10:38 AM
Bonnie & Terry Westbrook
Westbrook Realty - Ada, MI
Grand Rapids MI Real Estate
A wonderful and sad story, Eleanor.  When we give up, we never know  just how close we were to success.  And following ones dreams and passions is never wrong.
Jan 02, 2008 11:54 AM
Eleanor Thorne
Equity Resources - Cary, NC
Advantage Lending 919-649-5058
Bonnie and Francis:  I thought this was a great thing to remember before we start reading business plans!
Jan 02, 2008 09:18 PM
Tom Plant
WINEormous.com - Murrieta, CA
Eleanor - Who's pet was he? Just kidding. This is so very true. Stopping to praise someone can make all the difference in the world.
Jan 03, 2008 12:02 AM
The Romanski Group
The Romanski Group/ Keller Williams Realty - Lafayette, IN
Beautiful story of encouragement!!!!
Jan 03, 2008 06:17 AM
Kathleen Lordbock
Keller Williams Realty Professionals - Baxter, MN
Keller Williams Realty Professionals
Inner drive is great, provided someone else is encouraging it from the exterior as well.
Jan 03, 2008 06:56 AM