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A business woman can SELL a home and have BOOBIES! Seriously!

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Managing Real Estate Broker with California Coastal Estates DRE 01329427

Not just because WE live in Southern CA means ALL women have had boob jobs. On that NOTE, that doesn't mean that because you have BOOBIES, you don't have brains. Seriously? Why would a MALE Realtor(R) make such a comment? Just because you are slightly or very attractive, that means a woman has no brains!?? What has this world come to? I have so many friends that have had enhancements and can run a corporation all at the same time! It doesn't mean they are bimbos, not smart and are taken care of by an older man and can't be knowledgeable enough to look good and SELL a home??! It's just NOT the case! Tell me there are plenty of men out there that are decent enough to answer this for me in a respectful manner.

I get a bit annoyed when men on the other side of our country make horrendous remarks about woman in such a manner and believe that that's all it takes for men to get business by PUTTING DOWN a nice looking woman that may have had an enhancement or two or three.... I am appalled that people think it's ok and commend a man for displaying such judge-mental rudeness. I am just saying.... I am not laughing.... Do I have a sense of humor? Yes. But does this topic make one laugh? Not me. [AND THERE WERE MANY WOMEN JOKING ABOUT IT TOO>>>> I WAS QUITE DISAPPOINTED] And so what if she looked like Jessica Rabbit.... If, she landed that LISTING APPOINTMENT AND LISTING with flying colors... so be it!!

I ASK YOU PROFESSIONAL REALTORS!! BUSINESS MEN AND WOMEN OUT THERE!>>>>

Can a woman look good and make a buck? MY ANSWER: Absolutely! Perhaps, you think I am being too defensive! Don't know, BUT my answer is; "YES!!!!" I know an awesome Realtor(R) in Southern CA and both our boys played football at Mater Dei and a complete "barbie doll", but she was also one of the top Realtors in OC. Yes, she could walk into a restaurant and turn heads and got a few listings in the millions that month I first met her. I saw her handing her card over to a gentleman at a pub one day after work and in two minutes she had a potential client. HEY! Maybe they <the enhancements bring BIZ!>, but I know for a fact how knowledgeable she is in our field, after long hours of discussing the market, clients and listings.... I KNOW FOR A FACT HOW KNOWLEDGABLE SHE IS IN OUR INDUSTRY. We are still friends to this day!

I just don't think men or women should hate on killer bodies and brains! Just go out and get the next listing or buyer with your own people skills. After all-- 80% of cosumers decide on individuals and not company name AND ANOTHER STATISTIC>>> 78% of Buyers choose a home online and typically go with the Agent they find online.   That should say something.............. So, don't get mad when you go on a listing MEN and find out a WOMAN beat you out of that deal... I am just saying.... AND "NO" THAT PERSON WAS NOT ME! AFTER ALL, I HAD A BREAST REDUCTION!!!! <LOL> NOW, YOU KNOW JUST A LITTLE BIT MORE ABOUT ME, YOU PROBABLY DIDN'T WANT TO KNOW...................

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Bryant Tutas
Tutas Towne Realty, Inc and Garden Views Realty, LLC - Winter Garden, FL
Selling Florida one home at a time

I have the same problem. Folks are always looking at my man boobs and judge me because of them :)

But seriously, it is a fact that attractive people are mostly more successful. Taking care of ones self can be a sign of confidence but it can also be a sign of insecurity.

I say live and let live. We shouldn't judge people by their appearances.

May 10, 2012 09:53 PM
Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

Lauren, I didn't know every lady in California had enhancements!  :-)   But seriously, my guess is that whoever provoked this post, is most probably jealous of some ones' success.  Brains and ability come in all sizes, shapes and degrees of attractiveness. 

May 10, 2012 11:15 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Good morning Lauren --- wow -- was this a post on Active Rain?   Whether it was a post here or some random comment -- the insensitivity of the comment is not only unprofessional but beyond unkind.   Maybe it is a sour grapes but certainly uncalled for these days --- I'm pretty really sure it always has been.  

May 10, 2012 11:55 PM
Christine Smith
Buyers Brokers Only LLC - www.BuyersBrokersOnly.com - Canton, MA
Exclusive Buyer Agent & Attorney, Canton, MA

Yikes!  I think I missed the original post but I thought (naively) that in 2012 we were past all that!

May 11, 2012 01:51 AM
Michael Maynard
New Neighbors Realty - Milford, CT
"Welcome Home!"

I, unfortunately , was not blessed with boobies, or as a woman, but I agree! haha  Success to everyone!

May 11, 2012 01:58 AM
Mike Mitchell
Kee Realty - Saint Clair Shores, MI
REALTOR (R)

Wow!

It sounds like some male Realtor was bitter for not getting a listing. I hate not winning a listing but it really wouldn't matter if I lost out to a good looking woman or a man for that matter. Personally, if someone did hire a listing agent due to her enhancements, I'm not sure that's someone I would ultimately want to be working with anyways. I think some agents need to remember CBC when looking at other agent's success. Don't Criticize, Blame or Complain! Just concentrate on your own real estate business.

I'm glad I don't have to go against Jessica Rabbit, that would be some tough competition!

May 11, 2012 02:04 AM
CA COASTAL ESTATES Lauren Selinsky Perez CRS
California Coastal Estates - Aliso Viejo, CA
"Your Real Estate Broker" #oclauren
Bryant, well said.... And thanks for the chuckle this morning... ;) It's unfortunate that most of society does judge by the book cover. Think that will ever change???
May 11, 2012 02:27 AM
CA COASTAL ESTATES Lauren Selinsky Perez CRS
California Coastal Estates - Aliso Viejo, CA
"Your Real Estate Broker" #oclauren
Gabe, I concur ;) As you don't know how brains are bottled ;) I remember in the late 90's being one of the few women in the software industry. It was quite a mans world there... Thanks for your support Gabe ;)
May 11, 2012 02:37 AM
CA COASTAL ESTATES Lauren Selinsky Perez CRS
California Coastal Estates - Aliso Viejo, CA
"Your Real Estate Broker" #oclauren
Well, Michael one thing I love about ActiveRain is that it's a platform to discuss everything. From bad apples in our industry, a great listing, tips and advise or our children's bragging touchdown! Want to read a bigger Wow! The agent is actually a Rainmaker/ambassador! How about that for apples???
May 11, 2012 02:40 AM
Florida Tolbert Team Keller Williams Advantage
Keller Williams Advantage III Realty in Lake Nona - Orlando, FL
Keller Williams Land Luxury Division Specialist

Lauren,

Just a scientific question... if this guys theory is correct and whenever you enlarge boobs you must get dumber, then could the opposite be true that when you deflate them you get smarter?

Sounds like you did and jsut for the record, you were beautiful before and still just as much afterward and so is my beautiful mermaid. 

She thought they were great as a teenager but at nearly 40 decided it was healthier to shed over 50% and has never felt better.

And she is still smart enough to still be a medical professional with or without them.

May 11, 2012 11:13 AM
CA COASTAL ESTATES Lauren Selinsky Perez CRS
California Coastal Estates - Aliso Viejo, CA
"Your Real Estate Broker" #oclauren
Seriously! Hu? Christine ;) Come on now.... Thanks for the support ;)
May 11, 2012 12:12 PM
CA COASTAL ESTATES Lauren Selinsky Perez CRS
California Coastal Estates - Aliso Viejo, CA
"Your Real Estate Broker" #oclauren
Kevin, I'm with her on that.... Medical reasons too! The back!!! Plus, everything fits better ;) Brains come in all sizes ;)
May 11, 2012 12:15 PM
Karen Anne Stone
New Home Hunters of Fort Worth and Tarrant County - Fort Worth, TX
Fort Worth Real Estate

Lauren:  A girlfriend of mine, a very successful Realtor, had big boobs... but she divorced both of them... so for her that is no longer a problem.  Ya do what ya have to do, she told me.  I agree.

May 18, 2012 02:45 AM
CA COASTAL ESTATES Lauren Selinsky Perez CRS
California Coastal Estates - Aliso Viejo, CA
"Your Real Estate Broker" #oclauren
Oh @karen! You make me laugh!!!
May 20, 2012 08:02 AM
CA COASTAL ESTATES Lauren Selinsky Perez CRS
California Coastal Estates - Aliso Viejo, CA
"Your Real Estate Broker" #oclauren

But it's true.... A girl has go to do what a girl has go to do! There she goes being smart agaiN!;)

May 21, 2012 08:06 PM