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Communication - The #1 requirement to be successful in real estate

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Managing Real Estate Broker with LoKation Real Estate

Communication - The  #1 requirement to be successful in real estate- I meet with a lot of new agents and many of them ask what the top skill to be successful is in real estate? Many of them tell me they are personable or good with people or they have been told that they would make a great real estate agent by a friend or acquaintance that is already in real estate.

 One of the most common comments I have heard people say over the years is "I have been told I have the gift of gab and that I would make a great agent" Unfortunately the opposite is actually true. People that like to talk a lot usually talk too much about themselves and in real estate you must be a good listener. You must be very good at hearing what your clients are saying and translating that into their needs, wants and desires.

Communication is not only the number one skill for an agent to find success it is also the number one skill required to find success in whatever you are seeking in life, whether it is a personal relationship, a spouse, or child, a friend or business partner, communication is the key to success.

Communicating with:

  • Sellers - Personally I think this should be done at least every other day for the first couple weeks, communicating feedback from buyers and other agents is critical for quickly improving the home based on this feedback for highest price in shortest amount of time. In slower markets I always advised my agents to check in with their sellers every Thursday, why Thursdays? If you have brochure boxes that need refilling, this will give you time to get there (or your assistant). It will also be a good time to communicate to the sellers about open house possibilities for the weekend. Market updates are also a good thing to communicate to your sellers on a weekly basis.
  • Buyers- Keeping them posted on the latest homes coming on the market as well as trends in the market place, is the market moving up? Down? Are sellers taking low offers? Are most homes getting full price? Concessions?
  • Showing service- make sure to communicate with the showing service about any changes in the listing. Does the seller have special showing instructions. Is the combination for the lockbox correct? I showed a home last weekend in a downpour and the combo lock had a different combination than was communicated to the showing service. Fortunately we had an umbrella, because it took over 20 minutes to track down the agent to get the right combo.
  • Your MLS - Make sure you are communicating as much information in your lisitng as possible in your MLS service, including pictures, descriptions, area amenities etc. I always ask my sellers "What was the reason you bought the home?" These are usually the same reasons another buyer will also want the home, so communicate that to the buyers and agents searching for homes.
  • Managing Brokers - Are you having some issues and are not sure who to turn to? Or afraid your managing broker won't have time for you. Rest assured that almost every managing broker out there is going to be there for you, this is the reason they took on the role as managing broker, they are very good at resolving issues and want to be there for their agents. Communicate with them.
  • Marketing team - Communicate to them the special features of the home you have listed, they more than likely did not meet with the sellers, so they only have your input to go by. Communicate with them!
  • Target Audience - Communicate to them what you specialize in, why should they choose you when they are literally thousands of agents out there trying to reach them. I guarantee if you have great communication skills your message will be much more likely to get read.
  • SOIWhat are you communicating to them, or are you. Once again, you must communicate consistently and have something for them that actually interests them. You must also be very good at communicating your "handle". Your "handle" is what they carry around with them and when the "handle" is either mentioned or brought to their attention they immediately think of you. A "handle" is not a tag line, not a cute little saying that you have created for yourself, but rather your "niche" market. For a good one check out the Kuney-Todaro team, they have specialized in new construction in their marketplace for many years, they now get practically every buyer looking for new construction and they get almost every builder to contact them to help them market their homes. They really know how to communicate.
  • Title Company -  Make sure you have communicated everything you need to your closer, title rep and the rest of your Title company to ensure that their are no hiccups in the closing.
  • Your Family - DUH!

Communication is the most important skill you will use in real estate, and ironically it is one of the easiest, but most often overlooked skill to finding success. In fact it is the number one complaint from both Buyers and Sellers that had a bad experience with an agent. Judging from many of the comments here on Activerain, it appears to be one of the major flaws with a very large percentage of agents, lack of communication form another agent, no return calls, no email responses etc.

If we would all just communicate life would be so much easier, business would be so much better, regardless of your occupation.

 

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John Marshall -Fore!

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I have been involved in the Golf Communities through-out Colorado for the past several years. As a contributing writer for Colorado Golf Magazine I write articles regarding new course development and their surrounding communities.

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Margaret Goss
@Properties - Winnetka, IL
Chicago's North Shore & Winnetka Real Estate

Sounds simple but it actually takes work - an agent needs to be on top of things at all times in order for the deal to move smoothly.  A lack of communication is like serving a diner something he didn't order.

May 25, 2012 03:34 AM
Will Nesbitt
Nesbitt Realty at Condo Alexandria - Alexandria, VA
Nesbitt Realty is a family-run brokerage.

Hey John - such a direct post. Communication is an essential part to any transaction and a basic business fundamental. Keep up the good work!

May 25, 2012 03:47 AM
Bryant Tutas
Tutas Towne Realty, Inc and Garden Views Realty, LLC - Winter Garden, FL
Selling Florida one home at a time
I completely agree. And so do the consumers. Lack of communication is always their #1 complaint. I also agree that having the gift if gab is not communicating. A good communicator is able to convey a message in a clear and precise manner. Too much talking interferes with that.
May 25, 2012 04:11 AM
Dave Halpern
Dave Halpern Real Estate Agent, Inc., Louisville, KY (502) 664-7827 - Louisville, KY
Louisville Short Sale Expert

The message and ideas have to be superb. Good communication of bad ideas is still a negative.

May 25, 2012 04:23 AM
John Marshall - FORE!
LoKation Real Estate - Cherry Hills Village, CO
Specializing in Golf Course Properties

Bill - Gift of Gab, Definite red flag, Perhaps better suited to be a ..... hmmm! I can't think of any position where being better at talking than listening would be a benefit. Enjoy your weekend as well

Margeret - Good analogy! Although when starving a diner would rather have something they didn't order than no order at all, such is the case with no communication, even a little is better than nothing.

Will- Thank you, and I could have communicated much, much more as well, but even good communication does not have to be lengthy.

Broker Bryant - Agreed, and I wonder if those people that have said they are blessed with the Gift, are only listening to themselves, my guess is that, that would be the case.

Dave - Absolutely, like Bryant said "clear and precise" is best, it needs to be superb as well.

May 25, 2012 04:48 AM
John Marshall - FORE!
LoKation Real Estate - Cherry Hills Village, CO
Specializing in Golf Course Properties

Dale - Thank you, lack of communication has to be the number one reason for negative issues and outcomes in all walks of life.

May 25, 2012 04:50 AM
Kathy Stoltman
Ventura, CA
RETIRED

I have an offer submitted to an listing agent that needs to learn the meaning of communication, never have encountered an agent that simply does not return calls, emails, etc.  Good post.

May 25, 2012 06:19 AM
John Marshall - FORE!
LoKation Real Estate - Cherry Hills Village, CO
Specializing in Golf Course Properties

Kathy - Thank you, it is sad when agents do not communicate, whose best interest could they possibly be working for?

May 25, 2012 07:21 AM
Joan Whitebook
BHG The Masiello Group - Nashua, NH
Consumer Focused Real Estate Services

Communication is sooooo important.  It can mean success if one is a good communicator.. and it can lead to future business.  It is well worth the time and effort.

May 25, 2012 12:00 PM
Robert Rucker III
Fairbanks, AK

Hello John,

Communication - from the Latin word "communis", meaning to share. Congratulations on your feature. Very well done.

May 25, 2012 01:01 PM
Carie Shapiro
North Shore Suburbs & Chicago Real Estate - Evanston, IL

Congratulations on the feature, John.  Can't say enough about the importance of good communication skills.  And, as you said, being a good listener is key!

May 25, 2012 01:34 PM
Christine Donovan
Donovan Blatt Realty - Costa Mesa, CA
Broker/Attorney 714-319-9751 DRE01267479 - Costa M

John - So simple and so important. Without communication, it's very hard to get far.

May 25, 2012 01:41 PM
John Marshall - FORE!
LoKation Real Estate - Cherry Hills Village, CO
Specializing in Golf Course Properties

Joan - I couldn't agree more, every one I know that is at the top of their field is a great communicator.

Robert - Nice, I love learning where the core of a word comes from, I would also imagine that it means "to commune" with others, same as to share, and sharing is not a one way street. Thanks for stopping by and commenting.

Carie - Thank you and as a fellow managing broker you obviously know the importance of communicating.

Christine - Exactly, I can only imagine as an attorney and a broker, communication is a very big of your day to day life.

May 26, 2012 12:56 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

John, GREAT post, and believe communication will make or break an agent getting into this business!    Congrats on the Feature!

May 26, 2012 09:13 AM
John Marshall - FORE!
LoKation Real Estate - Cherry Hills Village, CO
Specializing in Golf Course Properties

Joan - Thank you very much!

Brian - Absolutely, the biggest complaint form agent to agent and from the public is always regarding the lack of communication.

May 27, 2012 11:49 AM
Diane Daley
Caron's Gateway Real Estate - Northumberland, NH

I agree communication is most important in any relationship as well.  good bad or indifferent TALK

May 29, 2012 08:00 AM
Frank Rubi
Frank Rubi Real Estate, LLC - Metairie, LA
FrankRubiRealEstate.com

John, on point communication is so important. Specifically listening is the key. BTW I l resemble your address always looking and playing a good round. See you on the fairway. 

Jun 07, 2012 01:07 PM
David Shamansky
US Mortgages - David Shamansky - Highlands Ranch, CO
Creative, Aggressive & 560 FICO - OK, Colorado Mtg

Hey John Great Post!

Love these style posts that are so packed with great content and advice.

Also like running across fellow Coloradans!

Keep in touch... Peace

Jun 07, 2012 01:26 PM
John Marshall - FORE!
LoKation Real Estate - Cherry Hills Village, CO
Specializing in Golf Course Properties

David -  we are so close we chould be grabbing a cup of coffee together to see how we can help each other

 

Jun 08, 2012 01:24 AM
John Marshall - FORE!
LoKation Real Estate - Cherry Hills Village, CO
Specializing in Golf Course Properties

Frank -  always good to connect with other like minded people, I welcome you to post any golf related items, listings, courses, new construction whatever at my golfing group here on Activerain, I created it to find connect agents that have a love of the game and to get to know each other as well as create a golf referral resource for agents and clients.

Jun 08, 2012 01:28 AM