When I was 14 years old, my family took a road trip to Yellowstone National Park.  It was not too long after the terrible fires had swept the park, but it was still some of the most breath-taking country I have ever seen.  While there were many high points to a trip that included bear watching, Old Faithful, the natural hot springs, the Grand Tetons and far more than this cerebral cortex can access at this time, there is one aspect of the trip that left an indelible mark.  Allow me to provide a little background.

I am the son of a fisherman.  Predictably, this makes me a fisherman as well

My youth was filled with campfires, propane lanterns, stringers, lures, salmon eggs, sleeping bags, a GMC Jimmy and a fiberglass canoe that was made in my grandfather's shop.  My wakeup calls often came in the form of coffee breath and dew-soaked tent walls on cold Northern Arizona mornings.

Having spent my childhood catching and not catching fish in lakes and streams all over Arizona, I became quite adept at my craft.  There were those days when the fish just wouldn't bite, however.  No matter what Mepps, Z-Ray or Panther Martin I would tie to the end of my line, the fish just smirked.

On this trip to Yellowstone, my father and I decided we would add a new skill to the tacklebox.  We would learn how to fly fish.  No longer would we struggle through those days when only the old pro with the magical cast would catch his limit.  We outfitted ourselves with new tackle, new rods & reels, and dove headlong into our pursuit of trout.  Browns, Brookies, Rainbows ... whatever species was foolish enough to navigate our waterways.

The very first cast with my new fly rig was upon a beautiful stream.  My effort did not match up well with the scenery, however, as the line became a tangled mass of spaghetti.

After patiently retrieving and unraveling my mess, I made a second attempt.  This one was better, but still not in the spot I had targeted.

I lifted the line out of the water, drew my arm back to recast ... and buried that Peacock Lady right in my nose!  Unable to pull the barbed hook out, my parents had to load us into the truck for what was then the longest hour of my life.  On the way to the emergency room, my sister, her friend and my best friend all shared furtive laughter at my expense.  I was furious and terrified at the same time.  Fortunately, the ER doc was amazing, and pulled a magic trick involving the use of another line as a fulcrum to pop that fly right out of my nose.  My ordeal turned out to be more humiliation than anything else.  The only damage done to my ego.

Red with embarrassment and somewhat gun-shy, I managed to climb aboard a guided boat the following day to go fishing again with my father and my buddy.  This time on Yellowstone Lake.  We were offered the choice of lures versus flies.  My friend chose lures.  My father and I chose flies.  I'll never forget my pal pulling trout after trout after trout after trout out of that spiteful lake while my father and I got skunked.  Not one fish on the unfamiliar tackle between the two of us after 4 hours of flogging.  My friend was grinning from ear to ear for the rest of the trip with yet another anecdote at my expense.

 

Fortunately, I was undeterred.  I practiced with that fly rod.  I took it down to Lake Margherite in McCormick Ranch back home in Scottsdale and angled for blue gill and bass.  I practiced dry casting in the front yard.  I took it as my sole rod on many future trips.  Eventually, I became pretty darn good with that rod Over the years, my father and I have had some monster days once our new skills became properly honed.  Now, we are the ones who often catch dinner while fellow anglers flounder with limited tackle and skill sets.  My friend has not smiled nearly as broadly on the few occasions we have gotten together at the lake recently.

 

For those among and around us who would question the merit of adding new skills such as blogging and search engine optimization to the portfolio, I say you are working for today without planning for tomorrow.  Results may or may not be immediate, but they are more likely to follow the agent that never stops learning.

 

For those who would be intimidated to endeavor to start blogging, I say don't worry about getting skunked from time to time.  It's all part of the learning process.  While the skills of yesterday have served me and many other agents well, this is a brave new world in which we live.  To catch tomorrow's fish, you have to start adding skills to your tacklebox today. 

 

So go ahead and bury that hook in your nose, it'll pop right out! 

 

 

 

Paul Slaybaugh is your source for Scottsdale AZ Real Estate.  Selling Scottsdale, Phoenix and Paradise Valley AZ homes since 1999, Paul is always willing to injure himself to improve his service!  One call to Paul for all of your Scottsdale Real Estates needs, and you'll be hooked!  Quite figuratively, I assure you.

 

 

 

64 Comments on Fly Fishing, Real Estate, Blogging and a Hook in my Nose

JAN
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2008
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Fishing is a sport.  Fly Fishing is an art.

There's nothing like spending an entire vacation being getting outsmarted by a German Brown during the largest hatch of the year.

What a great blog, Paul.

11:12pm • #1
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Nice analogy Paul.  The fishing trip....except for the nose hook sounded great....the additional skill sets needed to meet the new demands of our market and clients is going to expand our tackle boxes.  Nice post.
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Tell me the truth, Paul.  Have I already got the hook buried and just didn't know any better?  I have a feeling my mistakes will string up more than just a nose.  But if you can fling yourself out there like the rebounding rubber band, I guess I can too. 
11:30pm • #3
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2008
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Amanda, I am well versed in getting outfoxed by German Browns.  Thanks for empathizing.

Gary:  Thank you, sir.  Gotta clean that old box out from time to time!

Elaine, you have casted beautifully from the moment you arrived here at Lake Active Rain. 

12:03am • #4
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Paul- This is one amazing story! It made me wonder if you were traveling through Yellowstone the same time I was because we also went there after those nasty fires. What breathtaking beauty abounds in this wonderful park. We saw bears and the kids just thought that was way cool.

One of my biggest fears was to have one of those hooks get stuck on my face! I have seen so many young men going to emergency rooms with a hook in their cheek, nose, etc. And I just twinged! I would stay so far away from the boys when they fished! Ah, to catch a trout, we don't have the freshwater rainbow trout here.

I love the way you wrote such a wonderful personal adventure and related it to learning how to blog and learn new things. Katerina 

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Funny thing about those Yellowstone Cutthroats.  They are usually lying just about 10 feet farther out than your line can reach.  I found the best thing to catch Cutthroats with was a flat spoon.  They work.  If you have enough line on the reel. 

I love Yellowstone Lake.  Up until a few years ago, I spent the last week in June and the first week in July tent camping in Yellowstone and catching Cutthroat all day long.  You can only have two in your possession at a time.  So, you catch two, go back to the camp site, cook the two and then go back out an catch two more. They're really strict.  If the Ranger asks to see your creel, you'd better not have a line in the water if you already have two in the bag.  Once you have two fish, you're finished, until you eat the two you have.

Yellowstone is the most beautiful place I've ever fished.  Timing is everything there.  Last week in June is warm enough to wade out in the lake to reach the fish and after the first week in July, the place is packed with tourists. 

Fishermen are not tourists.   

Thanks for the trip down memory lane.  I can't wait for Spring to hit the lake here.  In fact I believe I'll put new line on my reels this coming week. 

 

 

7:14am • #7
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Paul,  What a beautiful tale.  Great story, great analogy, great lesson!
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Paul, OUCH!!!! Barbed hook in the nose does not sound good at all. Very good analogy. There are many similarities between fishing and business, life, blogging........

Patience and persistency.

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First, good point in the analogy. Second, my husband when he was a child did the same thing to his dad, only in the back. Mike is yelling, I caught a big one. Off to the ER, but the pain fades and the memory lived on to now his grandchildren.
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Thank you for such glowing remarks, Katerina.  You really know how to make a blogger feel good about his efforts!  I fish primarily "catch and release" with barbless hooks now (so as not to hurt the fish), so any wayward casts are not quite as dangerous.  You always want to wear sunglasses, however. 
8:54am • #11
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Those rangers mean business, Lenn.  I've given fish away before so that I could stay in my little spot for a while longer.  Of course, this is precisely when the fish stop biting.  I haven't been back to Yellowstone since that trip, but I yearn to attone for my lone performance.  If you make it there this year, be sure to tell those cutthroats that their days are numbered. 
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Thank you, Marc.  There is no better metaphor for life than the art of trying to outsmart a fish in my opinion.
9:02am • #14
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Yep, patience and persistence are the keys to almost any endeavor.  We must be willing to try new things as well to be effective when current methods are sporadic and inconsistent.  The evolution of our industry and the current state of many markets across the country dictate that we practice today to be perfect in the future.  Perfection itself may not be attainable, but should always be striven for.  Thank for commenting, Bryant.
9:09am • #15
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Now that's funny, Missy!  You make an important point, too.  Pain is short-lived, but rewards can last a lifetime.  Same can be said of the virtual world.  A few blunders here or there will not be remembered in a year's time, but the consistent effort to improve will produce lasting new skills.
9:12am • #16
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PAUL-  I am both chuckling with you...picturing you 'catching' yourself...and marvelling at your insight and ability to use your life experiences to inspire others. Your writing style is all you...and I love it! Keep it coming!!! GBU!
9:52am • #17
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Paul - What a great post and analogy. I'm learning every day on active rain. One of these days, I just know I'm going to pull in a whopper!
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Paul - This is a terrific analogy, and I think I will use this one in the Family Ties wrapup post for the past week.  My father and grandfather were also avid fishermen, but I didn't get that gene.  Talk to you soon -
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Elizabeth:  Thank you as usual for your kind words.  I very much appreciate it.

Tom:  I know you will too, Tom.  In the meantime, keep reeling in the smaller ones.  They add up!

Jason:  Thanks, bud!  I'll be talking to you real soon.

11:26am • #20
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PAUL - Excellent advice for all of us.  Personally, I really enjoy the learning process, whether it's about blogging or anything that I feel can make be a better REALTOR in the future, but I know of many that are content to just do what they've always done in the past.  The past, however, has a sneaky way of catching up to you and disrupting your future.  Great job as always my friend.
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Hi Paul,
I like your story and analogy, my Grandfather was an avid fisherman.  As for learning, my thoughts are that when you stop learning, you get left in the past.  No one in this business can afford that.
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Paul I absolutely loved this post...AND I am not a fisherman! :)  It's so easy to stop when things don't go as well or as quickly as planned or desired.  The key is perseverance and persistence which are demonstrated so well in the article.  Thank You.
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Nothing is constant in this world EXCEPT change. Ah...how change has changed my whole life around. Still don't know how to fish (okay, I know how ...they just won't jump on the hook) One thing about blogging...it's been a learning experience from day one to present....and will continue because in my eyes being stagnant means no room for change. How often do I hear "that's just me". Yup....no room for change. Great story and relation to learning and moving forward for 2008!
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Paul, that is why they say patience is a virtue. I love stories about fly-fishing. I learned to fly-fish this summer on the Russian River on the Keni Peninsula of Alaska. I fell in love!! I had no idea that my father was teaching him self on their cul-de-sac back in Idaho. My father knew I was learning because I told him. He died a few weeks later. The day he died I was at my parents home and I asked my Mom who's fly rod was in the back bedroom and she told me the story and showed me some pictures. I now have that fly rod and it hangs in my office. Yes, some day I will use it :) Thanks for the fishing story :)
2:42pm • #25
Paul:  Fly fishing is such fun, and I have many stories I could tell about my fly fishing days.  I can relate to your story which you told mighty well.  
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Thank you, Jan.  There is no such thing as a bad fishing story, and I'd love to hear a few of yours someday.

Jo, that is an incredible and powerful story.  I can't think of a finer memento to hold onto.  Thank you so much for sharing this.

Sally:  What many people fail to realize is that by refusing to change as the world changes around them, they change anyway.  They go from being current and relevent to being obsolete.  There is no such thing as knowing it all, because it all changes from one moment to the next.  I was one who detested change as a youth, but have come to find it exhilerating and redeeming the older I get.

Lola, thank you kindly for your thoughtful words.  I'm glad this found the mark with you.

Cynthia, you speak the truth.  The foolish refuse to change.  The bright adapt to change.  The truly wise anticipate change.

Adam, you are as fine an example that there is on Active Rain for looking around the bend to see what is coming.  You jumped right in with your blog, created multiple groups and networked your brains out with a clear end vision.  You are a fly fisherman, my friend.

9:16pm • #27
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Paul-I too love fishing....and learning different methods...I remember I met some really nice people while I was fishing alone and they invited me to fish with a cane pole...for brim and catfish...It was challenging for me...but the people were so patient and nice.  I wasn't very good but I practiced and in time I got better...I don't have very good luck out in the ocean...I love charters...and watching the wide variety of fish that come flying on board...of course non were mine.

I don't give up though and still fish from time to time.  My biggest accomplishment was a 4 pound bass...I caught him in south florida....funny thing though I used a bobber and a worm...since then I have learned that is not the proper way to fish!

I am a firm believer in blogging and getting your name out there...Regardless of how good or bad you may think you are...you won't know unless you try....Great inspirational post! 

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Any interesting way to make a good point Paul!! I too spent lots and lots of summers fishing in the mountains in Arizona- usually the White Mountain area.  I bet that is a surprise to some!!

Fortunately, I never had any problems with my fishing hooks, but the blogging takes time, patience and practice!

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Wait until you get my age...you'll really be having fun ;)
11:06pm • #30
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06
2008
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Midori, thanks for adding your comments.  I've actually had pretty good luck deep sea fishing, too.  Dorado, tuna, sailfish, marlin ... I've still got the sailfish in the garage actually.  It was on the wall until the home office became baby room #2.  In addition to learning and growing, I liked your story about meeting the group of folks while you were fishing solo.  You threw yourself out there and were rewarded with helpful new friends.  Kind of like blogging on AR, isn't it?
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I love the White Mountains, Ginger.  Many of my favorite memories are along those streams and lakes.  Sunrise, Hawley, Greer ... I've fished them all.  Until my boys were born, I went ice fishing up there every year as well.  Those trout know me well.  I'm really looking forward to the first trip up there with all three generations of Slaybaugh men.
9:11am • #32
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I hope so, Sally.  We really grow into ourselves with age, and realize that there is very little that we can't adapt to or handle. 
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Paul, I just like you better and better..I love fish stories and that sail fish you caught is very nice! I could fish every day. I don't know why I don't live on the water..need to talk to hubby about that!

I love your analogy.

3:15pm • #34
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Paul - What a great anaogy of fishing to blogging.  Both take consistent effort, the right tools and the proper attitude.  You seem to have the right combination of all three.  Thanks for a great blog from a lady who was one of the few lady fly-fisherwoman of the seventies.
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Thank you, Linda.  Once you find that place on the water, keep an open ear for any neighbors that are thinking of selling.  I'll join you! 

 

Very kind of you to say so, Marlene.  Thank you.  A woman who harbored no qualms with entering the male-dominated realm of fly fishing circa the 1970s must have the constitution to make for a formidable agent as well.  I bet your clients would tell me I'm right.  Thanks again, Marlene.

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Paul, you betcha!
10:12pm • #37
JAN
07
2008
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Paul-What a very straight forward message you have left at the end.  Your story is a great one and oh yes, Yellowstone holds so much beauty.  We were there in September and it's easy to find peacefulness in such a beautiful place.  
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Glad you got that hook out of your nose...as for blogging, I say just jump in, the water's fine.
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08
2008
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I have seen those hooks end up in more embarrassing places and they didn't pop out.

It just shows you what you can survive and laugh (blog) about later. 

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