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What's Important To You?

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Education & Training with Bill Fields Learning Systems

One of the things I ask all new agents in my real estate training program is "What's important to you?"real estate training

Two friends were in downtown New York City, walking near Times Square in Manhattan. It was during the noon lunch hour and the streets were filled with people. Cars were honking their horns, taxicabs were squealing around corners, sirens were wailing, and the sounds of the city were almost deafening. Suddenly, one man said, "I hear a cricket."

His friend said, "What? You must be crazy. You couldn't possibly hear a cricket in all of this noise!"

"No, I'm sure of it," the man said, "I heard a cricket."

"That's crazy," said the friend. The man listened carefully for a moment, and then walked across the street to a big cement planter where some shrubs were growing. He looked into the bushes, beneath the branches, and sure enough, he located a small cricket. His friend was utterly amazed.

"That's incredible," said his friend. "You must have superhuman ears!"

"No," said the man. "My ears are no different from yours. It all depends on what you're listening for."

"But that can't be!" said the friend. "I could never hear a cricket in this noise."

"Yes, it's true," came the reply. "It depends on what is really important to you. Here, let me show you." He reached into his pocket, pulled out a few coins, and discreetly dropped them on the sidewalk.

And then, even with the noise of the crowded street still blaring in their ears, they noticed every head within twenty feet turn and look to see if the money that tinkled on the pavement was theirs.

"See what I mean?" asked the man. "It all depends on what's important to you."

What's important to you? What do you listen for?

Real estate training thought for today: We'll learn fear might not mean 'stop'; personally, I've come to believe fear usually means 'go.' It always means listen closely.

Have a fantastic day and pay attention to what you listen for!

BF

 

Sally K. & David L. Hanson
EXP Realty 414-525-0563 - Brookfield, WI
WI Real Estate Agents - Luxury - Divorce

  Keen awareness...tuning in to what is REALLY important....getting thru the noise of every day life...focus....ahhhh success !

May 23, 2012 09:43 PM
Raymond E. Camp
Ontario, NY

Very good advice and make yourself a great day

May 23, 2012 09:43 PM
Charles Stallions
Charles Stallions Real Estate Services - Pensacola, FL
850-476-4494 - Pensacola, Pace or Gulf Breeze, Fl.

Enjoyed your post and I suppose it is all in what you want or "listen" for. Have a wonderful day

May 23, 2012 09:45 PM
Leslie Godbold
WZGM AM1350 Independent Asheville Radio - Asheville, NC
Motivation Speaker, Radio host "Positively Living"

Great story and advice! We hear and achieve what we think we want. Let's hope we are listening for what we really want!

May 23, 2012 09:50 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Bill. Well, I loved the title , ibtroduction, and the doggie picture. The post was great and I agree. I try and listen for the posibilities: people and positive ideas. Suggested.

May 23, 2012 09:51 PM
Bill Fields
Bill Fields Learning Systems - Treasure Island, FL

S & D, that's our challenge every day...getting through the noise!

Thanks Ray, you have a great day too!

Charles, thanks, yes it all depends on what we chose to listen to.

Thanks Leslie appreciate your comments.

Sheila, thanks for your positive feedback. Gives us encouragement for the next post! And THANKS for suggesting this one.

May 23, 2012 10:09 PM
Fernando Herboso - Associate Broker MD, & VA
Maxus Realty Group of Samson Properties - Clarksburg, MD
301-246-0001 Serving Maryland, DC and Northern VA

Good lesson Bill.. and it is from this that we should create our "WHY" in business?

May 23, 2012 10:13 PM
Doug Rogers
RE/MAX Coastal Properties - Destin, FL
Your Real Estate Resource!

I listen for the home telephone to ring. That means the bill collectors are calling again. Time to prospect!

May 23, 2012 11:55 PM
Bill Fields
Bill Fields Learning Systems - Treasure Island, FL

Fernando, thanks for sharing, you're right "the why" is really important.

Funny Doug!

May 23, 2012 11:58 PM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Bill, it is a filter we have with our eyes and ears and thoughts for sure. We can deny it but it is there.

May 24, 2012 01:03 AM
Bill Fields
Bill Fields Learning Systems - Treasure Island, FL

The problem seems to be how people use that filter to NOT hear things they should hear! Thanks Gary.

May 24, 2012 01:32 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Bill- this is another great inspiring and though-provoking post.  I guess as they say we hear what we want to hear!

May 26, 2012 06:56 AM
Bill Fields
Bill Fields Learning Systems - Treasure Island, FL

Thanks Kathy, that's the big payoff...when it makes someone think! Appreciate the feedback.

May 26, 2012 11:54 PM