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I was tagged  by Tana Hunt to do a meme on myself.  I am not sure of how to do this but here goes.  She thought her meme was boring but I am sure mine is.

I was born  in Chelsea, Massachusetts and lived in a beautiful section of East Boston so you can say I am a Bostonian.  My parents were raised in Boston too. I was the first and then came my brother 3 years later and my sister Denise 5 more years later.   All but my first 7 years I lived in the suburbs of Boston and the last 43 in Needham, MA.  When I lived in the city of Boston I lived on the other side of Logan Airport.  I could literally walk across the street to swim at Shay's Beach everyday in the summer months.  It was great.  I don't know if anyone would be able to swim there now.  My parents decided they didn't like the noise from the planes landing at Logan Airport so we moved to Stoneham, MA.  There were times when it seemed the planes were landing on our roof.  I really liked living there though because there was a drug store next door and they had an ice cream counter.  I remember getting an ice cream for 5 cents.  On 2nd thought it might be a good thing I got away from the ice cream.

So we moved to the burbs.  My mother continued to go to Open Houses on many a Sunday afternoon for something to do.  That might have something to do with me being in real estate.  Later I married a man whose mom was a real estate agent on top of my mother's compulsion to go to open houses.

 

 

 

 

 

During my senior year high school in 1965 my dad died and that was really devastating.  The consolation was that he wasn't suffering any more.  Soon after I graduated my mother met a man at a summer cottage who had just lost his wife and they fell in love.  It gets complicated from here.  His first wife was the sister-in-law of my cousin Dolly and that made her the aunt of all my step-brothers and step-sisters.  They married that September and we were now a family of 14.  We were cheaper by the dozen.  Of those 12 children I was the oldest at home.  So my mother would leave on trips and I was the one who have to cook for the 7 of us teens.  I loved my step-brothers and step-sisters from the get-go.  We did real well getting along but we were all grieving for our parents.  My step-dad was very nice and good to us.  I was communicating to college in Boston and coming home to this large family.  My step-sister Elaine has published a book recently "Mom's the Word, Silent No More."  She is really a hot ticket.  We have great relationships.

 

 

 

 

 

In 1966 I met my husband-to-be at my friend's birthday party.

He was a childhood friend of one of my step-brothers coincidently.  We dated for 2 years and were married.  He is the best guy.  I am so blessed to be married to this guy.  He puts up with me.  He has seen me with black hair, brown hair, red hair, & platinum blonde.  I have been thin and fat.  When I say fat I mean I lost 135 lbs in 1976 and actually kept it off for 5 straight years.  Somehow I found a good deal of the weight again and I have been struggling ever since to take it off.  Everytime stress would come into my life I would pack on the pounds.  We are about to celebrate our 40th anniversary and I am blessed.

We waited 5 years and had our precious son Christopher.  We are so proud of him and what he has accomplished.  He is married with incredible 3 children.  Almost 6 years ago Chris was diagnosed with leukemia (CML) and thank God he was able to have successful bone marrow transplant.  He had another set back but is doing really fine and able to do triathlons (the swimming and biking part).  It was definitely the toughest time in my life.  When he was diagnosed he had 2 children and miraculously the conceived another child who was born one day short of a year after his transplant.  We believe Liam helped Chris recover. 

We love to go to Disney World and make it almost yearly and take Chris and his family with us.  It is a time of celebration whenever we go but especially after he had recovered.  Every time I go to visit someone in a hospital, park in a garage, and go in an elevator I am so grateful that I am not visiting Chris in a hospital. I spent many hours in the hospital with him and the other time watching my grandchildren.  We all believe in miracles now.  Chris is most definitely a miracle.

 

 

 

 

We also love Maine. In fact, we are all Mainiacs.  Here is a picture of us at the Pemaquid Lighthouse.  My mom's father's family was from York, Maine which I also love so much.


So fast forward here I am back to real estate since August of 2005 after a long sebatical.  I was licensed in 1979 and worked successfully for 3 years.  Then I took my leave when the interest rates hit 18.5%.  I was young and didn't know about yet about the cycles of real estate.  I did start a very successful business and I still enjoy that.  It is almost like a hobby for me now.  I am enjoying my return to real estate and I love all the technology.  It is fun. I also know that things are going to turn around for sure. 

I have meme'd Kay Perry, Doreen McPherson, and Debbie Malone

 

22 Comments on Here Goes My MeMe - Be kind

It is great to meet you and hear all about you and your family.  You certainly have had your challenges and it is inspirational to find out that everyone is doing well. May you and your family have an wonderful and healthy 2008.

01/10/2008 09:58 PM by Joan Whitebook, ABR, e-Pro, CEBA (Buyer's Option Realty Services)


Wow, great post Pat. I am so glad Chris is well and what a testimony to your husband! I LOVE Maine too and hope we can get up there this summer.

Would you believe I've been tagged twice today!!!!Off to MeMe land! Thanks, Debbie

01/10/2008 09:58 PM by Debbie Malone, Realtor (R), Lynchburg, Smith Mountain Lake, VA (RE/MAX 1st Olympic)


Hi Joan, Thank you for you nice comments. Life has had challenges but God has been good through it all. I wish you a wonderful 2008 too!

01/10/2008 10:01 PM by Pat Baker Real Estate Expert Needham, MA (Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage )


Hi Debbie, Thank you.  You have been busy and popular. I thought you might have been tagged in the past but I decided to go ahead any way. It took me a couple of days to get to mine.  Sounds like you are really doing great! Congratulations and may it continue. Best to you in 2008.

01/10/2008 10:03 PM by Pat Baker Real Estate Expert Needham, MA (Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage )


Hi Monika, Thank you so much.  Wishing you great success in 2008.

01/10/2008 10:08 PM by Pat Baker Real Estate Expert Needham, MA (Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage )


Your MeMe was NOT boring, sis........ I found it quite interesting.....

Mostly about you loving Maine....... it is so far away from everything......

When I think of that I think of being on a Missions Trip...helping others....

I wanna do one this year.....

Hows that!!

=-)

 

01/11/2008 01:26 AM by Central Florida real estate - Alexander Harb PSEM®, E-Agent® (Beach and Luxury Realty Inc.)


Hi Pat, 

Well, it is nice to get to know you better.  Are you sure you really want to know me??  :)  

That's pretty funny about your mom and the open houses.  Funny how it seems we are affected by what they do.  And then you marry into a real estate family.  

Regarding your son, he is a miracle and your grand children are precious.  

You truly are blessed.  

 

 

 

01/11/2008 02:11 AM by Phoenix Arizona Real Estate ~ Doreen McPherson (Keller Williams Arizona Realty ~ Scottsdale ~ Tempe)


Pat--You wrote a wonderful meme with so much info to get to know you. What a background with all of those brothers and sisters. I thought 5 kids was a big family! So happy to read that your son is healthy. We are also Disney fanatics and go for 10-11 days every other year. Such a great place for a celebration. Thanks for letting us get to know more about you. :)

01/11/2008 08:34 AM by Teri Eckholm, Realtor® Anoka County MN (Keller Williams Premier Realty)


Hi Doreen: Thank you. I can remember those open houses like it was yesterday.  We are truly blessed. 

01/11/2008 08:38 AM by Pat Baker Real Estate Expert Needham, MA (Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage )


Hi Alexander, That sounds wonderful, a missions trip.  I would love to on a Missions trip to the Philippines.  I have so many friends from there in my church.  Now they are citizens and I celebrate that for them but they go annually to the Philippines in August. Perhaps some day I can go too.

01/11/2008 08:40 AM by Pat Baker Real Estate Expert Needham, MA (Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage )


Hi Teri,  Thank you for comment. We have Disney in common now along with relatively large families.  God has been so good to us regarding our son.  It was hard going through it but He did take us through.  Blessings.

01/11/2008 08:41 AM by Pat Baker Real Estate Expert Needham, MA (Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage )


Your life in a capsulated format. You had a great life. Sounds like you had alot of fun. This was very enlightening.

01/11/2008 09:43 AM by Robert L. Brown~Grand Rapids Real Estate Flexit Realty, West Michigan (www.mrbrownsellsgr.com)


Hi Robert, It is true I have had a wonderful life. I have been blessed.

01/11/2008 10:27 AM by Pat Baker Real Estate Expert Needham, MA (Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage )


Great meme, Pat.  I saw the Atlantic for the first time a couple of years ago.  Visiting an aunt on Long Beach Island.  Saw several lighthouses, notably Barnegat.  Of course, we have lighthouses in Michigan, too.

Glad Christopher is doing well.  I'll bet I know which of the stem cell debate you're on.

01/14/2008 01:28 PM by Karen Webster...Grand Rapids, MI Realtor (5 Star Real Estate, Grand Rapids MI)


Hi Pat, great job on your MeMe. Loved the Main photo! I think I'm going to be trying to figure out the "family tree" for a while though. Whew, that one's complicated :-)

Colleen

01/14/2008 02:32 PM by Maple Valley WA Broker/Owner Colleen Fischesser 425-432-5400 (RE/MAX Select Real Estate)


Hi Colleen: thank you.  It is really complicated.  I have never been able to explain it well.

My step dad was married the eldest sister of my cousin Dolly's husband Harold.

She was my step-family's aunt and my first cousin.  Crazy huh? We are not blood related to my step-brothers and sisters though.


01/14/2008 03:32 PM by Pat Baker Real Estate Expert Needham, MA (Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage )


Pat - You have led a very interesting life. Wow 12 kids...that is what I call a large family. Living so close to the airport must have been very strange. I am a big fan of York Maine as well. I have been going there every year since I was a kid. My parents have a cottage right across the street from the Cutty Sark Motel at the start of Long Sands Beach.

01/15/2008 09:32 PM by Bill Gassett Metrowest Massachusetts Real Estate (RE/MAX Executive Realty)


HI Bill, Sorry I haven't written sooner. I injured my leg/knee on ice last night and I may be heading for the hospital.  I decided to wait until morning to contact doc.  I justhad surgery 2 months on the knee for torn cartilage.  I am not a happy camper right now.  Thank you for your note.  We have York in common for sure.

I have had a interesting life, sometimes quite crazy, like now, but all in all wonderful and blessed. Enjoy your day! 

01/16/2008 06:49 AM by Pat Baker Real Estate Expert Needham, MA (Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage )


Hi Pat! Your MEME is certainly NOT boring! I was completely captivated. I really enjoyed learning more about you and your interesting family.You are a blessing to know. :) You have overcome much and have such a sweet spirit about you. Hope you have a great week!

01/22/2008 07:17 PM by Melissa Wagner (Leo Parker Real Estate & Auction)


Hi Melissa, How great to hear from you and your nice comments. You are the blessing.  

01/22/2008 08:47 PM by Pat Baker Real Estate Expert Needham, MA (Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage )


Hi Pat,  I finally posted my meme, if you are still interested...  sorry it took so long.  

02/21/2008 03:03 PM by Phoenix Arizona Real Estate ~ Doreen McPherson (Keller Williams Arizona Realty ~ Scottsdale ~ Tempe)


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