As a partner at Family Abstract, Inc. one of my many very “difficult jobs” is to play golf with clients. LOL  Now, please don’t stop reading, because this story deals with one of life’s’ great dilemmas.   I was playing with one of my realtor friends and his client and wife that were purchasing a new home the following weekend.   We were playing for a buck a hole and taking it as serious as any 4 weekend “Duffers” will.  The match was tied at the end of 17 holes. I had the honor and hit my ball a modest two hundred fifty yards to the middle of the fairway, leaving a simple six iron to the pin. The realtor then hits his ball, lofting it deep into the woods to the right of the fairway.

Being the golfing gentleman that I am, I help my opponent look for his ball. Just before the permitted five minute search period ends, the Realtor says: “Go ahead and hit your second shot and if I don’t find it in time, I’ll concede the Hole.”

I hit my ball, landing it on the green, stopping about ten feet from the pin. About the time my ball comes to rest, I hear my opponent exclaim from deep in the woods: “I found it!”. The second sound I hear is a click, the sound of a club striking a ball and the ball comes sailing out of the woods and lands on the green, stopping no more than six inches from the hole.

Now here is the ethical dilemma:

Do I pull the cheating bastard’s ball out of my pocket and confront him with it or do I keep my mouth shut?

http://www.familyabstract.comEthics Morals and values are instilled in us when we are little and remain with us our while lives.  How many times are realtors confronted with an “Ethical” dilemma that places them in the bad spot of having to take the high road for their client as their own family may suffer.   As a Title Insurance agency, Family Abstract is ofter asked to forgo certain requirements and just keep our mouth shut.  I can assure you, we WONT bend on the Ethics, Morals and Values that were instilled in us as children, and grew stronger over our 26 year history in the title industry.  Title insurance, thankfully, does not place agencies  in uncomfortable positions because our rules are based on laws and statutes that we can always rely on, if the asking gets too tough and we need the proof of law to back up our statements.  Golf is Golf!

So keep your own balls in your own pocket, play with your own putter and just shoot the best you can.

From my family to yours from Commitment to Closing please keep Family Abstract, Inc in mind for all your title needs in PA, NJ, MD and FL.  If you like the writings please go to Facebook and Like US, Give us a Google +1, and leave us a comment.

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Located in Horsham, Pennsylvania, Family Abstract, Inc. maintains an extensive network of skilled title insurance abstractors in all the states we service in addition to a nationwide network of qualified closing agents who are available to close loans at any location.

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7 Comments on An Analogy between Golf and Realtor Ethics,

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I am not huge into golf, but I was able to understand your anaology very well, my husband would be so proud haha. Great post!

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Beth, with that smile on Buds face, I think he's already proud of you!!  Thanks for commenting, it is appreciated!

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Interesting post.  Great analogy.

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Pat and Steve, I really appreciate you taking the time to commment, be well.

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I was playing one day with a foursome and another group behind was pushing us to play fast which we could not do because of the group in front of us..   At a par 3 hole on a raised up green that was blind to the tee box just as I fininshed and all were leaving the green and I was placing the flag back in the hole....bump,  a ball from the guys behind me hit me in the leg...   I got mad but I wanted to get even....so in my gone to the dark side mind,  I was going to kick the ball off the green.   I kicked the ball and as things would have it, pop it went right into the hole...

Either I made his day with a hole in one or made his partners really unsure at what just happened...

 

Great post....

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Sounds just like the story line in the great James Bond movie Goldfinger. 

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Richard, great story, I would have hiud to see the reaction.

 

Dale, good additional analogy.

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