Many times I am introduced to situations where someone is overwhelmed. I immediately begin a line of questioning to help out and what do I find? There are multiple issues going on making it near impossible to pin anything down. I am not saying that what is going on is not relevant NO. I am saying that we need to tackle whatever is happening systematically
PICK ONE AND LETS BEGIN
Pick one subject. I don't care which one it is. We will just start from there. Lets take buying a home for instance. To someone who has done this before or has never done it, it remains a meaty endeavor. Many considerations and questions will surface and if addressed as they are presented, clarity will soon follows.
ONE BIG BLUR
Lumping everything together only makes what we are doing look bigger, less clear and more troublesome than it really is. We are supposed to take the subject and command it to do our bidding. For that, we need to focus and then proceed with any problems, solutions, questions and answers...We need order to begin and order to finish too
MOVE IN LOGICAL PROGRESSION
We must imitate nature by introducing and handling things in cycles. Things must present themselves, play their purpose out and then we move on to the next phase. When it has made all the rounds, the cycle is complete. Spring, Summer, Winter and Fall are good examples of that. All together is chaos. Separate them and they make good and perfect sense
READY....AIM....FIRE
Research and gathering information is very useful too. To keep questions or thoughts in your head without completing the purpose of them being there is exhausting. However when handled, gives a closure with satisfaction. Remember, we want to aim what we are shooting for and then hit that target. Too much going on works against pulling that trigger correctly
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