(Fill in the noun) for Dummies has been one of the most successful franchises
in publishing history. Since the inaugural DOS for Dummies launched in 1991, there are over 250 million of the the trademark yellow and black softcover books in print 1800+ titles, in 30 languages.
The self-deprecating title almost kept the first one out of bookstores, but that was its genius: take a complex, confusing, intimidating, anxiety-provoking topic; distill it into layman terms, add some yuks and cute drawings, and you've got a read that is helpful, effective and entertaining.
Like it's look-alike and predecessor Cliff's Notes (seriously, named after it's inventor, a guy named CLIFF) the goal was convey vital info in the simplest and clearest way possible, so it could be quickly read and easily remembered.
But instead of procrastinating teens who've put off the reading assignment, we buy these books because we are now accomplished, busy adults, secure enough to acknowledge what we don't know, AND seriously focused on the business of learning it, so we can get on with our life.
EXACTLY the premise of the shopping service offered by The Refreshed Home. Simply-you become informed, and comfortably prepared to make your own best decisions, quickly.
Let's say you need to buy some upholstery for your family room. When most people have that realization, they drive around, wandering through furniture stores, waiting for inspiration to strike, muttering to themselves 'I'll know it when I see it'. Worse, they purchase out of frustration, only to find it's too big/uncomfortable/poorly made/wrong color/etc.

BUT- how cool would it be- if when you went into a store, you had already thought out the option of a sectional vs a sofa and two chairs?
Already understood what a woven fabric was, and why it'd be a good choice for you?
Already realized your preference for three separate seat cushions, a rolled arm and no skirt, and knew that cushions with welting will keep their shape longer?
OR
What if someone who knew what they were doing asked all the tough questions and was negotiating on your behalf?
EXACTLY.
Diagnosing where clients are stuck, setting a strategy, then putting tools in their hands is The Refreshed Home's specialty. Structured for people who need to make changes, want to understand, and actively participate in the process, but:
- Don't know where to start
- Aren't sure of what they need, or like
- Don't trust their taste
- Can't visualize
- Have no time
- Hate to shop, or haven't shopped in years
- Dislike dealing with "salespeople"
After the initial consult, here are some ways we could proceed:
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Wish List: I create a detailed shopping list, even a scaled floor plan for your own shopping experience. Included: suggested sizes, colors, or styling details, as well as shopping tips; floor plans clearly communicate the dimensions/details of the space
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Reconnaissance Mission: After we define your needs and explore ideas, I lay the groundwork by speed-shopping through various stores, showrooms, websites and other vendors on my own, then provide you an itinerary of places to visit, with photos/links and pricing
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Accompanied shopping: We meet, and look for specific product/solutions while reviewing any market or manufacturing info that would be helpful. You might make decisions then, but if not, you will know what you're looking at, and be comfortable making good decisions later, out on your own
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Online: We review the merits of products and looks online together; point being you know what to look for, what to ask about when you go out shopping on your own.
This Westchester County Decorator and Home Stager is always open to finding new ways to make things work better for her clients, so if you are stuck, just call and start the conversation, we'll figure out what you need and the best way to get it done.
Sofas (or colors, lighting, draperies. rugs, mattresses, home offices, wallpaper, dining tables, etc) for Dummies? Not after we work together!
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"Home Staging is anything that betters the market position of a property, while easing the minds of both the seller, and Realtor" ~TRH
Our spaces affect us profoundly. Whether you are buying, selling or staying-The Refreshed Home is your Westchester County Decorating, and Home Staging specialist. Bettering Westchester and lower Fairfield County CT homes since 1981, we know it's about more than a good visual.
The Refreshed Home helps you plan, and make good decisions. It's creative and quality direction for the DIYer, full service to the busy, or out of the area homeowners/landlords.
Need to sell? Have listless listings? Just ready for a change? Know that something needs to be done, but don't know where-or how-to start? Let The Refreshed Home be your partner in change. Because when your space works, so many other things fall into place!

Marie Graham ASP, IAHSP, IDS Your Stager With A Mission!
QUESTIONS? Don't hesitate!! 914.607.2895
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8 Comments on Sofas for Dummies (NOT): Shopping with The Refreshed Home
Most of the time when I'm working with a decorating client Marie, this is my exact process. By the time we get into a store to look at furniture, I know exactly what I'm going to show them based on what they have told me and the process is much easier. Great information.
ROGER! Thanks for stopping by! It makes so much sense, and people are amazed at how fast things can go, and how un-stressed they are this way. All good things, right?
It's the best way to work Marie, totally easier on everyone. You do the preliminary stuff without someone breathing down your neck and you bring them in to make some final decisions...............easy. Even when I was leasing apartments in Manhattan, I previewed all of our listings so when I got a call for a specific type of apartment, it saved a lot of time.
Preparation gets rid of a lot of headaches (and disagreements in the middle of a store).
Roger-you know how I can really tell the market is changing? People are starting to 'get'- and be interested in (again) real values that services provide. Aren;t we SO lucky to be where we are, doing what we do these days??!
PATTY! No yelling or disagreements on MY watch!!
Marie, I had always hoped for an "Understanding Women for Dummies" and no sooner said than done...have a happy, safe, and forget my phone # kind of a 4th ;)
By the way, there's no doubt in my mind that you...Marie Graham, The Refreshed Home is the nexus between what we "Dummies" think we know about staging and what really is. (Did I save myself with that?)
Marie, just stopped back by today to wish you a happy 4th...and to see what kind of a smack down you were going to give me for the previous comment.
OH NICK-I started to respond earlier, got distracted, then imspired to do an I <heart> AR post, so never completed it. @comment to Patty, above, there is no yelling-OR HITTING-on the watch of The Refreshed Home!! I;ll never get my own HGTV show that way, but I can live with that :). Happy 4th to you too my friend and supporter!!