Always wise to pull in the reins and assess where we are, why and who else is present. That action is always worthy of a second look...
My Dad had Alzheimer's too, but it was the cancer that took him away from us. You have the right attitude to get you through. Cherish each moment!
Mel, Such great advice. I have lost my father and my mom suffers from cortical basil degeneration which robs you of the neural functions to control your muscles. The worst part she is fully aware of what is happening.
I spent 5 years working at Fred Hutchinson Cancer Center and truly and empathetic to those going through cancer. My wishes to you you and your family and enjoy each and every moment, life is very fleeting at times.
So heres to tipping a cup of Joe with our fellow traverlers in this world ; ) (I am from Seattle so tipping Joe I think is genetic ; )
My empathy....had both parents in intensive care, recovering from knee surgery....and the list goes on....9 years ago...there will be a time you won't believe you did it....and always glad you did.
So true Lou... time can be our enemy or our friend.
I love it when that happens.... Tammy!
That is sad... Kevin. Death and pain touches each one of us and we all have our own way of dealing with it. My thoughts are with your girl and her family ;)
I wish I could spend more time... Christine, living 10 hours away makes it difficult.
Jeanne & Ralph ~ I'm savoring every moment... and thank you for your words of wisdom too!
You're a lucky man Gary... treasure the time you have left with your parents.
Amanda & Jared ~ I've been around the cancer block a few times... but never with Alzheimers.
Janis ~ Sounds like you've experienced your share of tragedy! How painful it must have been to lose your mom so young. My mom died at the age of 55... way too young in my book. I appreciate your words of wisdom and encouragement!
Thanks Phil... there's therapy in writing ;)))
I'm a reflective sort of gal... Richie... always taking a second look and evaluating the circumstances around me.
It seems so much more prevalent these days, doesn't it? I'm sorry for your loss Judy... and I appreciate your suggestion ;)
Oh Donald... I can so relate to your personal story. My mom had Multiple Sclerosis... her body deteriorated while her mind remained sharp. It was a long slow process and difficult to watch. Blessings to you for being so empathetic to others in similar situations... it says a lot about you! Since I live in the Pacific Northwest (home to the world's best coffee)... I'll join you in tipping my cup of Joe too ;)))
I hear ya... Sally. Human resiliency is an amazing thing, isn't it?!
Mel- I can see where you got your infectious smile!!! You have grasped the true meaning of this thing called life. I love your title a gazillion cups of coffee. It's the time spent not so much on the priority project we're working on with our co-workers but the 10 minutes we may have with them over a cup of coffee. Have a great weekend.
Melinda, having just lost my, young 76 year old, father in April I can not agree with you more. Every day is a gift and needs to be cherished. You never get that time back.
Mel:
At least you have learned that we have so little time with the people we love that we must cherish them and visit or call them frequently. Some people never learn that lesson and they are left with regrets.
Mel, I lost my dad nine years ago to lung cancer. He was 69. Cherish those days. Because as you say, that's what really matters.
Mel you're stories are always the best and show how real a person can be. I am always interested in reading what you will right next. As you said about Ann Curry you my friend are a class act and the world is a better place with you around.
Hi Mel - This is a message I try to spread as much as possible. Over the last several years I have lost my mom, dad, sister, favorite uncle, two aunts, two cousins, and my mother-in-law. While you still have your family, make sure that you show them as much love as you can. You will be glad you did and will always regret it if you don't.
How can I read this and not feel sad for you, but then realize it's a way to cope. Hope you are doing so!!
Mel, I'm sorry to hear about your father and uncle. I can only imagine how special this weekend was for all of you. They are lucky to have you in their lives and you are fortunate that they are part of yours. Your story brings back memories.
Hi Mel, I hope you guys have a gazillion more moments together. Then when you look back, it will be with a smile because you did cherish them!
Mel belle, been thinking about ya. Glad you spent some quality time with those quality men in your life. You are a simple gal - with quite a bit of wonderful and fascinating complexity - but, simple pleasures are always the best in my book too. ;) xxoo
Mel, I'm going through some of the same things with people close to me...ditto on the "gazillion cups of coffee"...and personally...I think you are anything, but simple.
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