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The Donut that's been to Iraq and back

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with HOMEFRONT Realty WA State Licence #23384

When you are a military spouse you count things, lots of things.You count how many days until he leaves, you count how many days until he comes home, you count how many days until the next PCS, you count how many days until he leaves again.  You have to count most of these days in private. You have to be careful about Operational Security or OPSEC.

I think it was in 2003 when some soldier or Marine who was stationed in Iraq decided to compose what was and is to this day called "The Donut of Misery".This donut has been emailed and passed along to military families all over the world. My first donut was given to me in 2004 when my husband was in Iraq for the first time.  I was so excited to tell him about it. When he finally called it was the first thing I said and you know what? He had one too.

There are donuts all over the computer of Iraq and Afghanistan. It isn't just a "spouse" thing. The one I am posting isn't a OPSEC violation - it is the length of my husbands tour at his current duty station in Anchorage, Alaska. The colors of these donuts are diverse, this is my version of bold and bright, I am sure when I first received it there was no hot pink or electric lime green. You make your donut yours and someone else makes it theirs.

So if you know someone that needs a donut just email me with their email address or yours and I will send it off. You need to have Microsoft Excel to set it up. This is just one of the "quirky" things those of us do to pass the time our loved ones are away.

The Donut comes with some crazy sayings when you hit mile stones.  Some people have changed them to fit their personality but mine still has the originals.

Still a long way to go... 

So...how many steps does it take to get to the latrines?

Are we there yet?

Congratulations you're over the hump!

You are single digit veritcaly challenged

Hello Mayor!

Leaving on a Jet Plane!

 


If you have any questions about real estate in Bremerton Washington, contact Jo Soss with Skyline Properties, Inc. at (360) 990-1433 or visit her personal website Puget Sound Real Estate Today where you will be able to search for homes and find more Bremerton Real Estate information.


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Jo Soss is the designated Broker and the owner of Homefront Realty in Bremerton Washington. Selling real estate in the greater Puget Sound area since 1994 she has vast knowledge in all aspects of a real estate transaction. Using today's technology with her signature personal service allows her to achieve complete customer satisfaction.

Comments(45)

Jo Olson
HOMEFRONT Realty - Kettle Falls, WA
Retired - HOMEFRONT Realty @ LAKE Roosevelt

Brenda, Thanks for sharing! Sorry so late on the response! Some how I missed it.

Sep 29, 2008 08:36 AM
Anonymous
Erica

I have been trying to get this program! Could you please email it to me...I have excel...and let e know the instructions on how to customize it... PLEASE. I wold be sooo grateful. My hubby just left for his IA deployment...this is our 4th deployment..our 1st IA. Thanks so much

 

 

beachbumqt80@yahoo.com

 

 

:O) Erica

Sep 30, 2008 02:55 AM
#27
Jo Olson
HOMEFRONT Realty - Kettle Falls, WA
Retired - HOMEFRONT Realty @ LAKE Roosevelt

Erica, I just sent it off to you. I hope that you are getting the support on the IA tour - seems like the military is trying to come up with a plan that is more supportive for IA's than when it first started. Good Luck

Sep 30, 2008 03:58 AM
Cindy Jones
Integrity Real Estate Group - Woodbridge, VA
Pentagon, Fort Belvoir & Quantico Real Estate News

Jo-this is great of you to share the Donut with so many people.  Everyone who has a loved one delployed anywhere in the world knows about counting the days.  Thanks for sharing this.

Sep 30, 2008 12:55 PM
Jo Olson
HOMEFRONT Realty - Kettle Falls, WA
Retired - HOMEFRONT Realty @ LAKE Roosevelt

Cindy, counting the days can be boring - this way always makes me smile :)

Oct 01, 2008 02:43 AM
Anonymous
Stephanie.

heyy.. I dont have excel and ive tried to dl it but I cant figure out how to get it. Is there any way to do this donut without excel. I have about 8 months left on my husbands tour and would LOVE it!

Nov 19, 2008 05:18 AM
#31
Jo Olson
HOMEFRONT Realty - Kettle Falls, WA
Retired - HOMEFRONT Realty @ LAKE Roosevelt

Stephanie, I'm sorry. I think the only other way to do it is to redesign it in another spreadsheet program. I have no idea how to do that. Sorry

Nov 19, 2008 05:25 AM
Anonymous
Stephanie

I figured out how to dl excel! I would love it if you could send it to me please :)

punkin6144@yahoo.com

 

thanks so much :)

Nov 19, 2008 06:52 AM
#33
Jo Olson
HOMEFRONT Realty - Kettle Falls, WA
Retired - HOMEFRONT Realty @ LAKE Roosevelt

Stephanie, I am sending it now - just change your dates and you can also change the colors if you want. Stay strong and from one military spouse to another OOH RAH!

Nov 19, 2008 06:57 AM
Anonymous
Stephanie

Thank you sooo much! ur awesome :)

Nov 19, 2008 07:04 AM
#35
Anonymous
amy

How can i get one? Ive tried one or two but they don't seem to work correctly

Mar 12, 2009 04:43 AM
#36
Jo Olson
HOMEFRONT Realty - Kettle Falls, WA
Retired - HOMEFRONT Realty @ LAKE Roosevelt

Amy, Do you have the Excel program?  If you do send my your email address to my email address

jo [at] westsoundlive [dot] com

Mar 12, 2009 05:25 AM
Anonymous
Kayla

Could I please get it! My cousin just got deployed and it has hit me pretty hard so it would be a great thing to have to keep track and keep positive thoughts!

 

Thanks so much!

Aug 07, 2010 07:17 PM
#38
Anonymous
Kayla

I forgot to post my email address

 

slappy_97@hotmail.com

 

Thanks again

Aug 07, 2010 07:18 PM
#39
Jo Olson
HOMEFRONT Realty - Kettle Falls, WA
Retired - HOMEFRONT Realty @ LAKE Roosevelt

Kayla, I am sending it off to you today.  Stay strong and send letters and care packages. Time will go by pretty quick.

Aug 08, 2010 05:07 AM
Anonymous
Julie Hoppoenn

Would love to have this !!!!! My FInace is almost done w/basic, but will be great to already have for when he deploys

hoju0901@stcloudstate.edu

Sep 05, 2010 03:01 AM
#41
Anonymous
Jennifer Nickeson

I sent you an email before I realized I could just post you a comment.  Sorry about that. 

I would love to have the donut.   This looks like a great tool.

My address is jen@nickesondesigns.com.

 

Thanks!

 

Jennifer Nickeson

Sep 15, 2010 01:51 PM
#42
Jo Olson
HOMEFRONT Realty - Kettle Falls, WA
Retired - HOMEFRONT Realty @ LAKE Roosevelt

Jennifer,

I hope you received the email.  I saw your email before this comment :)

Sep 15, 2010 02:44 PM
Anonymous
Ashley

Jo,

My husband has been in Afghanistan for about three weeks now. This is his first deployment, and the first time I've ever had to deal with something like this. Please send me the donut! Any physical proof of our progression would help at times. Please and thank you!

My e-mail address is soulcorrupted@yahoo.com

Sep 25, 2010 11:12 PM
#44
Anonymous
Scott

can you send it to me at sprivottspencer@gmail.com

Nov 23, 2010 04:33 AM
#45