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26 Comments on Don't be a Self-Diagnosing Doctor or Armchair Quarterback When Buying and Financing Your Home
The football analogy is fantastic.
I definately agree with this post.. I give buyers a flow chart of all of the steps to get from "finding the house" to "closing" .. I remind them that finding the house is the easy part... and then there are many many steps to get to closing.
All comes back to knowing what you don' know and respecting those who do !
Gene, I guess, I will email this post (or something similar to this) to some of my buyers who think they can 'treat' themselved without a 'doctor' because they are registered with 'WebMD'.
Probably never get people that won't at least try it a time or two. I believe people would preform their own surgery if they could save enough money
Great post, Gene. It seems very risky to me to try to do either side of this on your own. It feels like a recipe for disaster, and I don't think most people realize this until later in the transaction when it is too late and can often result in a lost deal.
No matter what business you are in, we all come across arm chair quarterbacks. This is the very reason, we can be succesful in spite of any market condition.
You make so many excellent points in this post Gene. Actually gave me no less than 3 topic ideas to blog about( so thanks). Loved your arm chair quarterback analogy. Like taking advice on finances from your BROKE uncle Darrel!!
Gene: Well said. We all know that every transaction is unique and the rates and guidelines change so often that considerable investment of time goes in to maintaining our knowledge base to help our clients. I spend an enormous amount of time just educating buyers about how the lending process works - I'm sure you do also. Very frustrating to have to undo and reset expectations with the self-taught. Nicely written about a sensitive and frustrating topic!
Gene, it seems every family has an armchair quarterback who has advice to give. Leave it to the professionals to get the job done right.
All so true, Gene. And this applies to so many more things in life. It is always best to seek the advice of a professional.
This is my favorite post of the day Gene. You are so right. Love your comparison to armchair quarter backing, it's a really great way to make your point that when it comes to real estate you need professionals to guide you through the process.
Louise: Thank you so much! What an honor, coming from you ...
Carla: Yes, I get a fair share of requests for 2nd opinion. And I always tell those calling me for those, that I don't mind being #2! Thanks for providing the inspiration for my post. Your post was greatly appreciated ...
Sharon. Thanks ... and I agree. There's alot of good that comes via the internet ... but it still needs to be recognized that professionals accomplish their tasks daily. The professionals gain more info and indepth, hands-on experience and expertise. THAT is what gets the transaction to Closing and completion. You don't gain that insight on the internet ...
Mona: I like the sound of that! First .. that I'm fulfilling a need for you and your clients ... and selfishly, that you told me about it. It felt good hearing it ...
I like the way you think, Jane. You prove that getting a buyer to the transaction table takes teamwork between agents and lender. We need each other. A good reminder ...
Sweet words to hear, for any Lender, Tammy! If only more took that stance ...
Beth: Thank you ... but my wife would tell you that my football analogy is actually just proof of a big disease. That being a football fan ...
Ahhhh yes, Sally. Respect. Something sadly lacking too often ...
Praful: Glad to help! Feel free to utilize it, if you think it will help ... I'd be honored ...
You're probably right, Joyce ... and especially true in these more challenging economic times. Some view it as a "need to do" almost. I, of course, would argue that it actually garners the exact opposite result ...
Gene
Here in Naples we have found that 87% of all buyers (2nd homes) research on the internet before their plane touches down. We actually like this because they know alot more than in the past and we don't have to spend our time educating them about the area. In alot of cases they already know which development they want to live and our jobs sre easier.
Debbie: As self-serving as it may sound, you are exactly right when you express that opinion. It's hard enough for professionals to stay on top of all the info and regulations that enter into the modern day transaction. To think someone that is a novice, or outside the industry could do it is unimaginable. Just too many "curve balls" can come your way. Very good comment ...
Joe: We're not alone in seeing this within our industry. You're right when you say it happens everywhere ...
Charita: Ahhh yes. Parents! They can be of a great assistance or really much-up a deal. Glad yours turned-out well ...
Greg: Glad to hear that my post served beneficial and inspirational to you. Typically everyone knows what an armchair quarterback is ... so happy that the analogy worked. Thanks for the comment ..
Gene
Linda: Your spot-on when you talk about "unlearning" something being harder than learning it new. I've definitely found that to be the case. Education is definitely key to a successful transaction .. and I agree totally with your sentiment that it should be a huge portion of what we do ..
Michael: So true! Each family seems to have someone fulfilling this role ... or trying to. But unless they ARE in the business, finding true professionals to work with is vital ...
Definitely true .. this does not pertain only to our industry, but to others as well ... good point ...
Thanks Denise! Glad you liked the analogy and you thought it got the point across. And btw ... Go Hawkeyes! We're fans at our house ... our son's a U of Iowa grad ...
I understand what you are saying, Chris and Dick. Having an idea of where and what you want to view, prior to getting to Naples would be helpful. But when it comes to the actual transactional portion or completion of that transaction ... I say that clients must be willing to listen to their professionals. Exactly why they contacted you in the first place, I would think. Obviously you impressed them via your conversations or website, etc. ... prior to them contacting you or touching down on Naples soil ...
Gene
Love your post, Gene! Specializing in reverse mortgage we find so many myths and misstatements in the media, by politicians, friends and neighbors. I've learned to ask people if they go to the plumber if they are having health problems. Of course they don't they actually go to the specialist. So they should also go to the specialist to get the facts to decide if the loan is right for them and their situation. I love the self-taught doctor analogy too. Thanks for sharing.
Gene - I've been around real estate pretty much all of my life, and I know just how complicated it can be. I agree that it's not something somebody should try to do on their own without experience.
Ooooo particularly challenging mortgages there, Beth. So much indepth conversation and revelation needed to get the answer right for each client. You definitely have to be the expert ... mixed-in with part financial planner, counselor, pastor, and more. You make an excellent analogy yourself in your commen ..t.
Christine: Definitely more and more true in the current climate, for sure. Hard enough for professionals to stay on top of all the changes and intracacies, let alone the public ...
Gene