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When Listing Your Home, It's Not Uncommon to Feel Rejected

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Real Estate Agent with Long and Foster Real Estate VA License # 0225089470

When Listing Your Home, It's Not Uncommon to Feel Rejected

A home is a very personal thing.  Home owners have memories in every room.  They chose this particular house because they felt there was something special about it.  It's home.  And when they place their home on the market, it is not uncommon for sellers to feel a sense of rejection when buyer after buyer has been through their special corner of the world and not made an offer.

It's important to understand that feeling of rejection is perfectly normal.  It's natural to have that sense that someone is rejecting you because they are not choosing your home.  However, as a Northern Virginia Listing Agent, I must tell you that they are not rejecting YOU.  The house, for whatever reason, doesn't work for them.

If you have decluttered your home, and neutralized the colors. you are off to a great start to broaden the appeal of your home.  New carpet and paint go a long way to put a fresh face on your home.

If you are getting a lot of traffic, but no offers, it may be time to look at the price.  Maybe the buyers wouldn't be vanishing after showings if they felt the house was priced right. 

Don't take every visit that doesn't result in an offer personally.  I once read that on average, it takes about thirty showings to get an offer.  In Northern Virginia, that number may be even lower given the current market demand and lack of inventory.

If you are feeling down about the lack of offers on your home, give your agent a shout.  That's what we are here for.  We can review the number of showings, double check comps in your neighborhood and make sure that everything is in order to make the home attractive to potential buyers.

 

Comments(8)

Leslie G. Rojohn
MoonDancer Realty - Sylva, NC
GRI, ABR ~ MoonDancer Realty

I can certainly identify with that feeling.  Some of our listings are ones I would personally buy if I didn't already have a house, and we price them very carefully.  When they get shown and then some other listing is chosen instead, I tend to scratch my head and say "Why did they choose THAT one instead of our wonderful listing."  So I can imagine how the seller must feel.

Aug 07, 2012 10:32 AM
Linda K. Mayer
License # 01767321 - La Verne, CA
Realtor, SRES, SoCAL, A REALTOR YOU CAN TRUST

ChrisAnn, you are so right!  We are in the midst of selling our house, and boy is my husband getting a little crazed!

Aug 07, 2012 10:33 AM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

ChrisAnn, this is great advice.  I know so many sellers who get really depressed about showings that don't result in an offer and of course that is most of the showings!

Aug 07, 2012 12:35 PM
Donna Foerster
HomeSmart Realty Group - Parker, CO
Metro Denver Real Estate Assistant

Chris Ann~ Sometimes the issue is something you can't do anything about, such as the floor plan, but sometimes it's a simple fix, such as paint color choices.  You give excellent advice about decluttering and painting neutral colors, and also suggesting that the seller call their agent.  Communication is so important during the "for sale" time!

Suggested!

Aug 07, 2012 01:09 PM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

Chris Ann, I love the graphic, so forlorn.  You're right, it's not always a personal issue.  It's wise for listing agents to give their clients some examples of what to expect and your clients are probably the most informed!!

Aug 07, 2012 03:06 PM
Elizabeth Weintraub Sacramento Broker
Elizabeth Anne Weintraub, Broker - Sacramento, CA
Put 40 years of experience to work for you

Sometimes, it can be a simple change that makes all the difference. For example, when I put my home on the market before moving to California, I wasn't getting any offers. I tried to look at it through the eyes of a buyer. I decided entering my home from the front door wasn't a good idea because I had stairs sitting right there. Bad feng shui. Besides, the entrance was a little cramped. By going through the side door into the kitchen, a buyer would walk up my newly finished deck, surrounded by dahlias and a butterfly bush, and enter a remodeled kitchen. Much better entrance. I moved the lockbox to the side door and whammo. It sold. First impressions are everything.

Aug 08, 2012 12:02 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Leslie:  It's hard to not take your home not being the chosen one personally when you are selling.

Linda:  Sounds like he may be aking things a bit personally.  With your real estate training, you probably are more able to separate the emotions of it all.

Pat:  Yep.  The right buyer needs to come along and it's rarely the first one through.

 

Aug 08, 2012 03:13 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Donna:  Of course, finding the right price for unusual floor plans or unusual locations is tough, but it's obvious when you've hit the right price by the increased showings.

Carla:  I almost used a different one, but this one just felt right.

Elizabeth:  Interesting story.  I've had homes with floor plans like that with the stairs that are right there on top of you when you walk in.  Moving the lockbox to another entrance was a great plan then.

Aug 08, 2012 03:16 AM