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I don't represent you in the purchase of this house, yer on yer own!

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Real Estate Agent with Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties Licensed in Connecticut

New Milford CT Real EstateThere are those that believe that they don't need a real estate agent. Usually it is a seller that decides they they don't need a real estate agent. They want to avoid paying real estate commissions, at least on the listing agent side. In Connecticut, when we represent a buyer in FSBO transaction, we cannot assist the seller. Point blank.

I did put in an offer on behalf of a buyer with a FSBO seller. The seller wanted my advice, yet I couldn't give it.  It was like someone tying my hands behind my back and asking me to talk. 

The seller was a busy physician, she couldn't respond in a timely fashion to my calls, she was flustered that I couldn't help her at all, she would have questions that I couldn't assist her with. "I'm a doctor, what do I know about selling a house"? I wanted to say... then why ARE you trying to sell it on your own? I didn't... we were in the middle of negotiations... The deal fell apart early on and quite honestly, in this particular case, I was relieved.

But what about an unrepresented buyer?

How does this happen? A buyer will go to a listing agent and want to see the property. In Connecticut we can show any listings that belong to our broker without a Buyer Broker Agreement. After seeing the home the buyer decides to put in an offer. And they decide they don't need any representation by a real estate agent.

What does this mean to the transaction?

In the words of Judith Johannsen, Assistant Counsel for the Connecticut Association of Realtors®, Inc.

"Here are two basic rules to remember when buying a home. First, a buyer with representation will have an educated ally who can help him understand how to form and negotiate an offer and how to navigate the financing and inspection processes. Second, the unrepresented buyer is on his own."  (you can read the full text of her explanation here, it is very good)

I have had occasion to work with an unrepresented buyer on the sale of a property. And it was a case where representation was badly needed, but there was nothing I could do about it. I knew the buyer wanted the home, it was in the best interest of my seller for the purchase to go through, BUT THE BUYER WAS ON HIS OWN! And it was complicated, there were... impediments to the sale. At every juncture, questions would arise on the part of the buyer. Questions I could have answered, advice could have been given, but.... THE BUYER WAS ON HIS OWN.

A buyer in a real estate transaction in Connecticut who elects to have representation will have to enter into a contract, the Buyer Broker Agreement.  In very simple terms, the contract says I will do my best to find you the house that fits your parameters, and assist you with the purchase of the home. You agree only to work with me. You also understand that the seller will pay my commissions. But in the event the seller refuses to, or cannot pay my commission, my broker will look to you to pay the commission due. And that is the part most buyers find hard to swallow. I can only say, I don't work for free. We do our best to know ahead of time if the seller won't have the funds to pay the commission, it would not be a common occurrence that it would suddenly be a surprise at the closing table. But it is in the Buyer Broker Agreement.

And without the Buyer Broker Agreement, I cannot represent you! I break license law, the seller doesn't have to pay me any commission, and I could get in trouble with the CT Real Estate Commission. My license is my livelihood, I am not risking it for anyone!

So if that bothers you and you decide to go it alone, just remember, YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN. I work for the seller, and the seller alone. I cannot assist you in any way, shape or form. As a matter of fact, it is my job as the listing agent to GET THE BEST PRICE POSSIBLE FOR MY CLIENTS, and it very well may be at your expense.

If you are refusing to enter into a Buyer Broker Agreement with me because you don't want to participate in what we call Dual Agency, I can accept and understand that. For your own good, please stop all communications and get yourself representation at another real estate firm! I want you to be represented, really I do. The sale will go much smoother for all concerned.

Otherwise, best of luck... yer on yer own!


Posted by

Andrea Swiedler, Realtor, Southern Litchfield County Real Estate

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Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Andrea- I'm sure there are many, especially those who haven't bought or sold a home since.. well maybe since their one and only house.  They need to be educated that they need their own representative to look out for their welfare and help through the process.

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Aug 15, 2012 01:32 PM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Wouldn't you think that someone with enough intelligence to be a physician would have enough brains to hire an agent - especially if she admits that she knows nothing about selling a house? I guess there are many forms of insanity.

Aug 15, 2012 05:41 PM
Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Kathy, thank you for the feature. It is so difficult when a buyer decides to go without representation.

Marte, it does not surprise me. But it was foolish.

Aug 15, 2012 06:50 PM
Ginny Gorman
RI Real Estate Services ~ 401-529-7849~ RI Waterfront Real Estate - North Kingstown, RI
Homes for Sale in Southern RI and beyond

Andrea, isn't it interesting how the tech savvy don't read the blogs that they should read about selling your home by yourself...NOT!  We are seeing more FSBOs lately popping up after being with a realtor for years...what does a homeowner who is not in the business of real estate think they can do better when stepping into unfamiliar territory??

Aug 15, 2012 08:39 PM
Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

LOL on Marte's comment.  This all comes down to "you get what you pay for" (or in the case of the buyer...what you sign up for).  I really don't understand why buyers or sellers attempt this.  It's so incredibly short sighted.

Aug 15, 2012 08:39 PM
Liz and Bill Spear
Transaction Alliance 513.520.5305 www.LizTour.com - Mason, OH
Transaction Alliance Cincinnati & Dayton suburbs

Andrea, It's rare, but we've had the occasional listing where a buyer has approached and wants NO representation.  They can do that per Ohio law, but it doesn't make sense to do so.  They're typically under the impression that they'll save the buyer's agent commission, but that's often a false assumption.

Aug 15, 2012 09:18 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Andrea, I can see the temptation for a Seller to not want to use a Realtor in order to avoid paying the commission, but it does not make any sense at all for a Buyer not to use a Realtor.

Second if I were in you shoes with the Seller that you mentioned, like you I would not have said that she was on her own, but I would have have told her that she needed to reconsider trying to sell the house on her own, now that she realizes that there is much more to it then she first thought.

Aug 16, 2012 05:10 AM
Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Ginny, what gets me is that most of those were overpriced in the first place....

Debbie, it is just unreal... I don't understand the thought process behind the idea.

BLiz, they can do that here. They are supposed to sign an unrepresented buyer form, some even refuse to sign. I just put "refused to sign".

George, I realized early on that perhaps if she wanted to list it might be easier on me better for her to get another agent...

Aug 16, 2012 12:49 PM
Barb Szabo, CRS
RE/MAX Above & Beyond - Cleveland, OH
E-pro Realtor, Cleveland Ohio Homes

Andrea, This is a great explanation of agency for your state of CT. Whether buying or selling, representation is needed!

Aug 16, 2012 11:10 PM