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Reblogger Evelyn Kennedy
Real Estate Agent with Alain Pinel Realtors CalBRE#00979900

 

I don’t get a chance to see all posts, so if there is a good post, I like the fact that people reblog them. Apparently, there have been a lot of posts about politics that go to a “dark place”, Alan May’s words not mine.  He mentions why he doesn’t comment on those posts and what he feels is the effect of commenting on inflammatory posts.

I agree with his conclusion.  I don’t comment on political posts no matter what side they discuss.  Not worth alienating a prospective client.


Original content by Alan May

There have been a handful of posts, lately, that have gone to that dark place.

I know, I know, it's an election year, and we're bound to end up in that dark place every now and then.  When folk start talking religion, politics, gun control, immigration or more, the flames are bound to fly.

So, what can you do to avoid being flamed (or worst yet, being the flamer?).

When you see someone scritching their igniter against the barrel of their flame-thrower, run, do not walk, to the nearest exit.  Someone in one of those narsty recent posts suggested that "by your comments, you will be known" spoke the truth.

There are plenty of people out there who merely lurk their way through the blogosphere.  And I use the term "lurk" in the warmest way... I love my lurkers.  They don't comment, you don't even know they're there, but they read.  Sometimes they're regular readers, and sometimes they just happen upon your a blog and read your comment the one time.

They don't know you from Adam (or Eve), but they will "know" you by the comment you left. And if the comment you left was 414 degrees Fahrenheit, they're going to think you're a gashole, regardless of which side you come down on the argument, and that's just not conducive to gaining business.. is it?

Careful the comments you leave in your wake, it can become your legacy.


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ALAN MAY, Realtor®
Specializing in Evanston Real Estate and North Shore Real Estate

Coldwell Banker Residential Real Estate, 2929 Central Street, Evanston, IL 60201
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Winston Heverly
Coldwell Banker Access Realty - South Macon, GA
GRI, ABR, SFR, CDPE, CIAS, PA

See it's interesting that one doesn't want to talk about, but still fans the flames of the subject they are trying to avoid. If one does not want to engage in the first place why mention it at all. Fist off how do you know you will lose a client only to gain two with agreeing with what you say. 

Aug 15, 2012 12:46 PM
Kathleen M. Feeney
Park Sterling Realty - Bronxville, NY
Mt. Kisco Real Estate - EcoBroker

I agree completely - but now I suppose I have offended those who don't agree with this post :)

Aug 15, 2012 12:48 PM
Evelyn Kennedy
Alain Pinel Realtors - Alameda, CA
Alameda, Real Estate, Alameda, CA

Winston:  I don't like controversy.  I don't feel I am fanning the flames because I agree with some who also don't want to fan the flames. 

Kathy:  You can't please everyone, just take a look at Winston's comment.  A prime example

Aug 15, 2012 01:16 PM
Sharon Parisi
United Real Estate Dallas - Dallas, TX
Dallas Homes

Evelyn,  I agree.  It is not good to go to that dark place.  Well said.

Aug 15, 2012 02:36 PM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

This year I think it's a tough call. I discussed politics with a friend tonight, even thought we agreed to disagree years ago. This time, it really matters.

Aug 15, 2012 05:37 PM
Jon Kolsky
Kolsky Realty & Management - Long Beach, CA
Licensed California Real Estate Broker

Evelyn~ I'm glad you  re-blogged this fiasco! It's really funny how the original author knows how to put fires out, I'm positive he's a pro with all the fires he has to put out! I don't know how a negative post gets featured, oh well..

Looking for a change and seeking debate is NOT dark...lying and a liar is!

Aug 15, 2012 11:49 PM
Evelyn Kennedy
Alain Pinel Realtors - Alameda, CA
Alameda, Real Estate, Alameda, CA

Sharon:  Thanks.

Marte:  I still think that one is wasting time trying to convince someone who disagrees with you.  Better to remain friends and just disagree on politics.

Jon:  OK.

 

Aug 16, 2012 05:55 AM