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“Well is there someone else in your office that can show us this home?” “No probably not”.

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Real Estate Agent with Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Anderson Properties TX Real Est. 567774

 “Well is there someone else in your office that can show us this home?” “No probably not”


The above question came from a lady who called me today and my response is shown right after her query. Let me discuss how this all came down. I might sound like am ranting in this blog. Just ignore the rant portion when it shows up.

 

My cell rings this morning and of course I see a number I do not recognize. I answer and a lady is speaking very quickly about wanting/needing to view a home. The call sounds like she is in in her automobile. The listing agent cannot show her the home as she is too busy. The caller of course never tells who exactly is the listing agent or where the home is located. Caller tells me she already has a Realtor without saying their name but her agent is unavailable or too busy or too lazy as I am not sure which it is. She wants me out the clear blue to drop everything I am doing and show her this home. If she is in Katy Texas it would have taken me about 90 minutes plus of driving time (round trip) gasoline plus tolls and at least 30 minutes to show this home if not longer.  My response was I am already engaged doing other work and cannot show you this home. My statement is absolute fact but I still cannot get over her pushy style and chip on the shoulder attitude.

 

The caller then blurts out in a very nasty and mad tone “Well is there someone else in your office that can show us this home?” I am now completely flabbergasted and looking at my cell phone in disbelief. I calmly respond “No probably not”. Now I am certain the caller is totally agitated and she responds with “Well I can I ask why not”? I do not try to even discuss this issue any further and tell her well you already have an agent and showing you this home takes any agent’s time and costs that agent money.   In a very sarcastic tone she tells me well thank you.

Unhappy person

 

There are so many reasons why to me this whole dialog is wrong. Right off the bat is the safety issue. I have no idea at all who this person is and where she wants to go to view this home. I will only show a home after first meeting a potential client at my office. In addition, unless someone appoints me as there agent I will not show them a home. I have had past experiences where a Realtor friend asked me to him a favor and show his client a home. I obliged as the same thing could happen to me some day. The key word here is my friend had a client and not just someone who wanted to supposedly view a home.

 

Second point is the basic bad attitude of the person calling as she is acting like I have nothing better to do than show her a home at her convenience. I am not on any given day including weekends just sitting around stuffing my mouth with food and drink waiting for some obnoxious person to demand that I show her a home. Really what are you thinking?

 

Third point is basic economics of being a Realtor. I will not go into all the details of what it cost to be a Realtor. The basic premise is this if any Realtor does not close a purchase or sale or rental of any given home they do not get paid. In my above example I would have been spending at least 2 hours of my time, using my gas, putting miles on my car and for what? To do a pro-bono favor for someone I have never heard of and would never see again. Realtors do not have some big company which reimburses them for any of their expenses. All expenses come right out of my pocket. We are all in business to make a profit and pay our expenses and feed our families. We are not charitable organizations or related to some government funded program. Do you work for free? Of course you don’t and then why do you think Realtors should work for free?

 

My final point is why would I try to pass on this unknown person to another agent in our office? What about their safety issues? I really do not have the time to search for someone to do a totally unknown person a favor without even considering safety. My question back to you is why didn’t you ask the listing agent to have someone in their office help you or for that matter how about another agent in your own Realtors office help you?

 

The attitude of person who spoke to me just totally set me off as I guess the public thinks Realtors are here to help them similar to local government worker.

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Comments(48)

Alan May
Jameson Sotheby's International Realty - Evanston, IL
Home is where the hearth is.

The first question I have is "Are you working with an agent?"... if the answer is yes, unless it's my own listing... I would send her back to her agent... and like you, there is no way I would foist her off on another agent in the office, so that they could waste their time!

She already sounds like a charmer.  Why would I choose to waste any of my time, or the time of anyone that I like, for her convenience?

Aug 21, 2012 05:08 AM
Carol-Ann Palmieri
RE/MAX Executive Realty, Al and Cal Realty Group - Franklin, MA
"Cal" the Real Estate Gal

Hi Bob.     It never ceases to amaze me that people think that we will jump off our seats no matter what to show them a home. 

At the end of the day, though, I do believe we can blame this on ourselves.   We have, through our actions, educated the public to demand of us this sort of behavior.  Until people do as you did and explain to these folks the reason why we will not jump, will not cut off another Realtor or do their job for them, put our persons in jeopardy and spend money for no possible return, only then will the general public stop treating us like the fools that we have been in the past, responding to this sort of treatment.      

Oops.. Now your caller has me ranting!     Congrats on the well deserved feature Bob!

Aug 21, 2012 05:23 AM
Brenda Mayette
Miranda Real Estate Group, Inc. - Glenville, NY
Getting results w/ knowledge & know-how!

People are amazing... and most often not for the RIGHT reasons. You did the right thing, Bob. And more agents need to do it... Time for the public to understand how this gig works.  :-)

Aug 21, 2012 05:28 AM
Jeff Pearl
RE/MAX Distinctive / LIC in VA - Lovettsville, VA
Full Service Full Time Realtor

You handled that common scenario well. I would have done the same thing, but wouldn't have been on the phone as long, or as polite as you. Some people just don't get it. On calls like these, how do we even know if the person calling is qualified, or prepared to buy anything?

Aug 21, 2012 05:30 AM
Ashley Connolly
Northeast Water Wells Inc - Jaffrey, NH

You handled the situation great we deal with similar senarios in my field not necessarily showing homes or doing inspections but people asking us to evaluate systems based on others results and certify them. Its not only frustrating but a huge liability.. some people just dont want to here facts. I cant stand demanding people who are not even clients. Great blog and thanks for letting me vent . Congrats on the feature

 

Aug 21, 2012 06:04 AM
Reba Haas
Team Reba of RE/MAX Metro Eastside www.TeamReba.com - Bellevue, WA
Team Reba, CDPE

Been there, done that and happily let the person know they needed to work with their agent.  I have no problem letting the public know the boundaries of our jobs especially as it relates to agency.

Aug 21, 2012 06:56 AM
Chris and Dick Dovorany
Homes for Sale in Naples, Bonita Springs and Estero, Florida - Naples, FL
Broker/Associate at Premiere Plus Realty

Wow, you were way too nice.  I would have said, sorry but in that particular case the listing agent is the only one who can help you.  Might be a white lie, might not.

Aug 21, 2012 08:03 AM
Mary Hutchison, SRES, ABR
Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate-Kansas City Homes - Kansas City, MO
Experienced Agent in Kansas City Metro area

Rant away Robert...in this situation, we all want to say 'let me tell you how this works...'  but it's not worth it.  They don't get it and never will.

Aug 21, 2012 08:05 AM
Nick Walton
JP & Associates REALTORS® - Frisco, TX
Call 469-556-2393
I would have just told her that I cannot show her any homes as she already is working with a REALTOR® and doing so would be unefical.
Aug 21, 2012 08:24 AM
Robert Bob Gilbert
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Anderson Properties - Katy, TX
Your Katy TX ( West of Houston) Real Estate Expert

Hi Folks,

I really appreciate all the great comments and support. I also appreciate having this blog selected as a Featured post. We all need to be on the look out for these situations as safety needs to be on our minds. The odds are probably high there was no problem here but who knows. I really did not like her whole attitude and the way she thought whe was better than me. We also have have to some how re-educate the masses about Realtor's.

Aug 21, 2012 08:30 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

Robert - Sometimes a good rant is justified and just plain ole liberating. . .LOL  In the REAL world it is not the safest bet to just jump in the car and show properties to folks who can't get ahold of their own Realtor, a listing agent or whatever.  Homebuyers ought to be lender prequalified first.  And most agents absolutely WILL NOT work with a client of another agent.  I'm one of them!  I have a certain protocol that I adhere to, which helps me identify who and what I'm working with, before ever getting in the car to show them property.  Safety requires it!

Aug 21, 2012 11:38 AM
Laura Filip
Laura Filip Broker , Opening doors for All Seasons of Life - Whitesboro, TX
What can we do for you today?

Robert thank you for sharing this post with us, Happens on a regular basis, we are to drop everything and show them the property ohhh no thank you call your agent please. It is important that you call your agent they are to help you with this They are to busy I am sorry please call your agent. Have a blessed day.

Aug 21, 2012 12:19 PM
Evelyn Kennedy
Alain Pinel Realtors - Alameda, CA
Alameda, Real Estate, Alameda, CA

robert:

As soon as the woman said she is working with an agent, I bow out.  She should call her agent and make an appointment to see the house on another day and leave you alone. 

Aug 21, 2012 01:03 PM
Christine Donovan
Donovan Blatt Realty - Costa Mesa, CA
Broker/Attorney 714-319-9751 DRE01267479 - Costa M

Bob - In this scenario, the best thing would have been for their agent to find another agent to show it to them.  It would have made sense.

Aug 21, 2012 03:47 PM
Laura Murray
Weichert - Silver Spring, MD
Search Montgomery Co., MD for homes www.MDRealEstateOnline.com

As I have matured as a Realtor, i have learned that you must qualify clients.  not everyone who wants to see a house is someone you should spend time on.

Aug 21, 2012 04:26 PM
Phil Leng
Retired - Kirkland, WA
Phil Leng - Retired

Hi Bob,

Yes it was a rant.

Do you feel better now?

Back to (productive) work...

Phil

Aug 21, 2012 08:52 PM
Peter Matyko
Keller Williams Realty Advantage - Oviedo, FL
Keller Williams Realty
Thank you for the article. I think all the right clues were given and it's good to move on
Aug 22, 2012 05:35 AM
Louise Thaxton NMLS 69996
Fairway Independent Mortgage Corp Louisiana NMLS#2289 Equal Housing Lender - Leesville, LA
Military Mtg Specialist - 866-960-9115 VA FHA USDA

Bob - UNBELIEVABLE!  I feel the same way - I have expenses - I do not work for free!  Good post - and was about to "suggest" and then saw FEATURED - it deserves to be featured!

Aug 22, 2012 09:21 AM
Brenda Mullen
RE/MAX Associates - San Antonio, TX
Your San Antonio TX Real Estate Agent!!

This drives me absolutely batty and you had every right to tell her NO.  Folks think that all we do is hang around waiting to go show homes, when this is not even close to reality.  Congrats on the feature and rant away my friend :)!

Aug 22, 2012 09:34 AM
Baker Home Inspection and Commercial Properties Inspections
Baker Residential and Commercial Properties Inspections - Springfield, VT
Home and Commercial Properties Inspections Vermont

Howdy there Bob my friend, you sure post such outstanding Local Info and Real Estate blog posts for folks to enjoy visiting at your outstanding blog full of helpful info. Plus folks sure do always get to find mighty enjoyable reading when they visit. I know other folks sure must also enjoy stopping by to visit your mighty fine blog. Folks if you are needing help with Real Estate, then do take the time to talk with Bob and you’ll sure learn he is the one an only to work along side.

Mar 10, 2014 09:47 PM