So, yesterday was one of those days that makes me love and hate my job all at once.  This job is certainly not for the faint of heart and not for any individual who is unstable in any way as the stress will send you right over the edge!  Anyway, my office manager was on vacation this week and frankly I was struggling to complete any task as I was answering phones, submitting ads, etc so I was not in a proper frame of mind anyway.  By 9:30 I was on cloud nine as I walked in to find 2 offers and to my surprise within an hour I had 2 more.  In this market, I know I should be doing cartwheels but as you read on you will know why I wasn't.  So I had 4 offers on 2 listings and I was running around trying to deal with these four offers while meeting ad deadlines and so on.  Well, by 3:00 that same afternoon, I was left with only 2 offers!  Let me explain my frustration with the other two.  ONE WORD:  FINANCING!  One offer was from an agent who said she had been working with a couple for 4 months only to discover that the buyers didn't qualify and had to clean up their credit before they could get approved for anything.  I am wondering why she put these buyers in the car in the first place and secondly why would you write an offer without a prequalification letter?  The second offer fell apart because the lender told the buyer the day before that they were prequalified but the following day their debt to income ratio was too high.  So, now down to 2 offers there are problems in paradise with both of them.  The point to my story is that I have been working my butt off, spinning my wheels, working 50-60 hours a week only to make squat!  I was so frustrated that I went home and made myself a big bowl of macaroni and cheese and opened a beer at 3:45!  I am good at my job but some days I am left to question why I do it.  My husband even had the nerve to tell me that when all is said and done with one transaction about to close that I would have made more money per hour at Chik Fil A!  So much for support at home!  Anyway, I am fortunate that I have business at all, but I tell you I work harder now than I ever have trying to earn a living.        

mac n cheese                                                                               beer

 
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13 Comments on Macaroni and Cheese and a beer!

JAN
17
2008
Laura ~ We have all had those days!!! Hang in there. I had one last week, when a FSBO told me like 10 time how easy my job was, and how simple it was to sell homes. THREE HOURS LATER, they still did not understand all the details of a simple, non-contingent offer!!! So much for simple, eh? I just went home, ordered Chinese and relaxed to Law and Order. <g>.
8:44pm • #1
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Keep plugging and tell you husbands appreciate the vote of confidence and brutal honest while you have him pass the bowl of macaroni and cheese!
8:45pm • #2
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Things will get better.  We all are having to work a lot harder to make things happen.
8:47pm • #3
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Mac and Cheese and a Beer! My kind of girl! Seriously though, some days you wonder why you even got up, because it can be so frustrating. But keep your chin up, you're working hard, good things will happen!
8:49pm • #4
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Laura - I've been craving mac and cheese--now I know why.  This market requires a little comfort food now and then to help us make it through the day!  Keep those wheels spinning.
8:57pm • #5
Talk about an attention grabbing headline!  Cheers!
9:17pm • #6
JAN
18
2008
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But there are a lot of agents who had NO offers yesterday - so I think the glass is half full. I have days like that; we all do. Sun comes up, next foot forward. Work the program and it will work for you. You'll be fine.
5:08am • #7
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Hi Laura,
Yes, been there and understand your frustration.  Cheer up...sounds like buyers are out looking and ready to buy.  That's good news.
7:58am • #8
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Ok...macaroni and cheese..how awesome is that! AND a beer!! Life is good. I know you are tired, I know the hours our getting to us both. We are going to be great, our clients are going to appreciate all the hard work, AND...we can add ice cream to that menu once the smoke settles.
8:27am • #9
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Laura Now that si a great "comfort food recipe" when you have had it up to your eyeballs with pressure,  Karen Kruschka
6:11pm • #10
JAN
20
2008
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Laura, 

Don't give up!  Blogging is good therapy, too.

Mike in Tucson

7:51am • #11
I feel better already.  Thanks so much for the encouragement and support.  It is so wonderful to know that  have this A/R community to turn to for advice and words of wisdom.   
8:08am • #12
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I feel for you Laura.  Just think, my wife and I are both in the business together.  Never in my life have I worked so hard for so little.  I spent a lot of time counting the deals that went south.  Thank God I have my retirement and music to help put gas in my tank and food on the table.  Last year's income sucked.

Hey, I had a blast at the Realtor party.  That was a lot of fun!  You guys are great.  We're going to have to drink beer more often.

7:13pm • #13

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