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A Referral Story

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Charlemagne International Properties BRE# 01147470

Real estate agents spend a great deal of time (and money) generating leads. Without leads, a full pipeline and a sphere of influence our business is drier than the Sahara in summer. Without leads we have no one to sell, to close or earn a commission. We are always selling, but when you think about it, isn’t everyone?

 

We must sell ourselves during a job interview, in our relationships and anytime we go after something we really want. Sometimes it is a simple process, sometimes the selling process is ongoing over a lifetime. Selling is not an embarrassment, it is a necessity of success.

 

Norma Toering & Team received a referral last week. The genesis of that referral began 20 years ago this month when I dropped my oldest son off at the University of California at San Diego. As luck would have another family was unloading a car at the curb next to us. A conversation ensued and we discovered our two sons were scheduled to be in the same four person suite. The two freshmen seemed like a good match to me.

 

“Grab him,” I said as I lifted a suitcase from the trunk of the car. My son looked at me quizzically. “You think I should ask him if he wants to be my roommate?” I nodded, and they moved into the same room. They’ve remained lifelong friends.

 

My son’s college roommate’s girlfriend is a real estate agent and sent a sweet referral our way. You never know who, what, when or where your next referral will begin. Sometimes it is sprouted years in advance and isn’t that delightful?

Comments(8)

Malcolm Johnston
Century 21 Lanthorn Real Estate LTD., Trenton, Ontario - Trenton, ON
Trenton Real Estate

That's a lead that was a long time in the making Norma, I guess you do never know where one is going to come from, but getting one this way is really neat.

Sep 04, 2012 11:59 PM
Margaret Goss
@Properties - Winnetka, IL
Chicago's North Shore & Winnetka Real Estate

There's a featured posted today about sowing one's seeds - this is a good example!

Sep 05, 2012 12:48 AM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi
NMLS #216987, IL Lic. 031.0006220, WI Licensed. APMC NMLS #175656 - New Lenox, IL
708.921.6331 - 40+ yrs experience

Fantastic story, Norma.  One that proves a very good point.  You just never know where your next referral might come from, how long it took to come to maturity, or what path it might take to reach you ...

Point well made ... and taken ...

Gene

Sep 05, 2012 05:37 AM
Donna Foerster
HomeSmart Realty Group - Parker, CO
Metro Denver Real Estate Assistant

Norma~ We need to always be planting those seeds.  Relationships and trust develop over time.

Sep 05, 2012 09:27 AM
Norma Toering Broker for Palos Verdes and Beach Cities
Charlemagne International Properties - Rancho Palos Verdes, CA
Palos Verdes Luxury Homes in L.A.

Malcolm - We're always prospecting whether we realize it or not.

Sep 05, 2012 09:39 AM
Norma Toering Broker for Palos Verdes and Beach Cities
Charlemagne International Properties - Rancho Palos Verdes, CA
Palos Verdes Luxury Homes in L.A.

Margaret - Some seeds have a 20-year germination process.  :)

Sep 05, 2012 09:40 AM
Norma Toering Broker for Palos Verdes and Beach Cities
Charlemagne International Properties - Rancho Palos Verdes, CA
Palos Verdes Luxury Homes in L.A.

Gene - I know, I loved it and simply had to share.

Sep 05, 2012 09:41 AM
Norma Toering Broker for Palos Verdes and Beach Cities
Charlemagne International Properties - Rancho Palos Verdes, CA
Palos Verdes Luxury Homes in L.A.

Donna - Yes, we must be Constant Gardeners!

Sep 05, 2012 09:41 AM