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Meeting A New Buyer (Or Seller) Is Almost Like Dating! "Getting To Know You."

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Real Estate Agent with Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Homes and Real Estate 303829;0225082372

You receive a phone call or e-mail from a consumer who contacted you from your Internet presence.  It may be your web site, your blog, etc.  It doesn't matter.  THEY CONTACTED YOU!!

They suggest that they're not quite ready to buy today, but will be next year.  Could be their lease will end next year.  Could be they are planning to change job locations.  As long as they are not "cleaning up their credit", it's never too early to look.  I just want to make sure they look with me.

This post inspired by Cindy Westfall's post today - Can We Look At Homes Now Even Though We Won't Be Ready To Buy Until Next Year

"SO, WHAT WOULD YOU DO LENN??"

I'm glad you asked because I encounter these circumstances regularly.  Pot O Gold

A first contact from a home buyer is really like a first date.  You don't want to appear to be anxious (prying), but you really want to know more about them.  Don't rush that first phone contact.  It can mean sending them away forever.  Or, it can mean there will be a marriage made in heaven for them - the buyers and their home, of course.  For you, their patient, helpful agent, means finding a "Pot 'O Gold".

We spend so much of our resources, time and money advertising our services, why not show your enthusiasm and ability to help those buyers who actually call for your help?

If it sounds like the caller is qualified and you can easily get that information in the first contact.  They call for help and the first thing I want to do is determine an approximate price range.  If you want to know about their credit worthiness, ASK THEM. 
Don't forget, these folks CONTACTED YOU.  It's not hard to simply say, "How's your credit?"  You'd be surprised how cooperative folks are if they hear a friendly, helpful agent. 

Do they know their credit scores?
What type of credit do they have?
have there been any late payments in the past year?

YOU MAY HAVE TO COURT THEM FOR A WHILE.  The answer to those questions are what you want, but they may be a bit direct for some prospective buyers on first contact.   I simply offer to send them some good listings for homes for sale and then they can select the ones they would like to tour.   If the caller is agreeable to that, and I have never had anyone say "NO", that takes you to the next step.

"LET ME GET MY TRUSTY CALCULATOR AND I'LL BE ABLE TO DETERMINE YOUR APPROXIMATE PRICE RANGE." Of course, if they have already been pre-approved by a lender, you can skip this step.  If not, you'll want to ask the following:

What's your family income, that is everyone who will be on the mortgage loan?
How many folks in your family (for VA loans)?
Do you have any large car payments or student loans, etc.? 

Depending on their answers, you should be able to compute the approximate PI, loan amount and a PRICE RANGE.
All you want is the price range so you can send them some listings of homes for sales.

If you have problems with any of the above, it's just a lack of experience.  Some roll playing with fellow agents will cure this.  When I was teaching a real estate finance class for agents a while back, one agent said, "I could never ask anyone how much money they make."  Another agent said, "By the time Lenn gets them to the corner, she'll know how much money their grandfather made."

ALL OF MY PROCEDURES FOR QUALIFYING PROSPECTIVE BUYER/CLIENTS DEPENDS ON THAT FIRST TWO WAY CONVERSATION. 

Lets Take A Tour.  Once you're satisfied that the buyers are able to buy (You already know that they ready and willing), get them out for a tour of homes in the suggested area and in the price range in which you (credit worthiness) and the buyer ( PITI) are comfortable.  They may be qualified for a $500,000 mortgage, but if they are comfortable with a monthly payment for a $400,000 loan, that's your price range for showing.  THAT, when you're out on tour, is when you really get to know each other. 

OPEN HOUSES ON THEIR OWN?  No, no, no!!  One of those open house agents just might be the most friendly, helpful agent in town.  She/He will help them BUY THAT OPEN HOUSE or arrange to take them on a tour.  That agent they meet on the open house is there, on the scene, making a good impression, offering to help, answering their questions.  It's possible there could even be a loan officer at the open house.   I see that a lot.  That loan officer will "run the numbers" and the buyers and the agents will know for sure what they're qualified to buy.  Even with no loan officer on site, the open house agent may offer to do the computation and many buyers WITH NO AGENT will accept their help. 

YOU'VE LOST THEM!  Actually, you sent them away.

NO SECOND DATE FOR YOU!!  All they'll remember about you is that YOU SENT THEM AWAY.



                                                   home buyers    

                               "Honey, should we go to this open house without an agent???" 
                               "I don't see why not Dear, the agent we called suggested it."


Courtesy, Lenn Harley, Broker, Homefinders.com, 800-711-7988. 
Serving home buyers in Maryland and Northern Virginia.

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Comments(21)

Karen Fiddler, Broker/Owner
Karen Parsons-Fiddler, Broker 949-510-2395 - Mission Viejo, CA
Orange County & Lake Arrowhead, CA (949)510-2395

Absolutely true....I never turn anyone away. This is what I do for a living, and courting is just one aspect, often these are the ones who refer me.

Sep 29, 2012 09:31 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

A bit of courting gets you to first base and ultimately a home run! There are still a few people with cash. Another question: "Where is your money coming from?"

Margaret

Sep 29, 2012 10:13 AM
Cindy Westfall
Premiere Property Group,LLC Portland Metro & Suburbs Oregon - Tualatin, OR
ABR,GRI Your Tualatin & Portland Metro Real Estate

Hi Lenn, Thanks for the link to my post! To clarify, In my particular case, It was not a consumer that found me from my website presence, blog or a referral. I happen to know this young woman and In this case, I know that the odds are pretty good that they would not be able to qualify for a loan. Giving her honest advice on contacting a lender to get their finances in order before hand was what they need. For me to take them out and show them properties that will not even be around when they are ready...IF they are ready is not the best way to go about it. Oh..you can bet that I'll be courting them, giving them lender info as well as following up so they know I am there as a resource for them.

I agree with you on courting those that contact us. I always ask where they are at in the pre-approval process if they need a loan to purchase. This is usually where they tell me they have great credit...or they need to work on it. Depending on how they answer will determine how I proceed. They are indeed coming to us, so "courting" them until they are ready to "marry" a home with a mortgage makes sense.

 

Sep 29, 2012 10:33 AM
Jill Sackler
Charles Rutenberg Realty Inc. 516-575-7500 - Long Beach, NY
LI South Shore Real Estate - Broker Associate

Oh, okay. I just read Cindy's additional info so I understand the situation better. I'll definitely take Lenn's advice when I can, though. I probably do less courting than I should. I like the way you segued from sending them homes to look at to getting fairly specific credit information.

Sep 29, 2012 11:08 AM
Sussie Sutton
David Tracy Real Estate - Houston, TX
David Tracy Real Estate for Buyers & Sellers

This is such a great post I too have never heard this metaphor but it fits all to well.

Sep 29, 2012 11:42 AM
Cheryl Ritchie
RE/MAX Leading Edge www.GoldenResults.com - Huntingtown, MD
Southern Maryland 301-980-7566
Sure was a nice surprise you came for the Active Rain Meet Up on the Railway Trail!
Sep 29, 2012 12:29 PM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Lenn

Working with a buyer is like a first date if are not working out drop them off early.

Good luck and success.

Lou Ludwig

Sep 29, 2012 01:07 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

Lenn, I've spent almost a year working with a qualified buyer that wanted to buy quickly but couldn't make up their mind. No reason i can't spend that same time working with a buyer that wants to buy but is not ready

Sep 29, 2012 01:13 PM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Lenn - How refreshing! I've seen many "experts" counsel new agents not to waste time on anyone who isn't ready to buy immediately.

I admit that it seems pointless to show homes that will be sold before those buyers are ready, but... Maybe it's not so pointless.

As you're showing those homes you're getting a good feel for what they like and don't like. You can keep that knowledge tucked away for the day when they are ready and it will shorten your "looking time" then. But also... my experience has been that people sometimes say they aren't quite ready in order to keep agents from pressuring them for a decision. If they see the house they want, all of a sudden they ARE ready.

Sep 29, 2012 02:45 PM
Lenn Harley
Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Homes and Real Estate - Leesburg, VA
Real Estate Broker - Virginia & Maryland

Jay.  Agents who are unable to qualify, get information, etc. tout the inadviseability of - -  agents qualifying and getting information. 

Karen.  Unless a person has clear credit problems and this is easily determined, they are MINE.

Margaret.  I don't see that many cash buyers, so, with the state/county mortgage programs available, I don't even worry about cash.  Of course, I don't court investment buyers.

 

Sep 29, 2012 08:24 PM
Lenn Harley
Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Homes and Real Estate - Leesburg, VA
Real Estate Broker - Virginia & Maryland

Cindy.  I am more likely to take a buyer on a tour than not.  I rarely send anyone away. 

As I've told agents for years (decades).  If you take a buyer out and find that they are not ready to buy or even if they can't buy now, the worse thing that has happened is that

"you've looked at some homes for sale in increased your market knowledge".

 

Sep 29, 2012 08:27 PM
Lenn Harley
Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Homes and Real Estate - Leesburg, VA
Real Estate Broker - Virginia & Maryland

Jill.  Thanks.  I believe it's a matter of mindset.  Many agents seek to DISQUALIFY callers.  I seek to ENGAGE them.

Sussie.  Works for me too.

Cheryl.  It was a lot of fun and I got my daily work out at the same time.  Wonderful group.

Lou.  HA!  I've done just that.

Ed, Ed, Ed.  Thank that not quite ready buyer for taking you on house tours.  YOU are the one who benefited.

Marte.  BINGO!  I've also had other callers who, when hearing what they're looking for, I can say, "I know a wonderful property that you might like.  I just previewed it last week. . . . . ."

Just because one buyer isn't ready doesn't mean that they are the only buyer around.  It's much more fun to preview homes WITH someone than alone.

Sep 29, 2012 08:33 PM
Joe Petrowsky
Mortgage Consultant, Right Trac Financial Group, Inc. NMLS # 2709 - Manchester, CT
Your Mortgage Consultant for Life

You are certainly correct about seeing these relationships as dating. I never really looked at it that way, but it sure does make sense. I copied your post and shared it with my wife to get her take on your post.

Thank you for sharing it with all of us.

Sep 29, 2012 08:59 PM
Lenn Harley
Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Homes and Real Estate - Leesburg, VA
Real Estate Broker - Virginia & Maryland

Joe.  My pleasure. 

Sep 29, 2012 09:50 PM
Dick and Dixie Sells
Sells Real Estate, LLC - Trinity, FL
Realtors, Tampa Bay Florida Homes For Sale

Great metaphor ! Getting the buyers ( in this lending environment it's a must) pre approved for a loan is a first step. It is hard to have to come way down in price after you have looked at way higher priced homes. - "why does this $200k home not look near as good as this $350k home?" LOL  I try to  figure myself, but now there are too many variables in credit scores and underwriting... So a first date with us  includes one of our great loan officers that can run this buyer's numbers and find out if there are any issues that need to be handled. !

Sep 29, 2012 11:32 PM
Lenn Harley
Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Homes and Real Estate - Leesburg, VA
Real Estate Broker - Virginia & Maryland

Dick and Dixie.  It's not easy, but I simply compute a price RANGE to show buyers a limited number of homes.  I'm quite secure working up a price RANGE.

Time is of the essence when there is a new buyer asking for your help. 

Sep 29, 2012 11:56 PM
Dick and Dixie Sells
Sells Real Estate, LLC - Trinity, FL
Realtors, Tampa Bay Florida Homes For Sale

Lenn, agree with you on the Range, just adding an additional person and going on a "double date" .  Our lending environment here and unfortunately the baggage that many of our buyers have here has landed quite a few of our buyers in hot water recently.  I do compute and question and send MLS listings, but try for a good loan officer to talk with them and pull their credit early on in the game. Of course we have quite a few cash sales here and those are KING!

Sep 30, 2012 12:02 AM
Lenn Harley
Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Homes and Real Estate - Leesburg, VA
Real Estate Broker - Virginia & Maryland

Dick and Dixie.  I guess my habits go back to the days when it took 2 weeks to get a credit report. 

Of course it's quick now and many buyers have already done that.  I'm fine with that to look at a house or few. 

As I said, the worse thing that has happened is that I've seen some inventory.

"Let's go look at some homes".

 

Sep 30, 2012 12:08 AM
Tim Maitski
Atlanta Communities Real Estate Brokerage - Atlanta, GA
Truth, Excellence and a Good Deal

Great advice.  Send them to an enough open houses and they will surely find another agent.  Many times too, the ones who say that they are in no rush and can wait for a year are the ones who turn out wanting to buy immediately.  Get them in the right home and all of a sudden the juices start flowing and nothing you can do to stop them.  Seeing a home in person is the best motivating force I've seen. 

Sep 30, 2012 07:34 AM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

Buyers are quite fickle these days.  The "dating" shows they watch on TV is one reason - thanks HGTV.  The Internet access to listings is another (they think this is all we do, look up listings, gee isn't real estate easy?!?), and most buyers don't know what having a buyers agent (fiduciary) can benefit them.  Hey, don't all agents "put out" on the first date?!?  Most do.  Buyers' loyalty and true intensions can be easily discerned.  I've found most buyers, of late, to be fickle and don't understand what a good woman agent is all about.  They are not about the fine dining experience of the first date, but want the sloppy zip, zam thank you (for showing me the house) ma'am fast-food experience . . . and then they disappear.

Sep 30, 2012 07:43 AM