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A Strange Encounter at a Coffee Shop

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Grants Pass, OR 199909023

Mellelo Coffee - Mel PetersonA Strange Encounter at a Coffee Shop.  I visited my favorite coffee shop in Medford Oregon today and a strange thing happened.  A man approached me and asked if I had a smart phone with Internet access.  I said yes.  He asked me to Google 'Ozymandias.'  As I began reading Wikipedia's definition, he urged me to scroll to the poem.  Then he grabbed my phone and began reading.  I was stunned at first, but willingly complied.  I sat down on a couch and sipped my mocha as I quietly observed the man with my phone.

After a few minutes, he handed me the phone and said thank-you.  Then he sat down in a chair next to me and wanted to chat.  My first instinct was to make a beeline dash for the door, but my gut told me to stay.  He asked me to follow the Ozymandias poem on my phone as he began to recite it aloud from memory. 

He stumbled a few times, but continued as if his life depended on it.  During several pauses of silence, my maternal instinct kicked in and I wanted to help the stranger find the missing words, but I resisted the temptation.  I thought if I had helped, the outcome of this odd event might somehow turn out differently.  While I didn't fully understand my role, I was intrigued enough to allow him to continue. 

When he reached the last word, he grinned from ear to ear and asked, 'How did I do?'  I said, 'You did great!'  He smiled real big and then offered a brief explanation.  He said, 'I'm losing my memory and I've been trying to memorize poems so I can get better at remembering.'  Suddenly, I knew instantly why I was randomly chosen to engage in this conversation. 

It was just two weeks earlier, that I sat on this very couch, in this very coffee shop, and enjoyed a mocha with my Dad.  And just two weeks before that, I sat with him at his Doctor's office while he was being evaluated for Alzheimers.  When my Dad had finished answering the Doctor's questions, he turned to me, grinning from ear to ear and asked, 'How did I do?'  I said, 'You did great Dad!' 

The Universe has a funny way of reminding us of what's important.  Slowing down, smelling the coffee and reading a poem are simple ways of enjoying the meaning of life.  Thank-you Mr. Stranger... for today, you were the blessed traveler I met from an antique land  ;)

The Poem - Ozymandias - by Percy Bysshe Shelley

  I met a traveler from an antique land
Who said: "Two vast and trunkless legs of stone
Stand in the desert. Near them on the sand,
Half sunk, a shattered visage lies, whose frown
And wrinkled lip and sneer of cold command
Tell that its sculptor well those passions read
Which yet survive, stamped on these lifeless things,
The hand that mocked them and the heart that fed.
And on the pedestal these words appear:
`My name is Ozymandias, King of Kings:
Look on my works, ye mighty, and despair!'
Nothing beside remains. Round the decay
Of that colossal wreck, boundless and bare,
The lone and level sands stretch far away."

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Mel Peterson

 Melinda Peterson, ABR, CRS

 Oregon Principal Broker

 Real Estate Cafe LLC

 541-659-1620

 TheOregonDream.com

 

 

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Comments(104)

Shane Barker
Amerifirst Financial, INC. - Salt Lake City, UT

What an incredible story, very inspirational.  I think it would do us all well to stop and smell the roses every once in a while.  Thanks!

Oct 04, 2012 03:47 AM
Karen Anne Stone
New Home Hunters of Fort Worth and Tarrant County - Fort Worth, TX
Fort Worth Real Estate

Someone above said that "everything happens for a purpose."  I must disagree.  Saying something like that, in my opinion, too often takes some of the responsibility from us... as far as what to do when something "happens."

Maybe I am just turned off by the phrase, but I do not believe that there is anything... perhaps God, or whatever, that is "in control."  Sounds like predestination to me.

If it is to be done... WE are the ones who need to take the initiative and DO whatever it is.  We ARE... or at least we should be... our brother's and our sister's keeper...

It is so very true that no man, or no woman, is an island.  We are all connected.

Oct 04, 2012 04:10 AM
Dave Keys
MOVE UP in Google Search Learn How Here - Brea, CA
Chief Search Strategist Real Estate SEO Expert

Things have a way of working out in mysterious and unexpected ways when the willing heart takes part in acting against a cold universe don't they? 

Suppose we have only dreamed, or made up, all those things-trees and grass and sun and moon and stars and Aslan himself. Suppose we have. Then all I can say is that, in that case, the made-up things seem a good deal more important than the real ones. Suppose this black pit of a kingdom of yours is the only world. Well, it strikes me as a pretty poor one. And that's a funny thing, when you come to think of it. We're just babies making up a game, if you're right. But four babies playing a game can make a play-world which licks your real world hollow. That's why I'm going to stand by the play world. I'm on Aslan's side even if there isn't any Aslan to lead it. I'm going to live as like a Narnian as I can even if there isn't any Narnia. So, thanking you kindly for our supper, if these two gentlemen and the young lady are ready, we're leaving your court at once and setting out in the dark to spend our lives looking for Overland. Not that our lives will be very long, I should think; but that's a small loss if the world's as dull a place as you say.” 
― C.S. LewisThe Silver Chair 

Oct 04, 2012 04:26 AM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Great story and lesson Mel, thanks for sharing this great story and poem with us.

Oct 04, 2012 04:34 AM
Travis "the SOLD man" Parker; Broker/Owner
Travis Realty - Enterprise, AL
email: Travis@theSOLDman.me / cell: 334-494-7846

As in your family The Big A has a foothold in my family as well. At least NOW we know a bit more about what we are dealing with and how to work with it! GREAT story!

Oct 04, 2012 04:49 AM
Jeanne Dufort
Coldwell Banker Lake Country - Madison, GA
Madison and Lake Oconee GA

Thank you for sharing.  My brilliant and talkative Mom endured Alzheimers for 8 long years, and ironically it was the ability to communicate that was taken first from her.  Serendipity is a lovely thing, and reminds us to be open to new encounters even when we're not quite sure their purpose.

Oct 04, 2012 04:59 AM
John DL Arendsen
CREST "BACKYARD' HOMES, ON THE LEVEL General & Manufactured Home Contractor, TAG Real Estate Sales & Investments - Leucadia, CA
Crest Backyard Homes "ADU" dealer & RE Developer

I've got a poem I'd love to read to you too. Can you tell me where that coffee shop is and when you'll be there? LOL! Just kidding. Great story. {:<)

Oct 04, 2012 06:03 AM
Joetta Fort
The DiGiorgio Group - Arvada, CO
Independent Broker, Homes Denver to Boulder

Beautiful story.  Definitely going to share on Facebook, after I read the poem again.

Oct 04, 2012 07:55 AM
Rene Fabre
ARFCO Media - Renton, WA
Practicing Philosophical Eclectic of the Arts

Not much I could add at #93... but Mel, you tell one heck of a story! Life has an amazing way of conversing with us, especially when we 'trust our gut', take a chance, and listen. Thanks for the thoughts and the great read.

Oct 04, 2012 09:32 AM
Silvia Dukes PA, Broker Associate, CRS, CIPS, SRES
Tropic Shores Realty - Ich spreche Deutsch! - Spring Hill, FL
Florida Waterfront and Country Club Living
Mel, that is a great story indeed and told in a way that gripped our attention until the end. I'm glad you were there for this man, right time, right place.
Oct 04, 2012 12:43 PM
John J. Woods
Big Dog Press, LLC - Winder, GA
Going where no man has gone before - wouldn't you?

 

   Great story.  Coincidentally, one of our older dogs is named Ozymandias.  Old or not, Ozzy still thinks he is the "King of Kings"...

 

Oct 04, 2012 05:27 PM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

What a beautiful story - and what a wise man to keep exercising his brain in such a manner. I think I'd have trouble memorizing that one!

Oct 04, 2012 05:30 PM
Dorte Engel
RE/MAX Leading Edge - Bowie, MD
ABC - Annapolis, Bowie, Crofton & rest of Maryland

Dear Mel,

Very touching.

Oct 05, 2012 11:40 AM
Kristine Ginsberg
Elite Staging and Redesign, LLC - Short Hills, NJ
NJ Home Stager

Mel - I got goosebumps reading this and know God put this man in your path and yours in his to help both of you in different ways. What's remarkable about you is most people wouldn't hand over their phone, nor be so patient, under such strange circumstances, but because of your commpassion, you got to be a part of God's miracle. If only we'd all leave God in charge instead of thinking we know best. What a heartfelt story and it brought tears to my eyes as I pictured the two of you sitting together in this coffee shop. Thinking of you and saying prayers for you and your dad...

Oct 06, 2012 09:21 AM
Gary L. Waters Broker Associate, Bucci Realty
Bucci Realty, Inc. - Melbourne, FL
Eighteen Years Experience in Brevard County

Wow...you are such a patient and understanding person. I wonder how I would have reacted...I would like to think I would tell myself "You did great!"

Oct 07, 2012 09:55 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Mel,

That's a post to ponder. I'm sure what you're going through with your dad is not easy - do you think this is God's way of helping you to cope? You're never really alone, are you? People come into our life mysteriously; then they go away.

You embraced the stranger in the coffee shop and gave him your time. I believe you were that man's RANDOM ACT OF KINDNESS and you didn't even know you were the chosen one.

Blessings to you.

Oct 07, 2012 10:21 PM
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

So many lovely comments and wonderful encouraging thoughts... thank you!!!  I'm still catching up from being out of town for a week, but I will try and stop by and visit each one of you in the coming days ;)))

Oct 12, 2012 03:51 AM
Charles Stallions
Charles Stallions Real Estate Services - Pensacola, FL
850-476-4494 - Pensacola, Pace or Gulf Breeze, Fl.

Oh Mel, you are truly an angel in so many ways, I would have left rather quickly but not you and you recieved a blessing in the process.

Oct 15, 2012 11:37 AM
Nick T Pappas
Assoc. Broker ABR, CRS, SFR, e-Pro, @Homes Realty Group, Broker/Providence Property Mgmnt, LLC Huntsville AL - Huntsville, AL
Madison & Huntsville Alabama Real Estate Resource
Mel, I would have to say that "You did great"! Not a typical meeting by any means.
Oct 16, 2012 12:39 PM
Kasey & John Boles
Jon Gosche Real Estate, LLC - BoiseMeridianRealEstate.com - Boise, ID
Boise & Meridian, ID Ada/Canyon/Gem/Boise Counties

Wow, that's a pretty cool story.  At first I thought maybe you were getting picked up on, but that story turned out way better than I thought.  Nice. -Kasey

Jan 16, 2013 01:10 PM