This is too bizarre. We get to know people at ActiveRain through their comments, and posts which we connect through.  But who would guess we may be related! And who would have guessed the power of an ActiveRain comment!

I was researching my GGG grandfather, Calvin T. Hale, who came from Illinois on the Oregon Trail in 1848.  I popped in his name to see what info google would lead me to, and there was a blog  post by Todd Clark from Nov of 2010 with a picture of his darling kids dressed up as pioneers.  In the comments Jim Hale left a comment on how his Great Grandfather, Calvin T. Hale, came over on the Oregon Trail, not once but twice.  The first in 1848 as a young driver.  The second, in 1852, was after he returned to Illinois to marry his sweetie, and bring her back to Oregon.  This time he captained the wagon train, earning the nickname "Cap" which lasted til his death.

Now, I "know" Jim.  He and I have guffawed of the demise of Lawrence of Florence, the goofy roadside camel photo op concession that used to be near my summer dune buggying spot in Oregon.  I even jokingly told him to come visit us there, as we have gone every summer for over 32 years.

Little did I know that Jim and I shared a common Great Grandfather - one who was an early pioneer of Oregon, and participated in an amazing segment of our nation's history.

I just spent an hour on the phone with my new "cuz", writing frantically as he recounted all the research he has done on Cap's life, and filling in the details he has collected through massive family research.

Amazing.

And how can I be certain it's the same guy?? Easy.  He told me of church records he had uncovered where as a young boy, Calvin broke the laws of his non-dancing church by attending a "frolick".  He was subsequently "disfellowshipped" by the elders for not being willing to ask forgiveness in front of the congregation.  Yeah!  That's gotta be my relative.  My whole family dances... frolicks at every opportunity.  And won't beg forgiveness for it either!

So if you don't think your comments have google juice, think back to how they helped me find a link to my history. It's amazing.  Truly.

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What a great story.. .I think yours takes the cake from all the ones I read before. . . . love it! 

4:58am • #51
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Sally...

I loved the part about the dancing and the subsequent disfellowshipping! And I loved your take on that even better.

5:36am • #52
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Sally, what a great story. ActiveRain bringing two cousins together, especially since you didn't know each other. Your GGG Grandfather was quite a guy.

5:53am • #53
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Thank you all for your comments.  Like a long lost cousin who pops in now and then, I love seeing the faces of Rainers I have "known" for years. It really is an amazing family isn't it?  And just think... one of you 53 above just might be related to me through another GGG parent!  It just takes blogging about them, I guess!

 

Now where the heck is Jim???

6:22am • #54
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ACTIVERAIN=ACTIVEFAME=ACTIVEGAIN...in action case in point....Log-in, strap up, and anything goes....

7:08am • #55
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Sally, that is just a wonderful story. ActiveRain just became united of families! Wishing you a great weekend!
7:41am • #56
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That has to be one of the coolest stories I've ever read on AR (or anywhere else for that matter).  What are the odds that a single comment on a totally unrelated blog post would make such a connection.  Amazing!

7:41am • #57
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That's incredible! Congrats on finding the long lost relative.

 

Let me know the next time you are in Oregon! 

8:27am • #58
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Good Morning Sally-What a great story, your GGG must have something to make that journey twice. Thanks for sharing the story. 

9:07am • #59
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Richie - Hilarious.

And yes - can you imagine making the overland journey in a wagon two times??? And that is after taking a ship home to Illinois from San Francisco. Holy smokes... how bad could Illinois be to do all that travelin just to go west?

9:58am • #60
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Oh wait... It was because they wouldn't let him dance!  Now I get it.............

9:59am • #61
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Great Story! This is the power of Active Rain, and social media in general. Imagine what it can do for  you and your customers!

11:05am • #62
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The Rain is shining on your family today. Thanks for sharing this amazing story today

11:39am • #63
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That is so good.  The world gets smaller every day. 

2:04pm • #64
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Sally:

I love this story.  I love ActiveRain and every day there is something that it makes it a very valuable site.  I hope I can find a long lost cousin.  So cool.

3:57pm • #65
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That is amazing and one of the best AR connection stories I've ever heard.

6:14pm • #66
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Yep - definitely an amazing connection story.  Whudathunkit?

9:50pm • #67
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Neat story and congrats.  It is amazing the small world we live in.  I once had someone send me a photo of a great, great relative whose grave is in the middle of the road with a fence around in.  You never know.

11:39pm • #68
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Sorry, Guys.  I haven't been Raining much lately.  Nor have I really been into my family history for some years.  I'll try to repent of both.

Especially in the last while, I've been trying to make good on my awful decision to paint my house myself.....before the real rain begins.

Talking to Sally has always been fun.  But now we have more than AR in common.

 

Someone here mentioned birthing a baby after climbing a sand dune.

Sally and I spring from Milla C. Hale, whose husband led the wagon train in 1852.  When they left Blandinsville, Illinois for the long trip to Oregon, on April fool's day, Milla was well pregnant.

When they reached western Nebraska, she gave birth.  The wagon train stopped for this unusual event....for half a day.  They named the baby boy Nebraska Hale.

 

We are all descended from many people made of stern stuff.

It is always good to be reminded of that fact.

7:36am • #70
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Jim - Hope your house painting is going well!  I would come up to help a cousin, but alas, I am too busy doing research ;0).

It was so fun to make the conneciton with you, and am curious to see your finished masterpiece when you are done with your research. You are an amazingly committed and resolute fellow to have compiled what you did.  But then, you come from good stock, if I may say so.

It took quite a bit of committment, resolution, and steel cajones to make the trip on the Orgon trail not once, but TWICE. So I shouldn't be surprised that you have done what you have!

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