Martin Luther King, rest in peace my brother. (rerun)

Free at last!!!Today, we celebrate Martin Luther King day. Where do I begin to write a post about this? First, I need to let you know that I grew up in the deep south as a son of a Lutheran Pastor. My formative years were the early sixties and during this time I lived all over Alabama, Mississippi, Georgia and South Carolina. Racism was alive and well in the little towns I grew up in. I can remember marching with MLK in Foley Alabama and the "good ole boys" throwing things at us and calling us names. The fact that we were white made their hatred towards us even worse. We were traitors and N....... lovers. I think I was 8 or 9 years old at the time. I couldn't understand what we were doing "wrong". It was just a parade.

I remember living in Saluda S.C. and going to the movie house on the weekends. It always struck me as strange that the "blackies" had to sit in the balcony. They wouldn't even let "them" in the theater until all us white folks were already in and seated. I can remember looking up and waving at my friend J.B. J.B. lived not to far from me and we use to play football and stuff together. J.B. wasn't his name but it was what we called him. It stood for Jet Black. He didn't seem to mind and I thought he liked it. I now know, he probably didn't. I know it used to bother him when we would stop at the store after playing ball and they wouldn't let him in. I would have to go get his Mountain Dew and peanuts for him. But we were just kids. We didn't care, we just wanted to play and have fun. J.B. and his sister, Rosa Lee, were the only blacks in my school. Rosa was a big girl. Very quiet and very smart. She always sat in the back of the class by herself and I would make an effort to be nice to her. I liked her. I think she was afraid to talk to me though because she would never say anything. Just minded her own business. I've never forgotten about Rosa Lee and wonder what became of her and J.B.

Our schools were integrated before my sixth year started. I remember it being a really big deal for the adults. The kids didn't really seem to care. We all played football together and had a lot of fun. Of course we had to get on separate buses on the way home. Maybe it was just because we lived on the opposite sides of the tracks. I'm not sure.

I also remember coming out of Church, one Sunday morning, when I was about 11 or 12, and there were Church members passing out flyers. They were really dedicated and made sure everyone got one. They were flyers for the KKK rally that was taking place out in the fields that night. I guess we had quite a few clansman in our Church. Even at 12 years old this disturbed me quite a bit. My friends and I snuck out that night and headed out to this rally. When you are 12, curiosity over comes you, and some things you just have to do. I remember the five of us crawling through the woods following the lights until we came to the edge of a field. It was very scary. The field was full of people in white robes and hoods and they were singing "Onward Christian Soldiers" and other songs we sang on Sunday and they had 3 crosses a blaze. The lights we followed were these crosses being burned. We laid there listening and watching for about 10 minutes or so and then we glanced up at each other, stood up and ran. We ran and ran and ran. We never talked about that night again. I've always wondered if crosses were the only thing being burned that night. I doubt it.

When I turned 16 I quit going to Church. I stayed away from the Church for 30 years. Now as I go to the Methodists Church on Sunday, where we have five black members out of about 300, I realize, it's not the Church, it's the people that are evil. In the town where we now live, Dundee, Fl population 4,000, we still have a "blackie" town. Racism, is very much alive and well, in our town and through out the world. Will it ever change? I don't know. But I can pray that it does. I can respect people, for who they are, not what color they are. I can correct people when they start making racist remarks. I can choose not to associate with racists. Racism makes my stomach churn.

So what does any of this have to do with Real Estate? Everything my friends. Everything. Because of MLW we now have the "Civil Rights Act of 1964" and the "Voting Rights Act of 1965". Because of MLK, the healing has begun. We have a very long way to go but the journey has started.

MLK was a man of peace. He was non-violent and proved that it doesn't take force to win a battle. MLK was a hero. His speech "I have a dream" is a masterpiece and regarded as one of the finest speeches in American oratory.

So there you have it folks, my meager attempt at honoring a great man, through my experiences, seen through the eyes of a child. Take a few minutes tomorrow and say a prayer for our Country and my heroes Martin Luther King, J.B. and Rosa Lee.

Martin Luther King, rest in peace my brother.

***The picture is from a school contest and is: First Prize co-winner, Rachel Waychunas, grade 5, Sayen Elementary School, Hamilton Ma.

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23 Comments on Martin Luther King, rest in peace my brother. (rerun)

Reserved Parking For "The Lovely Wife"...TLW...ROAR!

Blog Boy...

Wow. I woke up this morning thinking about this post.

I was going to suggest that you re-post it but thought for sure you'd say "No".

I guess I should have spoken up? :)  

TLW...ROAR!  

01/21/2008 05:20 PM by "The Lovely Wife"...Broker Bryant's Wife... (Co-Owner Tutas Towne Realty, Inc.)


WOW.  Nothing left to say.  Except thanks for putting this up.

01/21/2008 05:25 PM by Options Realty


Oh...

I forgot to mention that this post is a "Classic"...

You should make a tradition to re-post it on every MLK Day.

P.S. There. This time I spoke up :) 

TLW...ROAR!  

01/21/2008 05:26 PM by "The Lovely Wife"...Broker Bryant's Wife... (Co-Owner Tutas Towne Realty, Inc.)


Thank you for reposting. It is nice to see this again!

01/21/2008 05:26 PM by Flagstar Bank


Yep, should have spoken up. I needed to repost this today. It brings back lots of memories, some very good and some not so good. 

Thanks Laurie.

01/21/2008 05:27 PM by Bryant Tutas-Tutas Towne Realty, Inc


This is one post I'll never forget...thanks for sharing with a whole new group who may have not seen it the first time.  The message bears repeating.

01/21/2008 05:58 PM by Lola Audu~ Audu Real Estate~ Grand Rapids, MI Broker


Thanks for reposting I missed the original..  I am proud of you for speaking your mind.     Racism makes me sick....  I will not tolerate it EVER in my company.   

A great story and great tribute.... have a great day!

01/21/2008 06:16 PM by Desiree Daniels, Mercer County, NJ, Real Estate (RE/MAX Tri County)


Thanks Broker Bryant, of couse I wasn't here when it was originally posted. I grew up in the South too and I hate racism. When I moved to the mid-west in the 80's I thought all the racism would be gone. No, it is just not as blatent. I worked on a campaign for a man running for Gov of MI. He was African American, no biggie, right? WRONG. No one in Ann Arbor would let me put the signs in their yards, and it made me sick.

01/21/2008 06:20 PM by Missy Caulk Ann Arbor Real Estate (Keller Williams Ann Arbor, Michigan)


We traveled overseas and ended up here at age 10 so I didn't experience what you did. We were in DOD schools so there wasn't any such thing as segregation and all that.  I'm glad.

01/21/2008 06:29 PM by Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman (RA), HAWAII Real Estate & HAWAII Relocation (Century 21 Liberty Homes -Mililani, Hawaii)


BB , Nice tribute to Martin Luther King Jr,  It seems that we are making great progress dont you think? I suppose there will always be racists around, but I think we have come a long way,

01/21/2008 06:41 PM by Bradenton Florida Real Estate - Dan Forbes (Sarasota Metro Properties)


Bryant ~ Thanks for this post.  I didn't read it before.  Although I have never met you, I have lived things that you are written in this post.  See I was born in Little Rock, ARKANSAS.  I have lived in Georgia, Arkansas and California.  I am not a native Cali-girl!

I remember back to when the service stations, hamburger/hotstands, stores, churches, buses, taxi, trains, schools and please don't forget the schools were all the "colored folks" were either not welcome or served last if at all and just was not observed or respected at all. And name calling seemed to be a requirement!  I remember going to school with only blacks.  Only we were not called "black" back then.

I remember when we switched over being "blacks" instead of some of the other choice names.  I remember leaving the South and as a little girl promising I would never go back and basically I have only been to visit a few times.  In and out is always my plan when I visit relatives that are still living there.  I went back in September 2007 and it brought tears to my eyes to see that some places still have not changed that very much, but everybody seems to be adjusted to the way it is.

I remember being called names.... some you mentioned, some I won't mention. 

And I remember having sit- ins at my schools here in California for civil rights in the schools and every where else.  Sit ins for Civil Rights. 

To be honest, there is still a "slight" residue of those days still left in jobs, schools and other what should be Free to all opportunities - some right here in California and all over.....  Some places its mentioned, some not.  MLK was just one stepping stone to all of us gaining our rights that should never have been taken in the first place.

When I read and watched on TV about the Jenna 6, it brought back those days to me and tears came with the thought of there being places like that still existing and people being proud to be a part of the problem that those boys are going through.  I mean does anyone know how degrading it is to have some one put a rope up like its the hanging of "   " time or being called names, or by being looked at as less than someone else, or having to pull in forces from all over the world just to get something called "justice".  MLK did have a dream but I could not help but wonder how he would have helped out with Jenna 6.

Again, thanks for the post and leading me over to it.

01/21/2008 07:12 PM by Rosemary Brooks -Mother & Daughter (866)-750-8282 (Family Realty Group - 866-750-8282)


BB - A few years ago I visited St. Augustine FL where MLK's name was frequently used on the city tour.  It seems incredible that was so few years ago.  We've come a long way...we still have a way to go.

01/21/2008 07:24 PM by Laguna Homes|Laguna Condos| Laguna Real Estate|Marlene Bridges (Sherman Smith & Associates)


Amazing Grace.....I just revisited the speech in a rerun last night.  It is hard for anyone to recognize the sacrifices or issues faced.  I grew up in the north "Chicago" never giving these issues a thought.  I had friends that were Black, Oriental and Latin.  Wasn't raised in a household that considered race an issue and never heard a bad word directed toward racial issues.  So it was very surprising to go into other areas of the country and find poor living conditions and racial slurs common.

I attributed those issues to ignorance...but some must have been plain malicious.  This is a great post Broker Bryant.  Thanks for the rerun!

01/21/2008 07:25 PM by Gary White~ Grand Rapids Real Estate, FLexIt Realty, a call or click away! (Flexit Realty~Serving West Michigan)


I didn't write an MLK post as I remembered yours from last year.  Glad I could count on you to do the day "justice".  You're Aces.

01/21/2008 07:52 PM by ARDELL DellaLoggia (Sound Realty)


I wrote a post about MLK but it was not as experience filled as this.  I can't imagine what it was like to grow up in those times in the US.  I was raised overseas and did not know what it was like.

I believe we have come a long way but racism is covert not overt.  It is in the media, it is in the loans, housing, and neighborhoods all across this country.  The dream must continue.  We still need to improve.

01/21/2008 08:29 PM by Endea Thibodeaux, CLHMS, RECS Real Estate Auctions (Auction2Sell, LLC)


I missed this the first time around...  thanks for re-posting.  Hearing stories like this make me realize how unbelievably protected my life has been.  I grew up in a place that just didn't face these issues, because the town was primarily white.  I don't remember EVER hearing or seeing anything like what you've described.  It's hard for me to fathom that this garbage is still going on today!

01/22/2008 12:25 AM by Chico CA Real Estate by Sandi Bauman, Chico CA Realtor (Chico Homes Real Estate)


Wow... what a great tribute.  I'm a product of the deep south as well, Mississippi, and can tell you that racism is very much still alive and well... it shouldn't be, but it is.  Sadly, it isn't just in the south although it's somewhat more prevalent.   It's also a shame that it's kept alive by people on both sides of the isle, so to speak.  The media feeds it almost daily.  Every time I see a news anchor slant a story with race it just makes me sick. Perhaps someday we will evolve past this issue, but it will take a long time, I'm afraid.

01/22/2008 01:54 AM by Fairbanks Real Estate Broker Jesse Clifton (Jesse & Kathy Clifton, REALTORS - 907.699.6024 - )


Having grown up in North Florida I can remember many similar activities and attitudes. We have changed for the better, thanks to MLK's efforts to lead change. It is hard for me at times to remember the old days and ways. We have come a long way with much further to go....Good job, BB.

01/22/2008 09:43 AM by Gary Waters - Real Estate Agent Viera Suntree (Century 21 Baytree Realty www.moving2brevard.com)


Thanks to everyone for stopping by. I too felt this post was a very good tribute to MLK. Wish I had remebered to post it earlier in the day. 

I want to give a special thanks to Rosemary for sharing with us here. Thank you Rosemary.

01/22/2008 03:04 PM by Bryant Tutas-Tutas Towne Realty, Inc


Bryant ~ you are welcome and I appreciate your post and the other posts that I read on MLK. He was a good man with a good agenda.

01/22/2008 03:26 PM by Rosemary Brooks -Mother & Daughter (866)-750-8282 (Family Realty Group - 866-750-8282)


Wow. yes it is so sickening. But after all of these years, not much has really changed. Maybe 'out in the open' some has but inside many's heads....not so much.

01/22/2008 10:31 PM by Cape Coral Real Estate Broker | Susan Milner | Florida-Future-Realty.com (Florida Future Realty, Inc.)


Bryant

 I really enjoyed this post. Thanks for sharing your stories. I believe that it helps when we share experiences that are unique, to our own personal experiences. It gives us a different perspective than just our own. For me his is priceless. Thanks

01/22/2008 11:01 PM by Michelle Maddox - Fayetteville Real Estate Agent (Keller Williams)


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