Today I step gingerly back into the gentle, or not so gentle, tides of real estate blogging. Over the last months, most of my energy has been used to care for my terminally ill father who passed away last week. Dmitry and I have kept up with our existing clients, referred out some new clients and done what we could to stay on top of just about everything except for our own home (though it is a mile away from my parents’ home, I have not seen it since December 5th) and my dear little blog.

In the course of our family crisis, many people stepped forward and offered to do things for me. People brought us homemade dinner every night for months. A friend wrapped Katya’s Christmas gifts. People brought her ‘thinking of you’ presents long after Christmas. Bloggers from around the country offered to send posts, though I didn’t even have the energy to post other people’s work, so I did not accept the generous overtures from all who offered, though I did appreciate it.

I’ve known for a long time the the RE blogging community is a generous family. In my time of crisis, an idea came to me, and I need the help of others to see it made a reality. I would like to set up a site/wiki/list/group for bloggers in need and those who would like to help. In my mind I am calling it The Gift of a Blog, but brainstorming is welcome. Perhaps I should set up a Facebook Group for ideas? What I have in mind is a place where bloggers with a personal problem that is impacting their ability to keep up with posting could mention their need without having to go into much detail on their own blog. Members of the community who would like to join can offer to provide guest posts. Clearly, they will be some kind of generic-ish content.

So, if you are an RE blogger and you would like to help, either as a writer, “board member,” brainstormer, etc. leave me a comment and we will get started.

 
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39 Comments on The Gift of a Blog

JAN
22
2008
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Maureen, I am sorry for your loss. I am glad you had support and assistance in such a difficult time.
9:47am • #1
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Maureen, I am sorry to hear about your father. 

Your idea sounds like a great one! 

9:47am • #2
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So sorry to hear about your father.  You and I are so close geographically that I could have pitched it.

I understand the need to talk about it and have a community to talk open and freely about what you are going thru now and WILL BE going thru in the future.

Count me in on what every you have planned.

My experience is 10 years of strokes and more with my father.  Shortly after he passed my mother was diagnosed with colon caner.  It was something that should have been caught years before it was.

She's been gone for almost 3 years now.

I have a lot to offer with advise and listening skills

10:14am • #3
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Maureen,

Our sincere condolences to you and your family.  We had no idea.  May you find peace in your memories of your loved one.  This sounds like it could be an excellent idea indeed for the blogging community.  Not sure how it will work out but we'd love to hear some ideas about it.

10:15am • #4
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Maureen,

I am so sorry! I had no idea...please accept my condolences.

Put me on the list...I'll help in what ever way I can!

I'm sorry Maureen. 

10:18am • #5
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So sorry to hear about your loss. Parents are always tough.

I would love to help with your project from a more passive standpoint.   I have been stretching myself pretty thin lately.

10:18am • #6
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Maureen - so sorry to hear about your Dad. Thankfully you were able to spend some time with your family, despite how hard that can be. Time will heal the pain but the memories will linger.

I am happy to help any way I can. Life is incredibly busy now but would love to be involved to the extent I can.

Jeff 

10:21am • #7
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Maureen - My deepest condolences to you and your family. 

 

(I have never been good with this sort of stuff.  I typed 5 different comments and erased each one, I am sorry). 

10:25am • #8
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Maureen..... as so many others, so sorry to hear about your dad....   

In regards to your idea, this is an excellent idea. I guess I will be one just to offer my time and services per se. Not sure what I can add to this, but I would be willing to help in any way possible. Just let me know...  jbelonger@ihmci.com    I can say that I could be a guest blogger. Or just let me know if you need anything else.  thanks 

10:27am • #9
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Maureen,

I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your father. My sincere condolences to you and your family. Losing a parent is tough. I would like to help with your project in some way.

10:42am • #10
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I'm so sorry for your loss. 

I wondered why you were AWOL from your blog for so long. 

I'll be watching your project and would love to help bloggers in need.

10:47am • #11
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Maureen,

So sorry to hear of your loss.  I too lost my father not too long ago.  It's tough to keep up with anything other than the most urgent real estate needs. 

 A good friend of mine recommended a book that really helped me thru some sad times.  90 Minutes in Heaven. You can order it from Amazon.com at a very reasonable price if you'd like to try it.

 I'd be happy to be a guest blogger.  I have 20 years experience in real estate, both new construction and conventional real estate.  You can reach me at aprilh@remax.net.

 good luck toyou!

April

10:50am • #12
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MF,

I`m sorry for the loss of your Father.Losing a Family member is never easy for any of us.

If I can be of any assistance to you please let me know.

I`ve watched you help so many others over the last two years,whatever I can do would be our pleasure!

God Bless.  

11:06am • #13
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Maureen, what an excellent idea - I'm in just tell me what to do, where to go and how I can help. 
11:18am • #14
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It's good to see you back, I am sorry it is under the worst of circumstances.  My thoughts are with you and your family.
11:18am • #15
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My heart goes out to you Maureen. 

I lost a dear son to cancer last Spring.  The blessing was that he was no longer in pain. 

Be strong.  It gets easier. 

11:28am • #16
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 Hi Maureen, with life being as busy as it is, I had no idea either about you loss. My belated condolences. I lost my dad a few years ago and I still think of him everyday but now it's just the great memories of our time together. I hope God gives you the strength you need to get thru this rough period.
1:18pm • #17
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Maureen

I am so sorry to hear about your loss.  Count me among the ranks of those who love your "gift of a blog" idea.   I'll contribute in any, and every, way possible.  Lead the way, my friend.  Lead the way.

1:20pm • #18
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Maureen, I am so sorry, I had no clue. We lost my mother-in-law the day after Christmas, so sad. I wish I had known. I absolutely love your idea to help one another out, when we go through crisis. But, I don't suggest Facebook, is there another medium we could use? Some people have dropped out of Facebook with all the throwing stuff over there, and some people never joined and just don't get it. I'll offer you any help I can. 
1:28pm • #19
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Maureen,

Sorry to hear about your dad.

I'm with Missy, if there is another place we could have it......

Hmmmm, perhaps we could talk to Bob Stewart and get one of those "outside blogs" just for this and since it's for Active Rain folks, perhaps at no charge?  (Bob's gonna kick me over that one)

 

 

 

 

 

1:34pm • #20
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Hi Maureen,

My condolences on your loss, I can only imagine how you feel right now.  That is a really nice idea, as you know I will be pleased to help.  Nice to see you back.   

2:11pm • #21
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Hi Maureen - it is so nice to see you back here, and I am so very sorry about your dad.  I lost my mom and my grandfather not that long ago, and it is so painful.  It still hurts....

I love your idea of helping others when they need it most.  Please count me in as well.  Wonderful idea!

My thoughts are with you and your family.
Ann

2:50pm • #22
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I sorry about you dad. I've lost my so I understand your loss
3:45pm • #23
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Maureen, We have missed you.  I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family.  Your idea of a Gift Blog resonates deeply.  If you need assistance, let me know.
4:00pm • #24
Maureen,  Sorry about your loss.  Congrats on your gumption and the ability to continue to work!
4:52pm • #25
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How loving of you to spend time with your father during his illness and passing. It's a gift you won't regret giving, and the greatest one you could give your father.  Blessings to you and yours.

7:01pm • #26
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Maureen, So sorry for the loss of your Dad, What a blessing that you were able to be there for him in  his last days. Your idea for a gift blog is wonderful. Count me in. Ginger
8:06pm • #27
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I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your dad. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. If we can do anything please let us know.
8:24pm • #28
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Maureen, my condolences to your loss. How difficult it is to watch someone you truly love pass on. It sounds like you had lots of good friends to help you get through this difficult time in your life.  Glad to have you back.

Pepper

11:02pm • #29
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Sorry to hear about your loss.  I am glad to hear about the generosity of those who were bring dinner, etc.  What a statement that makes.
11:06pm • #30
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2008
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Maureen - a possible candidate for your efforts?

http://activerain.com/blogsview/346840/Need-Help-from-Fellow

12:32am • #31
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Maureen... I too am sorry to hear about your loss. I can't begin to imagine.  But I love your idea. Count me in. 
12:58am • #32
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Maureen - I am sorry for your loss - I have often thought about that exact situation and how to keep the blog running in a crisis - what a fabulous idea - I'd be happy to help - just keep me posted. :-)  
1:13am • #33
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I am so sorry about your father. I am glad that you are back though. My prayers are with you and your family. That is definitely a great idea. 
8:51am • #34
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I've missed seeing you around but am so glad that you were able to spend as much time as possible with your dad before he was called home.  Hang in there, and I'll keep an eye open for that new spot-what a great idea.
8:49pm • #35
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So very sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts.

Your idea is a nice one. Best of luck in getting it off the ground.

11:22pm • #36
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24
2008
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Thanks everyone for your condolences and for the support for the project.  

There is one thing that I do have clearly in mind for this, and it is that I do not want it to involve any solicitations for money.  I want to keep it quite simple in offering  posts for bloggers in need of them.

I am going to set up a conference call, and I will place a comment here with the time and date.  Those who might be interested in being on the steering committee or just learning more, will be welcome to participate.  I will post the details here soon. 

8:39am • #37
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31
2008
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Maureen sorry for your lost, like everyone else I did not have a clue. I thought you were concentrating on your outside blog.
7:47pm • #38
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MF ~ Sorry to hear of your loss.  Having a long illness like that is very tough on the family.  What a relief your family has deep roots and many friends in the area to help.  It is a tribute to you all to be so well recognized and loved.

 Your idea is unique and would be a wonderful resource for many.  Do it!

kk 

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