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Martin Luther King, rest in peace my brother.

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Tutas Towne Realty, Inc and Garden Views Realty, LLC BK607690

 Today, we celebrate Martin Luther King day. Where do I begin to write a post about this? First, I need to let you know that I grew up in the deep south as a son of a Lutheran Pastor. My formative years were the early sixties and during this time I lived all over Alabama, Mississippi, Georgia and South Carolina. Racism was alive and well in the little towns I grew up in. I can remember marching with MLK in Foley Alabama and the "good ole boys" throwing things at us and calling us names. The fact that we were white made their hatred towards us even worse. We were traitors and N....... lovers. I think I was 8 or 9 years old at the time. I couldn't understand what we were doing "wrong". It was just a parade.

I remember living in Saluda S.C. and going to the movie house on the weekends. It always struck me as strange that the "blackies" had to sit in the balcony. They wouldn't even let "them" in the theater until all us white folks were already in and seated. I can remember looking up and waving at my friend J.B. J.B. lived not to far from me and we use to play football and stuff together. J.B. wasn't his name but it was what we called him. It stood for Jet Black. He didn't seem to mind and I thought he liked it. I now know, he probably didn't. I know it used to bother him when we would stop at the store after playing ball and they wouldn't let him in. I would have to go get his Mountain Dew and peanuts for him. But we were just kids. We didn't care, we just wanted to play and have fun. J.B. and his sister, Rosa Lee, were the only blacks in my school. Rosa was a big girl. Very quiet and very smart. She always sat in the back of the class by herself and I would make an effort to be nice to her. I liked her. I think she was afraid to talk to me though because she would never say anything. Just minded her own business. I've never forgotten about Rosa Lee and wonder what became of her and J.B.

Our schools were integrated before my sixth year started. I remember it being a really big deal for the adults. The kids didn't really seem to care. We all played football together and had a lot of fun. Of course we had to get on separate buses on the way home. Maybe it was just because we lived on the opposite sides of the tracks. I'm not sure.

I also remember coming out of Church, one Sunday morning, when I was about 11 or 12, and there were Church members passing out flyers. They were really dedicated and made sure everyone got one. They were flyers for the KKK rally that was taking place out in the fields that night. I guess we had quite a few clansman in our Church. Even at 12 years old this disturbed me quite a bit. My friends and I snuck out that night and headed out to this rally. When you are 12, curiosity over comes you, and some things you just have to do. I remember the five of us crawling through the woods following the lights until we came to the edge of a field. It was very scary. The field was full of people in white robes and hoods and they were singing "Onward Christian Soldiers" and other songs we sang on Sunday and they had 3 crosses a blaze. The lights we followed were these crosses being burned. We laid there listening and watching for about 10 minutes or so and then we glanced up at each other, stood up and ran. We ran and ran and ran. We never talked about that night again. I've always wondered if crosses were the only thing being burned that night. I doubt it.

When I turned 16 I quit going to Church. I stayed away from the Church for 30 years. Now as I go to the Methodists Church on Sunday, where we have five black members out of about 300, I realize, it's not the Church, it's the people that are evil. In the town where we now live, Dundee, Fl population 4,000, we still have a "blackie" town. Racism, is very much alive and well, in our town and through out the world. Will it ever change? I don't know. But I can pray that it does. I can respect people, for who they are, not what color they are. I can correct people when they start making racist remarks. I can choose not to associate with racists. Racism makes my stomach churn.

So what does any of this have to do with Real Estate? Everything my friends. Everything. Because of MLW we now have the "Civil Rights Act of 1964" and the "Voting Rights Act of 1965". Because of MLK, the healing has begun. We have a very long way to go but the journey has started.

MLK was a man of peace. He was non-violent and proved that it doesn't take force to win a battle. MLK was a hero. His speech "I have a dream" is a masterpiece and regarded as one of the finest speeches in American oratory.

So there you have it folks, my meager attempt at honoring a great man, through my experiences, seen through the eyes of a child. Take a few minutes tomorrow and say a prayer for our Country and my heroes Martin Luther King, J.B. and Rosa Lee.

Martin Luther King, rest in peace my brother.

***The picture is from a school contest and is: First Prize co-winner, Rachel Waychunas, grade 5, Sayen Elementary School, Hamilton Ma.

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Comments(67)

Mitchell J Hall
Manhattan, NY
Lic Associate RE Broker - Manhattan & Brooklyn

Bryant, 

 I'm sorry I didn't see this post yesterday. It is quite moving. Thank you for sharing. I agree with many of the comments about racism in the north being more subtle but still there. One comment said:"If only we all saw the world through the eyes of children" that is very true, children are not prejudice it is taught to them from parents or teachers or peers.

I remember years ago my nephew was five and he was naming all his friends in school. His mother my sister -in-law said "what about the little black girl?" My nephew said "Mommy she's not a little back girl she's a little girl" I was blown away by what he said and realized how wrong his mother was to say something like that.

Jan 16, 2007 03:49 AM
Jaclyn Erwin
Jackson Erwin Realty, Inc. - Charlotte, NC
ABR,SFR, REALTOR®/BROKER, Charlotte NC.

Bryant,

What a beautiful tribute. You see, I was not fortunate to be young enough to witness this historical chapter. This is truly history. Much of what I have learned was from my ancestors, as they spoke around BBQs, across the dinner tables, during Sunday family gatherings, and the like talking about the "Times."

As I read your blog, I remembered how we as adults can learn from children. We are really the fools, the monsters, the key to negativity and destruction. It seems as man gets older, he also gets weaker in love. Children don't care about race, social status etc. Adults do. Worse off, adults contaminate their children, if they are not careful---permeating hatred throughout.

The only way we can change our future for the better is to proactively make a difference. Teach our children how to truly love and set examples.  Thank You for your beautiful post. If I was still teaching, I would share this with my students in class. Tonight, I will share this with my children as I tuck them in to bed and tell them, "Mommie Loves You."

Jan 16, 2007 01:45 PM
Ron Withers ----Retired Mortgage Professional
Kissimmee, FL

Bryant,

It's hard to add more to your post and what has been shared here. Superb tribute to MLK with a "personal touch." Obviously MLK's legacy is a defining moment (era) in our Nations history and the quest for racial equality. Wouldn't it be great to be able to sit in on a meeting between him and "Honest Abe."

Jan 16, 2007 09:43 PM
Harper Team
J Rockcliff Realtors - San Ramon, CA

Bryant - I attended college in Cochran, GA for a couple of quarters in 1969/70. They, too, had the balcony section. Only whites were allowed in the local "greasy spoon" - there was a side window like you see now for drive-thrus for blacks.

I also remember quite vividly coming around a corner in Muscle Shoals, Alabama in 1973 in a hotel van from the airport and finding a burning cross across the street from the Holiday Inn.

Jerry Spence, the renowned trial lawyer, had a great chapter in one of his books that came out around the time of the "OJ" trial. In it, is a chapter on racism in which he states - we are all racists. Every human being has prejudices and biases including those around race. The question is - do we recognize it or are we in denial or some other intellectually removed state of rationalization.

If we recognize it, there is hope for us. If we avoid the deep look into "The Heart of Darkness," we just act it  out in unconscious ways.

What's your dream? 

Jan 17, 2007 02:12 AM
Bryant Tutas
Tutas Towne Realty, Inc and Garden Views Realty, LLC - Winter Garden, FL
Selling Florida one home at a time
My dream is for color not to be an issue. I would love to read the paper, watch the news or whatever without color being a qualifying term. I don't need to know your color, I need to know your heart.
Jan 17, 2007 03:27 AM
"The Lovely Wife" The One And Only TLW.
President-Tutas Towne Realty, Inc. - Kissimmee, FL

The last few comments brought to mind a prayer request from a Church we have been to.

The prayer request stated that an elderly man had a heart attack and needed our prayers. The part that blew me away about this prayer request is that in the request in stated, for whatever reason, that the elderly man that needed our prayers was black. Black what? Was my response to this prayer request.

Does anyone other than me find that prayer request appalling? 

TLW...ROAR!

Jan 17, 2007 03:57 AM
Anonymous
3C
It's appalling, sad and racist.  Talk about good intentions gone bad
Jan 17, 2007 07:05 AM
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Nick M.
Certified Residential Appraiser- West Palm Beach Real Estate - West Palm Beach, FL
Realtor-Appraiser in West Palm-South Florida Real Estate Appraiser

Bryant, aka. BB..  thank you for sharing your experience. I am too young to have experienced these times, but hearing first hand fom you is moving.  I have seen/experienced and discussed many racist type ideas with friends from different races. Deep down I always wonder how these things affect them as people, whether they are aware of it or not. Their though process, actions and reactions to society and it's 'rules'.

It must have been something to have been there. Also, your story of your friendship is just another gold nugget about who you were and are today.

real estate appraiser serving florida counties: palm beach county, broward county, martin county, port saint lucie county, dade countyAs far as to comment on MLK, all I can say about Dr. Martin Luther King is that he deserves the upmost respect as he showed us how 1 person can make such a difference. Amazing. Sad to see that so many kids these days just dont get it and take their rights for granted. What Dr. King fought and ultimately gave his life for is so HUGE that everyone should be thankful.

Jan 17, 2007 07:32 AM
"The Lovely Wife" The One And Only TLW.
President-Tutas Towne Realty, Inc. - Kissimmee, FL
Thank you 3C I thought so too. The last place I would expect to see something like that was in a Church Prayer Request. TLW...ROAR!
Jan 17, 2007 09:42 AM
Carole Cohen
Howard Hanna Cleveland City Office - Cleveland, OH
Realtor, ePRO
On the plus side, I was reading an article in the Washington Post about a guy who has spent the last 20 years going all over the Country managing political campaigns and he decided to hang up his spurs, so to speak. He mentioned advice from James Carville, when he was wondering who to work for: don't work for a racist or a crook.  He said he stuck to that. I liked that! (of course, we don't always know ahead of time:-)
Jan 17, 2007 09:49 AM
Lola Audu
Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate - Grand Rapids, MI
Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI ~Welcome Home!

Thank you for including this post in Fraiche Aire!  I deeply appreciate the sharing of truth and shedding of light in the dark areas of our human experience.  This is what will ultimately transform our industry and country, one heart at a time.

Lola Audu, Grand Rapids, Michigan

Feb 12, 2007 02:56 AM
Bridgette Harris
Family First Mortgage, Corp. - Smyrna, TN
 Bryant, What a wonderful post! I couldn't agree with you more. Have a Blessed Day!
Feb 14, 2007 08:41 AM
Bryant Tutas
Tutas Towne Realty, Inc and Garden Views Realty, LLC - Winter Garden, FL
Selling Florida one home at a time
Thanks Bridgette, Welcome to AR by the way. I will look forward to seeing you around.
Feb 14, 2007 08:56 AM
Bridgette Harris
Family First Mortgage, Corp. - Smyrna, TN
Thanks for the warm welcome! Glad to be here.
Feb 20, 2007 05:47 AM
Heather Armstrong
Skogman Realty - Cedar Rapids, IA

I know I'm late reading this, I'm trying to "catch up" with everyone :)

Thank you for a very thoughtful, inspirational post.  I am looking forward to sharing it with my children so they can appreciate all the changes that have been made as well as the work still left to do.

Great writing!  Thanks again!

Mar 24, 2007 02:56 PM
Diane Aurit
LKN Realty, LLC - Mooresville, NC
Lake Norman Real Estate
Wow, I hardly know you yet I now have an immense respect for you.  Your honesty and passion ring so true.   I grew up in California and went to Berkeley so fighting racism seemed to be a part of my blood from very early on.  More recently I chaired the Equal Opportunity and Cultural Diversity Committee for the Calif. Assoc. of REALTORS and was president of the board of The Housing Rights Center of So. Calif. before moving to NC.  You are absolutely right my friend, racism is very much alive and well in the good old USA but as REALTORS we can make a difference; one family at a time.  Thanks again for bringing this back for us to read!
Sep 02, 2007 07:33 AM
Bryant Tutas
Tutas Towne Realty, Inc and Garden Views Realty, LLC - Winter Garden, FL
Selling Florida one home at a time
Hi Diane, Thanks for stopping by. This post brought back a lot of memories some good and some very very bad.
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