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When Did We Stop Talking About Boys & Start Talking About Cholesterol?

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with North Shore Suburbs & Chicago Real Estate

Girlfriends TalkingAging is not for the faint of heart.  Whether you’re approaching middle age, knee deep in the thick of it, or somewhere beyond – you know what I’m talking about.  Physical changes that seemingly appear overnight.  Insidious and somewhat subtle changes that unsuspectingly sneak up and catch you off guard.  Like those little aches and pains that cause you to exclaim, “Whoa, what the heck was that?!?”  Or, the sudden appearance of a few wrinkles here and some grey hairs there.  Not to mention those pesky 5-10 pounds you simply cannot lose.  Alas, aging happens to us all and unfortunately, there's not much we can do about it.  Surprisingly, however, getting older also shows up in other unsuspecting places.

I've heard people are taking statins to lower cholesterol know anything about those?  Whenever I meet with my girlfriends, our conversations typically include a litany of current health issues.  It never fails.  We talk about our individual health issues, the health issues of family members, and sometimes the health issues of other friends.  And, we don't discriminate – we talk about it all.  High blood pressure.  Colonoscopies.  Blood sugar and PSA levels.  Heartburn.  The number of weeks we had to wait for an appointment to see our doctors.  Everything.

When did this happen?  Think back to the time when you were in your 20's or 30's.  Can you imagine being a 25-year-old swingin' guy or gal, at a cool, hip, and groovy party – talking about your cholesterol levels?  When I was a little girl, I remember hearing my older relatives talk about stuff like this.  Never in my wildest dreams did I realize that years later – I would become one of them.

Aaargh!  The evidences of getting older are not necessarily staring back at you when you look into the mirror.  Who knew?

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Comments(18)

Rob D. Shepherd
RETIRED - Florence, OR
RETIRED

Time does creep up fast. I feel alot different than I did 10 years ago. Until I hit 50 it was all the same for me.

Nov 06, 2012 01:22 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Carie I remember at a younger age 'old' people talking about their health etc etc.  I vowed I'd never do it and I pretty much stick to that day by day.  There's so much interesting stuff to talk about that aches and pains and drugs!  And.....on the other hand I know all about those aches and pains that pop up easier from hiking - but I don't pay attention to them - much!!

Nov 06, 2012 02:40 AM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

Did anyone ever tell us getting older was going to be fun?  It sure isn't.....................

Nov 06, 2012 02:58 AM
Steven Cook
No Longer Processing Mortgages. - Tacoma, WA

Carie -- it can sneak up on you, though some things jump up and attack vigorously (like the grey hairs I started getting in my 20s).  Hopefully your medical professionals are properly balancing all your medications, so you still feel much younger.

Nov 06, 2012 03:03 AM
Carie Shapiro
North Shore Suburbs & Chicago Real Estate - Evanston, IL

Rob:  Yes, that is so true!  50 seems to be the 'magic number' for many people!

Anna:  Don't get me wrong -- my girlfriends and I talk about a whole lot of girlie stuff too :)  But, I know what you mean. I used to roll my eyes when I was younger and I would hear older people talking about health stuff.  Then you become one of those 'older people' ... <sigh>

Roger:  Whoever says getting older is fun is probably still a youngster :)

Steven:  'Jump up and attack' grey hairs ... LOL!  That's a funny way of expressing it :)  I still believe we're only as young as we feel -- and age is just a number, right?

Nov 06, 2012 07:27 AM
Steve Ewing - Keller Williams Realty
Keller Williams - Stockton, CA

Carie - Getting old is not for wimps.  I have heard that a lot lately.  The other one I heard waaaaaaay back when I was young was something about wasting youth on the young.  Oh well...  Thanks for the post.

Nov 06, 2012 07:53 AM
Donna Foerster
HomeSmart Realty Group - Parker, CO
Metro Denver Real Estate Assistant

Sadly Carie, I'm in the same boat.  I try hard not to talk about my ailments, meds, etc. but it happens naturally.  UGH!@

Nov 06, 2012 08:00 AM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

You look like a youngster yourself Carie.............;~)

Nov 06, 2012 08:00 AM
Carie Shapiro
North Shore Suburbs & Chicago Real Estate - Evanston, IL

Steve:  I agree.  Aging is definitely not for sissies ... LOL!  And, I've also heard the saying about youth being wasted on the young.  Oh well is right :)

Donna:  It does happen naturally :)  And, in every conversation, my girlfriends and I all have our stories to share!

Roger:  Aren't you sweet ... I knew I liked you :)

Nov 06, 2012 08:20 AM
Karen Baker
Sunset Beach and Beyond Realty - Sunset Beach, NC
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Carie ~> we don't have to get any older than we feel but nowadays we are more health conscious as we get older. Believe it has to do with our genes and family. More to worry about as we age.
Nov 06, 2012 08:53 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

When we go out with one  couples...the rule is:  Each person gets 5 minutes to talk about their health. Then no more discussion. It sometimes works.

Margaret

Nov 06, 2012 09:39 AM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Carie, I like your colorful writing, I am not sure how much I like the reminder of how old I am getting.

Have a great week and Think Young!

Nov 06, 2012 10:16 AM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

Carie, Someone in the group starts the discussion and then it is off and running trying to one up or educate the others so then won't fall prey. I will admit I participate some but I am never one to start the talk. I would rather be in denial and push the aches and pains to the back of my mind.

Nov 06, 2012 10:31 AM
Janis Borgueta
Newburgh, NY
Retired RE Salesperson

when you can use the words.. "groovy party" in a sentence about your past.. that means you are not 20 any more Carie... LOL.. I too know exactly what you are talking about.. but with time passing so quickly these days the aging process seems to speed up.. the alternative to aging.. well.. that is not really a good one either..When did it happen? who knows... but NOT talking about all the aches and pains of everyday life and nothing else is really quite a bore.. time to find more exciting things to do.. and keep young for as long as possible.

Nov 06, 2012 11:35 AM
Eve Alexander
Buyers Broker of Florida - Tampa, FL
Exclusively Representing ONLY Tampa Home Buyers

We get up early and go exercise so that I can pretend that I am still young...I don't want to be around anyone that talks otherwise...

Eve in Orlando

Nov 06, 2012 07:23 PM
Carie Shapiro
North Shore Suburbs & Chicago Real Estate - Evanston, IL

Frank & Karen:  I am much more health conscious than my relatives too.  And, yes ... genetics plays a role.

Margaret:  Hmmm, the 5 minute rule.  I'll have to try that ....

Bob:  Thanks!  And, I do try to think young.  If it weren't for these 'little' reminders sometimes, you know? :)

Debbie:  It is funny ... as you say, someone starts the discussion and then 'it's off and running.'  So true :)

Janis:  Oh, did 'groovy party' give me away ... LOL!  And, I agree.  Talking mostly about health issues would be a bore.  Luckily, my friends and I have somewhat interesting lives otherwise ... so there is always lots of fun stuff in there too!  It's just interesting how conversations always seem to include 'aging' health issues as you get older :)

Eve:  Getting up early to exercise ... now that's dedication!  Good for you -- I am all for exercising to help stay healthy and young :)

 

Nov 06, 2012 07:35 PM
Paula Bradfield
Bradfield Ramsey Group - Salida, CO
Your Salida Colorado area Realtor Team

Tooo funny! I will really watch my conversations..bodily movements and other workings! LOL!

Nov 07, 2012 06:49 AM
Tammie White, Broker
Franklin Homes Realty LLC - Franklin, TN
Franklin TN Homes for Sale

Carie, I was at a 50th birthday celebration on Saturday and this is exactly what happened. We started talking about our recent aches and pains and their treatments. I agree. There's been a shift in recent years. I am 53 and in excellent health but my husband is 62 with osteo-arthritis so health issues are a concern for us. We're more fortunate than most.

Nov 12, 2012 03:02 AM