All politics aside, and that is hard to believe from the title of this piece, sometimes wisdom is withheld from youth.  Sometimes, it is embodied within them.

At a town hall meeting in Salem, New Hampshire on January 7, 2008, while Hillary ClintonHillary Clinton, NH addressed the crowd, a pair of young men unfolded a sign and began chanting, "Iron my Shirt!"  Hillary responded admirably and the event was reported in the news.  The perpetrators were eventually discovered to be associated with a Boston show that regularly orchestrated similar antics.  OK, that's done, one would have thought, but no.

My daughter Sara Walters is a senior at the University of Michigan newspapersand she received Facebook notification a few days ago that several of her "friends" had joined a new group called, "Hillary Clinton:  Stop Running for President and Make Me a Sandwich."  Well, as the attached op-ed piece details, she was perplexed and decided to check out the group.  There were over 30,000 student members of this new Facebook group!  I would detail her reaction and thoughts but she did it far better than I ever could.  The Ann Arbor News agreed and will be running the piece as a guest editorial, complete with head shot and biography, in the February 3rd Sunday edition.  

Interestingly enough, Sara has not decided yet whether Clinton will be her candidate of choice, should she win the Democratic nomination, but she is wise enough to know discrimination when she sees it.  At times it is as blatant as this; at other times it is suggested in remarks such as, "Cleavage sells".  I was told that by an older realtor when I first entered this business 3 years ago.  I've got news - it is not the cleavage that is selling; it's the brains.  I'm with you Hillary, and Sara may be too.

Here is Sara's original piece, with her permission:sandwich

 

 

Sara Walters

University of Michigan

 

Today I am disappointed in America, and the reason is tucked, unassumingly, between a party invitation and a photo upload announcement on the homepage of my Facebook account: "7 of your friends joined the group Hillary Clinton: Stop Running for President and Make Me a Sandwich."

With a feeling of intrigue mixed with disgust, I click on the link and discover that 30,027 of my fellow students evidently espouse this Stepford Wives philosophy of politics. My stomach begins to turn before I even scroll down to reveal a link to the group-sponsored T-shirts for purchase, which feature an inspired pictorial equation: Hillary Clinton minus White House plus sandwich equals thumbs up. Inexplicably, the design is available on a choice of two shirts-a standard adult-size cotton tee, and a fitted women's top with capped sleeves.

What is happening here?

I did not imagine that as the first presidential election of my adult life approached, eighty years after the suffrage movement, that I would see collegiate men and women coming together so eagerly to preserve the male leadership status quo. It's one thing to disagree with Clinton's politics, and the members of Make Me a Sandwich certainly do; the discussion board's most-commented topic, Why Do You REALLY Not Like Hilary? [sic], is saturated with arguments against every issue from her platform, many of them well-reasoned and articulate. But it is an entirely different matter to imply, even jocularly, that Clinton's main offense is her noncompliance with antiquated gender roles. Clinton's femininity seems to be the key complaint of many less enlightened respondents to the prompt, who betray their bias in hasty, ungrammatical rants. Explanations of malcontent mostly begin with vague theses like "shes a bitch," or "bill clinton cheated on her," although some are more pointed: "she is a woman!!!!!! she will menstruate all over the country!!!!".

Maybe these Make Me a Sandwich devotees are just jumping on the bad-joke bandwagon, a kind of willing suspension of dissent in the name of non-PC hilarity. Maybe they are supporters of Republican candidate Mike Huckabee, whose 1998 support of wifely submission seems too much like a Leave it to Beaver throwback to elicit much response, in my age group at least, besides a shake of the head and kind of nervous laughter. Or maybe they're just adapting Clinton's unique position to their mudslinging needs, the same way that nineteenth-century voters balked at John Quincy Adam's fashion ineptitude or Abe Lincoln's gangly physique.

If Clinton wins the nomination, I expect the group's membership will only increase, welcoming in frightened conservatives and disgruntled liberals. I just hope that when election day rolls around and the members of Make Me a Sandwich head en masse to the polls, proudly displaying their witty his-and-her protest tees, that it will be Hillary's politics- not her phenotype-that will make them bypass her name as they cast their votes, hoping against hope for a 44th male president of the United States.

 

***Sara is majoring in English Literature with a minor in art history, following a study abroad program in France this spring.  She expects to graduate a semester early, December, 2008.  She hopes to secure a position in the publishing industry upon graduation.  

 

  

 

27 Comments on Hillary Clinton! Make Me A Sandwich!

What a great article that your daughter wrote! It is very well articulated and I would hope that it gets people to think!

01/24/2008 01:20 AM by Libby Cousins- Contract Mortgage Processor (Extraordinary Processing)


I think a lot of us are still undecided.  We have a ways to go before we have to make up our minds.  I guess there's something to be said to being around when the first woman is elected, maybe a vote for her is a vote for ourselves being around when history is made.

01/24/2008 01:31 AM by ARDELL DellaLoggia (Sound Realty)


Man kind, aren't we a quirky lot? Every one has a different opinion. While it puts a smile on my face what some people think up, doesn't necessarily mean I agree. One last thought, I saw a bumper sticker that read " I support Monica Lewinsky's ex boyfriends wife for President"

01/24/2008 03:42 AM by Rob Baldwin, Santa Clarita REALTORĀ® (Pinnacle Estate Properties)


Considering that the Mrs. Bill Clinton Campaign has already been caught planting questions, would it be below them to start staging their outbursts?  I say, not a chance.  It gets attention for them, its gets people feeling sorry for her, and it forces Democrats to choose a black guy with a funny name, the woman a victim of sexism, adultery, etc or a trial lawyer. 

If I were a Dem, I'd pull for Edwards because he's the only one who has been on message and the other two can only say the words "change, change, change, change, change." 

01/24/2008 05:31 AM by Jonathan Osman - Charlotte / Matthews NC (Keller Williams Realty)


Thanks, Libby, for understanding and appreciating the point!

Ardell, Rob, and Jonathon, I think you missed it!  The point is that this woman, whether she is the Democratic nominee or not, should not be portrayed by our youngest voters and supposedly enlightened college students as a non-contender because she is a woman.  It's not 1950 anymore.  My daughter hasn't decided who to vote for, nor have I, but if over 30,000 students joined a group entitled "Barack Obama:  Stop Running For President and Go Pick Cotton"  there would surely be outrage!  It is not OK to be racist or sexist; I thought we were all past that.  

 

01/24/2008 09:09 AM by Susan Walters (Keller Williams Realty, Ann Arbor, MI)


Susan:

Congrats to your daughter. She writes very well and I know you must be proud parents.

As to the make me a sandwich group, we all did crazy things in college and I suspect it was mostly formed tongue in cheek.  I have two girls and believe in girl power. I believe they can do anything and everything. That said, I teach them to watch what people do not what they say. We must elect leaders who have a conscience and listen to it and who understand the meaning if integrity: Who you are when no one is watching.

I tell my girls when they are dating to look for Character red flags. A man can change his behaviors: If he throws his dirty cloths on the floor he can learn to put them in the hamper. But if he lies, handles money poorly, is unfaithful..these are character traits and if you dislike them now you will hate them after 5 years of marriage.

01/24/2008 09:55 AM by Alan Kirkpatrick Austin Texas Real Estate (Austin Texas Homes)


Susan...  All politics aside, you have a daughter who is clearly a bright, articulate and mature young woman.  You have every right to be proud of her and her personal strength to speak out for what she believes.  It is young people like her that lead me to believe the future will be a bright one.

01/24/2008 10:24 AM by Steve Shatsky - Dallas Real Estate & Short Sale Specialist (Keller Williams-Dallas City Center)


I agree with your comments on character and character traits, Alan, and I know people can change.  Perhaps many of these students did join this group as a joke but again, if a group were to target Obama on race, Kucinich on height, Romney on religion - well, there would be/should be the same sense of outrage that my daughter felt and I share.  She and I are not even particularly politically aware but sometimes something just slaps you in the face.  This is one of those times, in large part because of the enormous membership of this Facebook group.  I shudder to think that it is character traits that prompted membership - the future looks bleak indeed if that is true.

01/24/2008 10:35 AM by Susan Walters (Keller Williams Realty, Ann Arbor, MI)


Thanks Steve - of course I agree with you!

01/24/2008 10:39 AM by Susan Walters (Keller Williams Realty, Ann Arbor, MI)


Indeed, politics as usual, interesting if you think about it. I doubt I would wish to go on record condemning any major candidate or potential future president, no matter how I felt about something. And whereas, I am hungry for a nice sandwich, these types of things just make a mess of the kitchen table. Lance

01/24/2008 01:47 PM by Lance Winslow (The Car Wash Guy)


OK, made me laugh.  Good points Lance, both in going on record and messing up the kitchen table.

I can't believe that these college kids haven't caught on that employers will be looking at their Facebook accounts and what they have there - the drunken photos, the groups they have joined, the comments they have made or received.  I tried to make that point years ago with my household of teenagers and think I succeeded.  Let's hope nothing comes back to haunt them, or me, in the future.

01/24/2008 01:57 PM by Susan Walters (Keller Williams Realty, Ann Arbor, MI)


Susan,

Well, I think some of them have by now, but who knows, you know all this is public record. Besides all this garbage is non-sense on TV, no sense in getting worked up over it? What would the departed President and Gentleman from Ann Arbor say about that? Bet he has something on that topic in his library? Lance

01/25/2008 12:38 AM by Lance Winslow (The Car Wash Guy)


Do you know why Hillary Clinton want to be President so bad?  She wants a chance to sleep in the Presidential bed.

01/25/2008 12:43 AM by Empire Realty


Susan - Congrats to your daughter for getting her article published. 

01/25/2008 07:09 AM by Jackie - Mortgage Virtual Assistant (Close-More-Loans.com)


Thanks Jackie and Heather!  Robert, nooooooooo.....

01/29/2008 07:09 PM by Susan Walters (Keller Williams Realty, Ann Arbor, MI)


We interviewed the founder of this group:

 

http://ladyandfluff.blogspot.com/2008/03/hillary-clinton-stop-running-for.html

03/20/2008 01:29 PM by Lady Chavez and Fluffgirl


Thanks for commenting, I'll pass this on to my daughter.  I think the most telling phrase in the responses was, "all I had to do was compromise my principles."  Always a good choice....

 

03/20/2008 02:08 PM by Susan Walters (Keller Williams Realty, Ann Arbor, MI)


Just make me a sandwich, please.

03/29/2008 12:00 PM by ...


Susan, you should be very proud of your daughter.  The fact that sexism is alive and well in this time is inexcusable, although not surprising.  Very inappropriate behavior.  Thank you for sharing your daughter's response to this.

03/29/2008 01:56 PM by Chris Fisher of StagersLIST.com Buy Stage Sell (StagersLIST.com)


Susan, I am dismayed by the college students reaction to this blatant appeal to sexism but very proud of you and your daughter for standing up for what you believe is right. The very fact that we have a woman running for the nomination is pretty exciting for me.

03/29/2008 02:32 PM by Bonnie Westbrook Grand Rapids MI Real Estate Marketing (Five Star Real Estate Ada MI)


Thanks Chris and Bonnie, Whatever the outcome of this runup to the election is, well, that was not my daughter's point or my point.  I guess the anonymous commenter above you did not understand that either.

P.S.  To Mr./Ms. anonymous up there, there's nothing you could say or do that would encourage me to make you a sandwich.  Make your own sandwich, I insist.  

03/29/2008 06:05 PM by Susan Walters (Keller Williams Realty, Ann Arbor, MI)


In light of what happened in the campaign it seems clear that HRC is less skilled at running for president than she is at making sandwiches & ironing shirts.

Methinks specialization is good.

06/13/2008 10:49 AM by


Got to love these anonymous comments....  If it had gone the other way, I guess you'd be expecting Barack Obama to be ironing his shirts and making sandwiches right now too?  I will be supporting him, by the way, hope you will be too.

06/13/2008 11:17 AM by


What kind of coward has to post their sexist comments anonymously?  If you believe it, put your name with it.  Otherwise, don't bother saying it.

06/13/2008 11:33 AM by Chris Fisher of StagersLIST.com Buy Stage Sell (StagersLIST.com)


Chris, That was me commenting anonymously above you - forgot to log in when I went directly from email notification of a comment on a post....  Maybe the commenter above me had the same problem?  Yeah, I didn't think so either.

06/15/2008 12:09 AM by Susan Walters (Keller Williams Realty, Ann Arbor, MI)


Susan - I was responding to the comment before yours.  Don't think he/she had the same problem as you.  I'm supporting him too.

Chris

06/15/2008 01:40 AM by Chris Fisher of StagersLIST.com Buy Stage Sell (StagersLIST.com)


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