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59 Comments on Is the American Dream Dead? Maybe, but . . .
. .then the American Dream is a simple methaphor. .
it should be replaced with "Your Own Dream"
That is the only part we can actually control .. .
Hi Mike. The definition of the "American Dream" changes but hopefully not the opportunity to find it.
These are still the best of times, you can fulfill dreams in the right real estate market, area. Hard work, creativity and you can accomplish anything as a little red hen. Lazy does not cut it.
Amen Amen Amen. My wife and I realized this same thing some years ago and decided to stop counting on somebody else for our well being and getting out and doing our own thing. We have been through hell at times, but it's totally worth it. Great post.
Mike, this is so true! If anyone expects the government to protect them in their old age, they are going to be in for a big surprise.
Wow! The comments have gotten away from me, but I've read them all. Thank you all for your thoughtful insights. Have a great Sunday.
Maybe it's a good thing for the younger generation to "shift" their aspirations or to change their values as to what's important.
You should send a copy of this to the current administration.
What you say is absolutely true. What concerns me is that this administration from its actions and philosophy is preaching the exact opposite. The dream they are selling is that you do not have to work hard anymore and the reason you have not gotten ahead and will not is that someone else (who is working hard and seeing the results of that labor) is responsible for your failure. They, the government, see this "unfairness" and is going to correct it by making it as difficult as they can for you to achieve the rewards that are normally the result of honest effort. They are going to proceed with their redistribution efforts.
Nearly 50% of the population has already bought into this "sitting on your behind-hold out your hand" philosophy. It is going to get worse. For the first time I am really afraid for this country. Our system of working hard and enjoying the rewards is being destroyed. I am hoping we can survive it, but in the meantime, I very,very afraid. You know the goose that laid the golden egg.
As I was reading your post and then the comments, because this is a topic about which I am passionate, I came upon Norma's comment in #47 and it gave me chills because she so eloquently just said what I had been thinking. I am with her - and absolutely concerned and afraid for this country. I am a very optimistic, positive person who always sees the silver lining in every situation - for once in my life, it's not so shiny.
Opportunity never goes out of style....Add some legs to the situation and you have a living dream in the making
The American dream isn't dead, it just might take a little more hard work than it used to. Love some of the previous comments here... how did so many people in our country get to believe they deserve so much for doing so little? What ever happened to old fashioned work ethic?
Gretchen
Well, I just can't resist---> the american dream.
Oh darn it Mike, you mean I have to work hard and take care of me and my family? I wanted the government to do it. It's not too late to bring back the American Dream, but structural changes need to be made soon and I don't see that happening. The High Tech companies in Silicon Valley hire top notch software engineers with starting salaries over $110,000/yr, but a lot of schools teach politically correct courses rather than hard core math, science and engineering.
Mike, I hope all the young people in your life heed your wonderful advice. My husband and I live frugally too. Haven't as much in savings as we would like but we keep working on it. Didn't hurt that I started a plan B too. :)
Great advice Mike. I also think higher education is all screwed up. Looking at what we do every day, I think it's terrible we encourage kids to only go to college (most Americans anyway believe college is the only way to succeed). Trade school, 12 month certification programs -- all are alternatives we should be encouraging our kids to look at.
I'm with Norma, #47, the landscape has changed dramatically and the ones who don't want to get off their arse to work with be reaping the benefits of the ones who take care of themselves.
Thank you all for all of the thoughful comments. I hope you all have wonderful Thanksgiving holiday.
Mike: There is good and bad news, as you well point out. The bad news is fairly obvious and has been repeated often. The good news? Those that have been in real estate for any length of time have ... in great numbers ... learned to "go with the flow". They've experienced the highs and lows of the markets (both real estate and financial), have probably learned the lessons you speak of, are resourceful, independent in nature, and are survivors. And they're always learning. Perhaps (at least to me) the most important character trait they have. You pass on very valuable info on which to establish future business. Wise professionals will take note ..
Gene
Mike, I still want to own property. My own home, rentals, maybe even flip some properties. Gotta keep moving forward. The companies aren't going to give us a retirement.
The American Dream has certainly become polluted with an entitlement mentality in the last several years, but underneath the dream of homeownership is still alive.