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He comes every Tuesday.

The engine's low growl and the frequent squeal of overmatched brakes audible long before he rounds the corner.  My son jumping up and down at the front door alerting me to the approaching Twuck! Twuck!

Stepping outside in pajama pants and robe, I make my way to my usual vantage point on the porch sipping my second cup of coffee. Kenyan this morning. Jack has already shot across the front lawn and is standing on the lower horizontal rung of the picket fence. Peering over the wickets, silently urging the big, yellow truck to round the bend already, he bounces in unrestrained glee. Have I ever been so free?

To delighted peals of laughter, the garbage truck makes the turn onto our street. It stops at the neighbor's house, collects its haul, returns the black can to the sidewalk and moves on. At Randy's house. Now at Steve's.

All that stands between us now is AJ's place.

Here he comes. Chuffing the horn and waiving to Jack, the garbage man rumbles past the fence enroute to the can on the other side of the driveway.

As the mechanical arm effortlessly hoists the full can which I pulled to the curb the night before with such difficulty, I am as mesmerized as my son. Another week's worth of clutter and debris whisked away.

We both stand rooted in place as the truck makes its way down the street. To Marcy's. Now the neighbor beyond whom we have never met. The nice couple with the young children. The odd family with the anti-abortion stickers on their cars, religious idols in the yard and recumbent bicycles in the garage. The kindly, older bachelor with the little pug and FSBO sign in the yard. The retired couple with the fake flowers on the front walk and Green Bay Packer paraphernalia which reminds them of home.

The street's burden relieved, the garbage man makes a right turn at the stop sign and disappears.

Only now does Jack climb down from the fence and dash back across the grass into Daddy's arms. Scooping him up, I linger for the briefest moment before sauntering back across the threshold to my day. The faint echoes of the truck's passage gone, the air feels cool and clean. Possibilities endless.

Brought to by the little hand which tugs at my own, I ruffle his hair and head inside.

Time to get started on this week's mess.

 

Waiting for the garbage truck

 

 

35 Comments on Out with the Old, In with the New

Paul, my boys got excited too. Fun times. Now I have to scream to get them to carry it out on Tuesday's. What a difference a few years makes.

01/26/2008 11:20 AM by Missy Caulk Ann Arbor Realtor Ann Arbor Real Estate (Keller Williams Ann Arbor)


I'm with Missy....takes a lot to get my son to go out and mow my mom's lawn or take the trash out....in between pc game lol! Enjoy the time Paul!

01/26/2008 11:28 AM by Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman (RA), e-PRO HAWAII Real Estate & HAWAII Relocation (Century 21 Liberty Homes -Mililani, Hawaii)


Paul; Enjoy it and take it all in while they are little.

01/26/2008 11:37 AM by Camarillo CA Real Estate Agent/ Mana Tulberg (Beach View Real Estate)


Paul, you have the cutest boys. Sure makes me wish mine was still small. If I could have I would have had a houseful of little boys..they are too fun. (But, then they grow up)

01/26/2008 11:44 AM by Linda Scanlan (A Fan of AR)


My cheeks hurt from grinning soooo big.  What a wonderful post, Paul.  Made me feel like I was right there.  I think I was actually holding my breath waiting for the truck to get to your house!

One of my neighbors actually places 3 cans of Coke out for the Garbage Guys each week.  He figures that by the time they get to his house, it's time for a soda break.  :-)

Last week, it was so cold, my neighbor left 3 pairs of work gloves out for them!

01/26/2008 11:44 AM by Roswell Georgia Real Estate Agent - Nancy Rivera (RE/MAX Leading Edge in Roswell Ga)


Paul, if we could see everything through our childrens eyes, things would be so much better. Thanks for sharing a smile this morning. Here is how I look right now. Sunshine

01/26/2008 11:52 AM by Danny Thornton (Home America Mortgage, INC.)


If only our messy lives could be wiped fresh with such ease and regularity. But then, the messes are sometimes worth holding onto, aren't they?! This is so, so beautiful Paul. You know you're just fueling my baby desires with this precious portrayal of little Jack ;)

You better start Dead Rainers soon... this would be a feature for sure! Such wonderful writing!! Thank you.....

01/26/2008 12:03 PM by Portland Oregon Real Estate Broker * Jennifer Bukaty * (RE/MAX equity group, inc.)


Which is, of course, why Tonka is a hero to parents and children alike.  We have Tonkas in our family from th early 1950s.

 

01/26/2008 01:10 PM by Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Real Estate


Paul,  Your words are so poetic. Do you yearn for a career as a writer? If you can paint this picture so well, imagine a whole book full.

01/26/2008 01:44 PM by Judy Tuscano, NH Real Estate Professional (Prudential Verani Realty)


That was sweet but I am with the rest enjoy it while you can just spent the better part of an hour burning trash that I thought had already been done.

01/26/2008 02:27 PM by Linda Futral Sells Coweta, Heard, Meriwether & Troup (RE/MAX Today)


Hi, Missy. I'm sure it won't be long before I am in your spot.  They grow so darned fast.  I guess since he doesn't take the trash out now, not much will be different, though. ;)

Hi, Sally.  Aside from the cataclysmic meltdown he just pitched when we made him leave the park this afternoon, I'm enjoying every second.  Thanks for stopping by.

I'm really trying to, Mana.  Thanks for the advice.

 

01/26/2008 03:56 PM by Paul Slaybaugh, Scottsdale AZ Real Estate (Realty Executives)


Anyone that can write a story about a garbage twuck and a liitle tyke, has got my vote. A real pleasure to read.

PS, you might want to look into writing/publishing " Children's Stories for Adult Learning "

01/26/2008 03:57 PM by San Diego Real Estate Voice authored by William Johnson GRI CRS e-PRO (RE/MAX Associates)


We're still fun when we grow up, Linda! ;)

Nancy, it sounds like you have a pretty neat neighbor.  All I leave my garbage man is a bunch of dirty diapers and old egg cartons.

01/26/2008 04:00 PM by Paul Slaybaugh, Scottsdale AZ Real Estate (Realty Executives)


Danny, you are positively glowing, my friend!  So true what you say.  Children know nothing other than the pursuit of fun.  It can be found anywhere, so you don't even really have to look.

01/26/2008 04:03 PM by Paul Slaybaugh, Scottsdale AZ Real Estate (Realty Executives)


Indeed, Jennifer.  What a thing to simply wheel your troubles to the curb every week for pick up.  Of course, the ulterior motive here was to cause women across the country of child-bearing age to be struck with baby fever, thus ensuing the future health of this great nation.  Sounds like mission accomplished ;)

I am going to start that group, I think.  And the only reason this would be featured is because I'll moderate!  Thank you!

01/26/2008 04:16 PM by Paul Slaybaugh, Scottsdale AZ Real Estate (Realty Executives)


Amanda:  ... or big trucks.

I'm officially jealous, Lenn

Judy, you are too kind.  In my heart of hearts, I will always want to be a writer.  Just think how love for the written word translates to my property marketing ;)

Linda, you won't find people burning trash here in the desert.  Big no-no.  But I get your drift.  Thanks for your comment.

 

01/26/2008 04:21 PM by Paul Slaybaugh, Scottsdale AZ Real Estate (Realty Executives)


That is actually a heck of an idea, William.  Thanks for stopping in, as always, with a nice thing to say.

01/26/2008 04:24 PM by Paul Slaybaugh, Scottsdale AZ Real Estate (Realty Executives)


I just finally stopped with the mom tears over my son's 18th and you send me right back to the twuck days.  That tiny little body, climbing on the fence, so small and so vibrant -- I can imagine him turning around with his eyes shining.  You know what?  My son's eyes still shine like that, and your son's will too.  My son just looks down from his 6'2" view now.  Different body, same spark in the eyes!  Enjoy the road, Paul!

01/26/2008 06:22 PM by Elaine Hanson, REALTOR® ~ Topanga, CA Real Estate Specialist (Pritchett-Rapf & Assoc. Realtors, Topanga)


Isn't it funny how much they love the garbage man?  Mine now says "garbage man swiped our stuff".  Too much Dora Explorer.

01/26/2008 07:01 PM by Ginger Wilcox, Marin County Realtor (Pacific Union, Marin Real Estate)


Paul, this was great. They do grow up so fast...glad you can take the time to be in the moment. BTW, it brought me back to when my son used to love to watch the "big cups"....(trucks) Little boys are about as precious as they come.

Colleen

01/26/2008 10:39 PM by Maple Valley WA Broker/Owner Colleen Fischesser 425-432-5400 (RE/MAX Select Real Estate)


While there is little risk of any child of mine reaching 6'2, your point holds true, Elaine.  Reading posts from you and others about them growing up so fast really helps me focus on savoring each precious moment.  I can't thank you enough for that. 

My niece is a huge Dora watcher, Ginger.  Her thing is for Diego, though.  She's always rescuing something these days.

Sure does, Mark.

It will be a sad day when he can execute such words and phrases flawlessly, Colleen.  How can your heart not melt when they ask for the choo choo park or up pease (when he wants to be picked up)?

01/27/2008 12:00 AM by Paul Slaybaugh, Scottsdale AZ Real Estate (Realty Executives)


Paul - don't you just love it! The simple things in life, the child's life is full of those. Our son just this past year stopped running out to see the garbage truck. Time goes by so fast, hold each moment as long as you can. Katerina

01/27/2008 12:40 AM by Nestor & Katerina Gasset Realtors® Wellington Florida Luxury Homes (International Properties and Investments, Inc.)


Paul - This is a lovely post about the time with your son.  It's awesome to watch them grow and learn and to see the things that they get excited about when they are little.  I left a nice message for you on Danny's post. 

01/27/2008 01:00 AM by Jason Crouch, Broker - Austin Texas Real Estate (Austin Texas Homes, LLC)


Paul, you're lucky to have these posts as a journal of sorts. I had completely forgotten, until my sister reminded me, of how my son used to say "Mommy, hold-you-me". I used to ask him "do you want me to hold you?" and he thought "hold you" was one word. <Sigh> Good times.

 

01/27/2008 11:18 AM by Maple Valley WA Broker/Owner Colleen Fischesser 425-432-5400 (RE/MAX Select Real Estate)


Paul, what a great post.  Enjoy these times with the boys... I swear they will be 30 before you know it... though the teen years do seem to drag on forever. ha

01/27/2008 06:41 PM by Fairbanks Real Estate Broker Jesse Clifton (Jesse & Kathy Clifton, REALTORS - 907.699.6024 - )


Paul,  What a sweet story.  I could picture it happening.  Children are so innocent. 

01/27/2008 07:05 PM by Marc Grossman, GRI - Central Florida Real Estate Specialist (Keller Williams Heritage Realty)


Kids are wonderful - the  odd people with the anti-abortion stickers  got that right.

01/27/2008 07:58 PM by Art Lordbock ~ Brainerd , MN Roofing Company (Quality Roof Systems)


Art:  They aren't odd because of the bumper sticker.  They're simply odd.  The bumper sticker reference was merely descriptive.  Don't be so linear, my man.  You have no idea what my thoughts are on the subject, nor will you. 

Marc:  Thanks.  I could write a thousand of these for all the little things they do.

Jesse:  I'll take heed.  I promise.

Colleen:  Aside from the networking and consumer-driven benefits, that is fast becoming one of my top ulterior motives for posting here.  I love that I will have this blog to refer back to when they are older.

Jason:  Thanks for the endorsement.  I'll have to go find that "nice" comment you left for me now.  Sounds highly dubious.

Katerina:  Your little one may not run out to see the garbage truck anymore, but I bet he has replaced that ritual with another one.  I know it will be hard for me to let go of these times as they grow older, but I will be just as fascinated to see what is yet to come.  Thanks for reading.

01/27/2008 08:31 PM by Paul Slaybaugh, Scottsdale AZ Real Estate (Realty Executives)


Wonderful!  It was only with the discovery of professional wrestling (ugh!) that my youngest gave up his dream of driving the garbage truck for a living.  I remember how excited he would be to hear the truck coming down the street....and if they actually used the masher in front of our house?  It made his entire day :)

01/27/2008 10:12 PM by Lisa Heindel, New Orleans West Bank Real Estate (Latter & Blum Inc. Realtors)


It's not just the garbage truck either, Lisa.  He gets pretty amped up for the school bus that stops virtually right across the street every morning, the mailman ("May twuck! May twuck!"), UPS truck ... he's an equal opportunity big vehicle enthusiast.  The garbage truck does hold a special place of honor, though, right along railroad trains.

01/27/2008 10:29 PM by Paul Slaybaugh, Scottsdale AZ Real Estate (Realty Executives)


Paul, You are so lucky!  Those boys will appreciate your writing when they are older, it will help them when they have their own children.  You are an awesome dad! 

Keep writing. 

 

01/31/2008 02:29 AM by Phoenix Arizona Real Estate ~ Doreen McPherson (Keller Williams Arizona Realty ~ Scottsdale ~ Tempe)


PAUL - I still remember the pure excitement that my son used to have when the garbage trucks came around.  Enjoy this phase, because one day, you're going to tell him that the garbage truck is coming, and he's going to be busy doing something else.  Seemingly overnight, the switch was flipped, and the excitement was replaced by apathy.  It inspires you to appreciate each moment, because once they are gone, they are gone forever.

01/31/2008 05:11 AM by Adam Waldman - Long Island REALTOR® (RE/MAX Best)


I love how you describe this, I can see it like I am there! What a cutie! I can imagine how mesmerizing the truck is to him...how nice that you take the time to see this, really see it and savor it. Before you know it they are 6'4" and barely resemble the little  curious monkey they once were....nostalgia tugs at me now.

01/31/2008 07:44 AM by Brentwood TN Real Estate/Homes - Vanessa Stalets REALTOR® (RE/MAX Elite)


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