No, I'm Not Dying...
How do you measure your financial sucess?
Reading through the struggles that some new people are having reminds me of the way that I always used to think about my finances.
"If everything that is scheduled to close, closes... I'll have money to live for the next three months..."
"....if I don't get a closing soon, I'll run out of credit card room in two months"
My buddy Steve and I used to call it.."I've got _ months to live" and it's how we told each other how we were doing. In our brutally honest way we pushed each other to develop a better "cushion" at the same time sharing our difficulties. There was a time or two when it got down to 0 months... and then the miracle quick closing came through... That's the thing about wearing blinders and being committed... you kind of count on stuff like that to happen... because you've really got no choice.
I'm not even talking about being new... because even in my "mid-career" years when I was selling 35-40 houses
a year (average of $100,000 -$120,000 at the time) there were struggles.. some months without income... some long winters... My wife Lisa bought into the concept, I would be whining (I know, hard to believe!) and she would say "no big deal, we've got 4 months!"
I don't have to do that anymore, we measure difficulties in different ways now. But we don't forget... and that makes us appreciate what we've got.
moo
Moo ~ I so can identify...there have been many years when time was measured in how long to the next closing. The ups and downs of our business is very difficult to deal with...feast or famine. There is no security until one gets beyond that and starts to put some savings away and investments to fall back on.
kk