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Life has its own brake system.

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Cornerstone Business Group Inc 0225086119

Life has its own brake system, and whether you apply them or not, they do get applied.  I've been crazyBrakes busy for the past year.  The weeks prior to Thanksgiving through Christmas were insanely busy.  I had a lot of early mornings and late nights, but you do what you've got to do, until life puts the brakes on.

The week before Christmas, my mother and sister both ended up in the hospital with orthopedic surgeries.  Two closings that were scheduled for the week before Christmas were bumped into the days after Christmas, and then it snowed.  We can push lenders to hurry up.  We can drag buyers/sellers across the finish line, but we can't make bodies heal faster or weather cooperate without an act of God.

A bank contacted me today to check on one of the closings with the question, "Is there any chance this is going to close in December?"  My only response, "Who knows."  Life just put the brakes on.  I could start pulling my hair out, or I could start making calls, complaining, fussing, spewing whatever or I could do what I did.  I took a nap.  When life puts the brakes on a busy life, enjoy it.  You probably needed it.

Comments (18)

Doris Freeman
Zach Taylor Real Estate - Gallatin, TN
Broker/Agent, 615-961-7799

Sounds like you have definitely been busy, hopefully the New Year will bring you less chaos

 

Have A Wonderful New Year

Dec 26, 2012 08:49 AM
Jeanne Kozak
RE/MAX In Action - Martinsburg, WV
REALTOR and Broker/Owner in WV and VA

I think I need a brake job! Not sure mine are working very well..lol

Dec 26, 2012 08:53 AM
Larry O'Sullivan
Sandy, UT

Mike - good reminder that rest is needed in any amount of frantic activity.

Dec 26, 2012 09:07 AM
Jim Patton
Aspire Home Real Estate 209-404-0816 - Modesto, CA
Realtor - Stanislaus ,Merced, San Joaquin Counties

Good points Mike.  I hope your sister and mother are doing well.  Enjoy the rest of 2012.

Dec 26, 2012 10:40 AM
Suzi Sandore
RealtyONEGroup - San Diego, CA
North County San Diego Homes

Mike, I wish you a Prosperous and Peaceful 2013!

Dec 26, 2012 10:48 AM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

It was busy, Doris.  Thanks, and have a wonderful 2013.

I hear you, Jeanne.

Absolutely, Larry.  Happy New Year.

Thank you, Jim.  They are both home recuperating now. 

Thank you so much, Suzi, and the same to you.

Dec 26, 2012 11:04 AM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Mike, the orthopedic thing sounds scary, especially if it;s knees and snowy weather.  Hope your mom and sister on on the mend, and yeah, the settlements will happen. 

Dec 26, 2012 11:12 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Hi Mike,

I couldn't agree with you more! Sometimes you have to let nature take it's course!!

Dec 26, 2012 11:14 AM
Dick Greenberg
New Paradigm Partners LLC - Fort Collins, CO
Northern Colorado Residential Real Estate

Hi Mike - Good call on the nap. Sometimes you just have to go with the flow, and when that happens, you might as well make the most of it.

Dec 26, 2012 11:56 AM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

Pat, they're both home and on the mend.  Thanks for your kind thoughts.

You bet, Dorie.  It was nice to just take a break.

It was a nice nap too, Dick.  8=)

Dec 26, 2012 12:48 PM
Sussie Sutton
David Tracy Real Estate - Houston, TX
David Tracy Real Estate for Buyers & Sellers

It has been a crazy year. I can almost say I am glad it is over. However, a new one is starting up. Happy or sad...and am I glad? Who knows? Not me.

Dec 26, 2012 01:18 PM
Conrad Allen
Re/Max Professional Associates - Webster, MA
Webster, Ma, Realtor

Hi Mike.  Smart move taking the nap.  I hope your mother and sister are doing well.

Dec 26, 2012 07:39 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Morning Mike at least you have hair to pull out sir.  :~)  I'm thankful to be above ground and coping with this thing we call life.

Dec 26, 2012 07:42 PM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

We all need to stop every now and then and breath. Hope the "Nap" helped you!

Dec 26, 2012 07:57 PM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

Agreed, Sussie.  It has been one for the record books.

Thanks, Conrad.  They are both feeling a lot better at home.

I'm keeping it glued on, James.  8=)

It was very nice, L & S.  A good nap is always a good option when things are peppering me.  8-)

 

Dec 26, 2012 10:28 PM
Jill Sackler
Charles Rutenberg Realty Inc. 516-575-7500 - Long Beach, NY
LI South Shore Real Estate - Broker Associate

I agree. I feel the same way about getting sick. It's nature's way of telling you that you'd better slow down. You're moving too fast and taking on too much.

Dec 27, 2012 08:37 AM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

I hear you, Jill.  I've thought that same thing.

Dec 27, 2012 08:40 AM
Dr. Stacey-Ann Baugh
Century 21 New Millennium - Upper Marlboro, MD
A doctor who makes house calls.

I agree.  Sometimes the brakes are necessary for us to be able to carry on.  Hope your mother and sister are recovering well.

Dec 27, 2012 09:59 AM